Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

I met this guy camping (im20, hes21).There was this very strong mutual chemistry when we met,and we became inseperable all weekend.We would just sit there and talk for hours.The problem is that we live in different provinces and its a hour plane ride to see each other.He has called me everynight since we met and talk for hours still.I really think this could turn into something really great. He told me last night that he is willing to do whatever it takes to make it work between us, and then brought up the idea of him transferring to the school close to me.He has to decide by October. I am going to see him in 2 weeks, and hes coming to see me 3 weeks after that. But the distance thing hurts alot.He told me that he doesnt want me to think that hes not thinking about moving and that he is alot, its just a big decision, that unfortunately has to be made fairly quickly. I am not pressuring him. He just kept saying hes going to make this work. What do u think?do u think he'll end up moving?

2007-08-22 05:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to surprise my husband with a nice weekend where i pamper him. Any ideas of something i can do??

2007-08-22 05:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by soldiersprincess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Where can I get good quaility wedding invitations that won't cost me more than my dress?

2007-08-22 05:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by TootsieGirl 3 in Weddings

I had long suspected that they are having an affair.

This guy friend of mine admitted that he's having an affair with this colleague in my dept when I jokingly asked him about it.

He's a father to 3 sons, she's a gorgeous smart lady. Ever since I knew of their affair, they counted me in for some of their gathering & we got very close now.

They care for each other. My female colleague is very understanding, always sparing a thought for his wife & sons. He's very loving towards my colleague too.

I am aware that, in actual fact, they are very miserable. Each of them once asked me if they shld split since there's going to be no outcome (w/o the presence of the other party).

Shld I just stay away from their mess or should I be advise them to split?? I am not trying to be nosey but they are deeply in love but can't be together just because they met too late, I just hope that I can help to end their misery.

2007-08-22 05:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by Momo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy who i've known for 2 years. He and i became best friends. After a while he started to like me and he then told me. I sort of like him. I like his personality a lot and hes truly is a wonderful guy. It's just in the past month and a half he has had two girlfriends. two girlfriends in less than 2 months is a lot. the things he tells me he hasn't told his other girl friends like you are beautiful, time stops beacuse of you and so on. during both of those relationships he has liked me.
He broke up with his second one last weeks and keeps on flirting with me. He and i click well. Yesterday we went out for lunch and he bought me roses. then last night he and i talked about his fantasies with me.
I overall sort of like him. there are just a few things i don't like about him. i really don't. and suggestions on what to decide?

2007-08-22 05:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I help my wife achieve one by herself? I mean, things she can do to "please" herself; without me putting "it" in her, but she doesn't like toys and stuff. What can she do and how can I assist her?

2007-08-22 05:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After all, cheating doesn't just affect the spouses, but it affects the children, as well. I can't help but think that if these people really cared about their children, they would be spending their time with them instead of getting their rocks off elsewhere.

2007-08-22 05:44:10 · 28 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 05:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by ZOI 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's see. I'm 19 and my husband is also 19. Both families approved. We've known each other since 5th gd. And have been together for 5 years. We got married on June 30th, 2007. We both work full time and go to school full time. Any advice for a long happy marriage. I'd like to hear from people that have a long marriage. NOT someone who is going to tell me i'm to young and i'm unsure of myself.

2007-08-22 05:41:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't love my husband anymore. He's hurt me too much and I can't stand being around him. I just want to be by myself. I told him this almost 3 months ago, we were all set to get an easy divorce but now he's decided that he doesn't want to let me go. He's smothering me, he went onto my myspace and deleted all my messages. He's freaking crazy. I know that I am gonna have to deal with him to a certain extent because of our daughter, but he's crazy. He's says that he's never gonna give up and he's never gonna leave me alone. What should I do to get rid of him?

2007-08-22 05:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by MrsWifey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you see this story?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070822/od_nm/russia_crime_penis_dc_1;_ylt=ArM7UKnuJjQAcwtLdWmphV9kM3wV

See? It is NOT possible to live with a man you hate!

Me? I am just glad to live very far away from my ex-husband's so I am not tempted to commit a crime!

2007-08-22 05:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm very much in love with a man who feels the same about me. I'm 39, he is 41 and neither of us have ever been with someone we share so much in common with, have as much fun with or have even been as physically & sexually attracted to.
If things were different we probably already be married. There is no other man I want to spend my life with but him. But things aren't different.
Has anyone else gone through this? How do you deal with the heartache of not being with the one you love?

2007-08-22 05:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by candy'sroom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is turning 28. His dad just got diagnosed with cancer and is in the hospital. My bf has been sitting by his dad's bedside since. He really isn't thinking about his b-day, but I want to at least have a cupcake or something there, in the hospital with his dad present. What, if anything should I give him as a gift? He is also my best friend, not just a boyfriend.

2007-08-22 05:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by JCHERRIE48 1 in Family

I suggested to someone on here that perhaps she should get even with her cheating husband by cheating on him. A lot of other people here have said that even cheaters don't deserve to get cheated on. Why not? Perhaps the only way they'll realize how much pain they've caused is if they experience it themselves!

2007-08-22 05:21:24 · 38 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have not one but two brother in laws that just make my skin crawl.

2007-08-22 05:20:52 · 10 answers · asked by ask me a 3 in Family

good guys get overlooked all the time. Why is that?

2007-08-22 05:17:56 · 23 answers · asked by Sk8rboi 1 in Singles & Dating

In the last year my husband stop telling me things that important in our daily lives. We have been married for 34 years. I hate I have to ask him about everything. He always says he is going to tell me but he never does. I have waited for him to tell me about things for 3 days. When is it going to stop.

2007-08-22 05:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Pepper1black 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In a divorce, if the husband was allways the one to pay for the house, water, electricity etc... while the mother took care of the children, can the courts make the ex husband pay for the house so that the ex wife and children can stay, if he was the one who made the money?

2007-08-22 05:09:32 · 12 answers · asked by l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have not talked to his mother for well over a year now. We had a disagreement with her and she took off out of state. She did not tell us that she moved, we found out from someone else. We know how to reach her if we want to. She has made no attempt to contact us at all. What started the whole thing was so little compared to what she turned it into. Before she left, she walked right by her son and me like she did not even know us. I just can not get over how easy it was for her to walk away from her own son.
Since this whole thing began, we have had 2 baby girls. Our first daughter past away last year, the other was born a couple months ago and is at home but with some medical issues. Should we let her know about the babies? Ever since I had the last baby, I have been feeling a need for family in the worst way. Should I let her know or should I let the sleeping dog lie? Thanks in advance!

2007-08-22 05:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by GlitterSno75 3 in Family

My husband has a daughter in FL he went down there to get a paternity test and all that done. Now that thats done his daughters mother no longer wants to allow her to come to IL to visit. I was wondering if n e one knew the laws and what the probability is in him being able to get visitation for her in IL where he needs to live.

2007-08-22 05:04:27 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And also, are Christian Scientists the same as Scientologists?

2007-08-22 05:03:37 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

How do you feel about these relationships?

I know the concept of the male being smarter is an old concept but Be honest with yourself, society today still, often see males as being the more smarter one in relationships.

I don't want bullshit answers about how everyone is smart in their own sense, i'm talking about her getting the high GPA/IQ/OP/RANK/etc. any intellectual grading system.

2007-08-22 05:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by Lucas W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The reason i ask this because a friend of mine emailed me and asked me how my summer was going,
I told her not that great, because this year i didnt have time to have "fun"

she wrote back
"you are an adult now, most people that do things all summer dont have to work they are in school n the 3 month is vacation. life is not all about plusure"

WHAT?? where in my old email did it say that i wanted my whole life to be about plusure<------- (lol)
What rule book is that written in??
BTW im 22!!! Please tell me
Just incase i missed the life rule 101 class

2007-08-22 05:02:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 05:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiancee's ex keeps calling our house phone. My phone company can't do anything about it because she's a "private caller" now. The police won't do anything about it - been there done that. (Last time I got a warrant for assualt and before they arrested her they told her to get a cross warrant for me - and I got arrested for a lie) So, I don't have many options. I have a daughter and she means more to me than fighting with anyone. I would really like to ignore it as much as possible. I was wondering if anyone knew of any really good and annoying messages that I could put on my answering machine so that I can ignore her and get my point across at the same time. I'm hoping that when she realizes that we aren't answering the phone anymore she will give up.

2007-08-22 04:59:33 · 14 answers · asked by AngieWings 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we live together and do things in common for 9 years and not married yet with 2 girls children 5 years and 1 year 5 months now he asking bfor another baby.

2007-08-22 04:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by Saybah W 1 in Family

Me and a friend are worried about someone we've known well for a good few years. She is 18 and in the past year has left her full time job, got into some heavy drugs and moved in with her 37 year old "boyfriend" aka f*ck buddy/dealer. She's been smoking weed for a few years but is very innocent, used to be a tomboy - skating, playing guitar and generally being normal. She never had a boyfriend but got into sleeping around with guys who used her for sex before her "boyfriend" discovering her and luring her into his messy world of dealing, drugs, sex and who knows what else. She's moved to a town over half an hour away and it's difficult for her real friends to contact her. She doesn't realise the seriousness of what shes doing and replies with things like "It's only a bit of ..... blah blah blah" (drugs). Her family and little of her friends are aware of the relationship with her and this man, or the drugs. Any advice on what we can do to help. Talking just doesn't work.... Thanx

2007-08-22 04:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is a lovely man and we have been married for 8 years with 4 children. I am 10 years younger than him and have always kept myself fit and looking good for him. He treats me very well, is attentive and tells me I am beautiful. The problem is I am very paranoid about him looking at other women. He knows that I hate porn and has promised me that he won't look at it and that he is not interested in it now. This is fine but whenever he has to go away on business which is about 3 times a year I get really paranoid that he watches movies in his hotel room. Every time I ask him he says he doesn't, but I just can't help but wonder. He rings twice a day to speak to me and tells me he loves me but I just can't stop thinking about what he is doing while he is alone. What if he wants to look at other women or read magazines. We have a wonderful life but these concerns just spoil it. He says I have to chill out and that he loves me but I hate that he could look at other women like this

2007-08-22 04:54:40 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 04:53:19 · 11 answers · asked by Cady B 1 in Singles & Dating

soooo...I got about 13,000 because i got in a car accident and that was the worth of my car. so, my dilemna: i'm having a baby in 2/08 and need a reliable car, BUT if i buy a car w/ 100,000 mileage (only toyota corollas, that the only car i buy) that's a 1999-2001, i probally wouldnt have to pay more than a couple of thousands bucks, leaving me to pay off my credit card bill and pay off my boyfriend's bills, so that we have no crazy debt (except i have to pay 200 bucks a month to my mom and 320 bucks a month for student loans and of course our apartment--he wont have any debt, just bills) so should i do it??!!

what the highest i should go on my mileage? i dont know what to do??? i dont know what's best for me and my family??\

what would you do???

2007-08-22 04:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by happypants 3 in Other - Family & Relationships