Having been divorced for 2.5 years now, I find myself constantly having sexual fantasies about my ex. Honestly if she walked in the door right now and wanted to actually get back together I wouldn't (not in a million years). But when she enters my fantasies it's all I can think about. What does this mean?
2007-08-22 12:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It only means you find her attractive that's all,i bet you pick her for her looks and after you got her she wasn't the woman you thought she was.Most of us get together because of our looks some work out and others don't.
2007-08-22 12:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you miss having the kind of sex you guys had. I've been divorced for at least 25 years, I still dream about the way we made love, and I truly miss it. I wouldn't ever get back with him though. Love and sex are two different things. It's just that neither one separate, or together is enough to sustain a marriage. It's really too bad marriages take so much work. It would be nice if love and terrific sex were enough!
Blessed Be
2007-08-26 11:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously rethink your decision to divorce. May be the issues were not worth of losing her. Of course, I don't know anything about it, and it's entirely up to you, but just think about it. Otherwise, you are trapped. It will be very hard for you to have a healthy relationship with someone else when you keep lusting about your ex. Can you try to meet your ex? Can you try to seduce her? May be she won't be as good as your fantasies, and you would be able to move on. Right now you are in trouble.
2007-08-22 12:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because she is familiar to you. And although the relationship wasn't great, you guys probably had a fantastic sexual connection. I wouldn't let it bother you too much, fantasizing is harmless. I'm sure if you begin a new relationship with someone fabulous, the fantasies will stop.
2007-08-22 12:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once told my ex that she looked good enough to eat... Standing there in her shorts looking sharp...
When I told her I thought she would taste tart she bit her lip and walked away in tears.
Good thing I was joking! If she hadn't cheated on me I probably wouldn't have dumped her sorry a....
Sex was always top-notch. She'd claw at the sheets, go absolutely nuts, but I don't miss it at all.
2007-08-22 12:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really think it means anything significant.. I wouldn't worry about it too much, it probably just means that there's part of her that you miss sometimes.
2007-08-22 12:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by LIVE FREE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean a darn thing other than she was someone you felt comfortable having sex with. Don't sweat it and enjoy it.
2007-08-22 12:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by starszzzzzzz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing,just a fantasy.i did the same.when i found my new guy it diminished after a while
2007-08-22 12:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by STALKER BLOCK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she must have been great in the sack...
2007-08-22 12:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want to have hot sex! That's it nothing more nothing less!
2007-08-22 12:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋