Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

Hi,

My situation is this. My wife and I are quite happily married. She is a talented singer and wants to join a band or find a musician to practice and eventually play at local clubs. My concern is that my wife is an extremely attractive woman. I am not saying that because she is my wife but because it really is the case. Where ever she goes people compliment her on her beauty and her gentle demeanor. Being a man myself and knowing the attraction that people fel towards her, would I be an idiot to sit back and let her spend time with other adult men in the musical field? I worry that this could lead to an uncomfortable situation and in the worse case marital infidelity. I trust my wife but one can never be too sure of a situation until it avails itself. Should I be o.k. with this or should I say something to stop it. Men and women please reply.

Thanks.

2007-08-22 02:53:59 · 31 answers · asked by johnnywestervelt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was coming out of a bad divorce and convinced myself that all I needed was physical pleasure, I didn’t want to have any feelings at all. But after getting it all out of my system, I am finding lately that I do want more. I’m tired of being just a plaything. But I definitely do not think I can ever get married again. I am not cut out to be married, and it’s best for me to live alone. I'm okay with that. Yet I still long for a heartfelt connection with someone. Is it possible to have this but remain living independently? And where are all the good guys now that I'm looking for them! I am 35, btw.

2007-08-22 02:51:21 · 19 answers · asked by meagain 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been going out for a little over 9 months. THe first few months, we had it regularly and she was completely satisfied. I put her first in everything. I was the first one to make her orgasm orally. She said that for the last few weeks, she doesn't get excited by my body anymore. Naturally, a hit to the ego. However, I know that it might not be that. For some reason, she feels guilty after getting an orgasm and I think that is what is bothering her. She also doesn't have interest doing anything to herself. The last time we did it, it was one of the best times, if not, the best. That was in July. We've only had sex once after that and there wasn't anything there. She takes the pill too. Would it be out of the question that shes not interested in me because she's lost her sex drive? If so, how can I help her get it back?

2007-08-22 02:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To get to level to on answers

2007-08-22 02:46:53 · 4 answers · asked by Alexis M 3 in Singles & Dating

Can i? Can i??? Im from Ca... and is dat too far and bad??? i need an answer...

2007-08-22 02:46:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without knowing details, could you give an example of which man that i should choose??!!

2007-08-22 02:37:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men well, most men like/love sex because they are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm 100% of the time, in most cases in less than 10 minutes!!

Do you think women would like it as much as men if they too were guaranteed an orgasm 100% of the time and within 10 minutes? Or is it still emotional based like they always say?

2007-08-22 02:37:23 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION.!!! MY MOM DOESNT NOE WAT TO DO NO MORE!!! THEY MAKE NOISES EVERYDAY!! (MORE ON WINTER) THEY DO IT ON PURPOSE!! &SINCES IM FROM NY U CANT JUZ KICK THEM OUT.U MITE NEED TO GO TO COURT OR SOMETHING &&THEY R WAITING 4 US 2 DO THT SOO THAT MY PARENTS PAY THEM & THEY CAN GET A NEW HOUSE.&WE JUZ HAVE TO HOLD ON.I DUNNO WAT 2 DO NO MORE!!I`M NOT GETTING SLEEP!! HELP!! HELP MY FAMILY TOO PLEAZ!!! (THEY LIVE UPSTAIR & WE DOWN STAIR) HELP!!

2007-08-22 02:34:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-22 02:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to find a relative that I haven't seen or known in a very long time. Anyone know was the best way to find info about this person? Dead or Alive

2007-08-22 02:33:18 · 2 answers · asked by sonianrodriguez30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex & I were together for 5 1/2 years & we split up basically in Nov '06. Meanwhile he has been living with this skanky *** married woman & her 4 children. Whom she just recently had an affair with his best friend & is now living with his other friend because neither of them have a job or anything for that matter. Recently we tried it again, I think his was under false pretenses because his parents were in town. I have loved this man with everything I have in me & tried so hard to make things right this last time. Well over the weekend, I found out I'm pregnant. I have a 12 yr old son who is mentally retarded and he is my life. I called him on Sunday to tell him & the first phone call was horrible he basically said ok. Then he called back a few hours later when she wasnt around & I told him we needed to talk face to face about his thoughts on what we should do. And here it is 3 days later & still no call. To me it sounds like she is more important than his first baby?

2007-08-22 02:26:59 · 28 answers · asked by cheeks4u21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i do about my ex? We have been on and off for the last 10 years ... i fell pregnant and had a beautiful baby boy (who sadly passed away soon after birth) Since my ex and i had split when i was early stages pregnant and gone back 2 someone else (who he had 2 kids with while we had broken up) i didnt tell him what had happened 2 our son? SHOULD I HAVE TOLD HIM EVEN THO HE WASN'T AROUND
Also now him and this other person are having another baby and are naming him what i named my son but with different spelling if its a boy or the girls name i have always loved with my name for a girl... This has upset me - Do i have a reason 2 be upset or not?
Part of me still loves him and wants him back and he has said he wants 2 leave the person he is with but will only do it IF i will go back 2 him? should i or should i just move on with my life?
Hope someone can help me.

2007-08-22 02:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well??

2007-08-22 02:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can someone give me some ideas how to fix a broken heart,,i cant go to back her as the situation is crazy,, she always blackmailing me.so i got to move on but i tempted to go back,,,,,,,,,,,,help please

2007-08-22 02:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by sedgwick 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried to talk to her about this but she will NOT listen. I tell her that I need time alone and I need other friends but she refuses to hear what I am saying. This has been going on for well over two years. I have a friend that lives away from here that tells me I am more than welcome to come visit. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that she would never agree to me going. I feel that I must get a break or I will have a BREAKDOWN!!! HELP!!!

2007-08-22 02:17:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi frds i know dis guy for a month ,he is single living all alone in same city like me.We use to chat a lot at specific time,everyday and exchanged texts and ph calss and meet in person as well.He was so much ineterseted in me and ask me few times to go out.He knew that i m not ready for sex but he was fine with dat and said wouldn't ask u for anything till i m ready.He was supposed to go for 5days business trip since he come back we didn't chat,he came online coz i ask him and replied my text but said he is very busy.I send him text and said y ur ignoring me like dis?He didn't say anything ,i send another one,didn't say again,i send 3rd one then he said CHILL BABY nothing like dat just been crazly busy?
Now wat does dis mean?it makes me feel he is ignoring but y?He was really interested before.

2007-08-22 02:10:51 · 9 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 02:09:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls reply..

2007-08-22 02:06:36 · 5 answers · asked by mariecris 1 in Weddings

2007-08-22 02:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by NELE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have like 50 songs I want played at my wedding! I picked them out myself bc I want to make sure they were clean with a good variety.

2007-08-22 02:02:12 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

Q's asking about explicit sexual activity from someone whose account was created today or yesterday is from someone too young to be asking about it and, citing the nature of some of these Q's, much too immature to even be thinking about doing what they're talking about. It concerns me.

Sex is pleasurable, but it carries potentially serious consequences, like disease or pregnancy, not to mention the potential for some very involved and intense emotional resonses.


If you're out of school, do you agree? If you're in school, how much pressure do you actually feel to do this sort of stuff?

Enjoy being kids. If you want to be grown up, I'll trade you, 'cause while it's not bad, it sure isn't all it's cracked up to be.

2007-08-22 02:00:17 · 16 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Everytime i wanna express my feelings, i hold back. how can i understand that i have freedom of speech in America??

2007-08-22 01:57:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out recently one of my good friends has Autism. I didn't even notice really. I know that might be dumb of me but he's not all the things that Autism usually does...he's actually very social,he does football,plays,choir,everything. And I think I like him a lot...not for sure though. and he's a romantic fool like me. But i'm just wandering..what can I expect from him in a relationship? Because he even said he doesn't express himself that much.

2007-08-22 01:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend he has a girlfriend who he barely meets,,
I had a girlfriend who i used to meet once a week.. And i got vacation so i went back to sweden where iam from.. After 2 months she wants to break up.. In the beginning we used to talk alot but by the time it got less and less..
The friend i have barely calls her and meets her and she still want to be with him ... where did i go wrong? what mistakes did i do? Iam very confused since we were opposite to these people but they are still together and we are not..
Please help!!!!

2007-08-22 01:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance i feel wants sex every night, but i could live with only having sex once or twice a fortnight. And there is nothing that she can do to turn me on, I feel it is because I know she wants it that i cant get turned on, what do i do?

2007-08-22 01:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by lothian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her eyes are blue like the sea, her body is perfect, she has black long silky hair, she is smart and clever, she dont take drugs, she dont smokes, she dont drinks too much and our love is stronger than ever!!! What more can one man want(except money)???

2007-08-22 01:50:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have ever met! We saw the movie I Pronounce You Chuck and Larry and all of them hated it because it was too "vulgar." I mean come on - I loved it, I wasn't expecting an oscar winning preformance but it made me laugh and cry. Hey, I got to get away from watching the kids all day & SAHM duties!

I made the mistake of saying Oh I though Adam Sandler was cute in that movie and they all just stared at me in silence!

Maybe it's because I am the youngest one (28) and they are all in their late 30s or so. I'm wondering and SCARED, is this what I'm going to become? Is this how it is? They had absolutely no charisma, excitement, nothing! They had nothing to talk about except for visiting kids museums and doing back to school shopping I mean come on!!

Besides their attitude, they literally looked like they got out of bed. Messy hair and in sweats! Not to be mean is this part of why men feel like all the romance and excitement has died in their marriage and start to stray?

2007-08-22 01:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister says she will never date any more guys names starting with the letter A, as 2 guys she has dated were trouble. From now on, i will no longer date any michaels as i have dated 3 almost 4 of them and they all weren't good to me. As shallow as it sounds, do you have any theories?

2007-08-22 01:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for about a month and a half now. but she said she needed space to think about the relationship bcos she's a bit confused.

we've been on this break for only 3 days and it's already getting to me. i hate having to guess if we still have a chance together or not. she msges me hello sometimes which makes me hope even more that we do still have a chance. but i'm afraid i'll just get disappointed. can anyone please give me some advice? i really need help... what should i do?

thanks all

2007-08-22 01:41:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 01:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating