Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

A woman posted a question in which she said that her husband had cheated on her and that he now expects her to get over it and not mention it. I suggested that she perhaps should get a bit on the side and see how he likes it. It makes me curious, though. How do cheaters normally react when the tables are turned on them? Do any of them realize that they deserve to get cheated on?

2007-08-22 04:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have one of those? You know someone that you really would have liked to see where it would have gone but never got the chance. If so, what is your story?

2007-08-22 04:50:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I'm a bit too old for this. I'm 19. My Sister is 22! I cannot afford for a lock (they cost atleast £70 to be fitted).

I'm currently looking for a job, which I begrudge because I know when I come back something will be taken.

I'm 19 and I feel really immature for writing this, but I'm getting really angry. I was meant to go to my boyfriend's tonight but I have to stay at home because I cannot afford to replace things right now.

2007-08-22 04:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by m8g8 3 in Family

Girls: Just wondering what your opinion on Skinny Guys is. I am 21, 5'7'' 125lbs. I am totally aware that I am very skinny/slim. I have a fast metabolism making it extremely difficult for me to gain weight.

1. Do you view skinny guys as weak? Less of a man?

2. Would you have a skinny guy as a boyfriend?

3. What nationality/race and Age are you?
Thank you very much for your input.

2007-08-22 04:45:31 · 26 answers · asked by BerlingBurg 1 in Singles & Dating

I fight with my sister and I am the little sister

2007-08-22 04:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-22 04:43:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do about my mother-in-law? She can't help but make stupid comments to me and my fiance all the time. She thinks she's being funny but she has just become annoying! For example she jokes and pretends that she's been trying to poison her son (my husband) for years. Also, just this morning I was drinking a cup of tea that my husband had made, but before I took a sip I had to cough. So I coughed and she immeiately said, "ooh it wasn't me that made it, it was him, he's trying to poision you!" Also my husband goes jogging sometimes and I don't because I don't like jogging. She says "I've seen lots of good looking women out jogging, you (meaning me) should be careful". I tell my husband that it annoys me but he just says she thinks she's funny. He agrees that she's annoying though.

These are just a couple of examples of how she makes me mad. What do you think? What should I say to her, if anything? Please give advice. Thanks!

2007-08-22 04:42:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anya 2 in Family

what is the best way to get her horny. not that fact that im going to have sex with her.. but i enjoy her moaning.. kinda thing.. or in fact not even when frenching. just making out being alone in a room together. the best way to get her horny.. WITH CLOTHES ON. and no inapropriate touching. (i bet this one is a little hard to work with) but we are saving our virginity for marriage. but yes. what is the best way to make her "happy" while we're together? because i simply love it when shes all over me. i've tried the ear. which really works. i just need something else. say i get her to a feeling of "happiness" to a 9/10.. whats a good way to get it to a 10 or off the charts to 11. but at the same time clothes on, and no 3rd base touching.

2007-08-22 04:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by [t].spoon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She ignores me and is mean to me, and enjoys her power trips when their is any kind of bad news in my life. If there is good news she gets mad. How do you kind let someone know you cannot stand them or that they mean NOTHING to you but in a discreet way? I have other in laws that I do not want to hurt.

2007-08-22 04:40:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my fella just chucked a football at me for no reason

2007-08-22 04:40:48 · 3 answers · asked by Draconia 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were a parent would you rather your 10-17 year old kid play a game with nudity in it or violence. The nudity involves sex scenes, breasts, and other things. The violence involves shooting cops, blowing up people, killing anyone or thing that moves basically. Obviously this game would be rated "M" which means 18+.

2007-08-22 04:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by dldx0 1 in Family

im eileen grace..

2007-08-22 04:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by lynch_ladyblue04 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been a good kid, they ( my parents ) tried to blackmail me , emotionally abuse me , brain wash the shi# out of me . b ut i never gave in . Even my brother made me isolate from my own community , i still didn't give in and i never will , because when i know something is right i stand for it .

. when i see anyone now , i Judge them , using the knowledge i have now , because -
i have survived by reading a lot about how past affects our present , and inturn our future . So is it normal for me to judge people like that?

Everyonei see, even , if i sees you . i will judge you , and a tiny slip of a single word would make me think you wre also brought up like me or ,

make up a whole ambiguoous story of your child hood
why am i doing that?
is that normal ??

2007-08-22 04:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by sum142121 1 in Family

Im 32 hes 25 I look 25 and him 32 I feel 23 I look VERRY GOOD i still get carded for i.d. people think my daughter is my sister we're together EVERYDAY (i work from 8-5) we sleep in the same bed EVERY NIGHT if hes cheating its while im at work cause when i get off of work we are together from then on been together for 10 months I tell him i need sex and all and he still dont give it to me but he gets angry if he thinks ive played with myself (masturbated) I know im small but not that small 5'3"120-125 lbs. I have put on lingerie slept naked im all over him while we sleep i even gave him oral sex he doesnt even hold or cuddle me at night We have sex twice a month I know the sex is good when we do have it after we're done he always says "see it wouldn't be that good if we did it all the time If we space it out it will always seem like the first time." but DAMN twice a month come on now Im 32 and my sex drive is bigger than ever hes 25 where is his sex drive? WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM?

2007-08-22 04:34:23 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's friend ask him for 5 thousand dollars to buy his car, I just think it's a bad idea to lend that much money to a friend, even though he promise to give it back. What if he won't pay back, the man has poor credit. Also it will ruin the friendship in the process- when we ask him for the money. My husband think otherwise. am I correct?

2007-08-22 04:33:09 · 23 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My Sister just moved into our house, she works at night and has a complete opposite schedule from my boyfriend and I. When she comes in at night she tries to be quiet, but due to our small home...we wake up. Now she is dating a guy who occasionally stays the night with us. We really never see them, just hear them. My boyfriend called me today and asked me to tell my sister to ask permission if he can stay the night...or he should start paying the bills. I think he is more mad about being woken up at night then her new guy staying over. He just had to beat around the bush. I am torn because he is so mad at me for this and I feel bad beause it is my sister. What do I do so I can make both of them happy??

2007-08-22 04:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by katie b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you find them pleasant to be around also?

2007-08-22 04:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by Gilligan 1 in Family

i love going to afghan parties and wedding they are the most best and crazy fun!

2007-08-22 04:30:37 · 1 answers · asked by -->MaRiAm<-- 2 in Singles & Dating

When she gives me a Brasilian she goes above and beyond the call of duty - thing is I love it. Is there any harm in this do you think?

2007-08-22 04:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by Sunset 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have our 4 year anniversary today. I bought him some really expensive sporting tickets to something he has always wanted to go to all his life and has never been before. And I made him a dvd with our pictures and our song on it. I gave it to him the other day because I couldnt wait any longer. He promised me he was going to work an early shift so he could be off early to go out to eat. Hes still in the bed!!! And he has to be at work at 12 so that means he wont get off until late! Plus, he never buys me anything for special days. Birthdays...anniversarys...nothing. So I know I wont get anything today. Should I be pissed?

2007-08-22 04:29:13 · 17 answers · asked by ModelSmile 2 in Singles & Dating

Men...I know most of you like to chase the Cat - (the women you are trying to pursue, or the ones you really like) if you do what is your game plan? Women v.s . Men- i'll tell you if you tell me!!!!

2007-08-22 04:28:51 · 1 answers · asked by J* 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I need advice on where to go from here. Problem is, we jointly own a home together, all our bank accounts, etc are in both our names, etc. etc. (We were on the way to getting married... ) How can I get over him and not walk away from OUR stuff that I have worked so hard to get too... Also, any tips to keep me busy so I can quit thinking about it!! Must be CHEAP things to do and perferably something my wonderful dog can join me in, as I don't want to leave her home everyday so I can go sit at the bar or whatever... Thanks for your help.

2007-08-22 04:27:16 · 9 answers · asked by Em 2 in Singles & Dating

If you knew a guy while he was with his ex girlfriend and you knew for a fact he cheated on her multiple times (he is a bartender) would you believe he would cheat on you also? Or does it depend on the relationship itself, and what it ia lacking? Being a male bartender would also be tricky because you would have buzzed up woman flirting with you a lot, right? That would be har for a male to trun down night after night. Would you still give him a shot or no?

2007-08-22 04:26:40 · 9 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman over the NET 2 years ago, started a long distance NET/phone relationship with her .. always with the view that we would sometime soon meet up ...She gave lots of reasons for it not being the " right " time.. now i know why ... THE DIRTY BASTARD HAD A PARTNER ALL THE TIME I KNEW HER !!

2007-08-22 04:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, this is how the conversation started in a way... i said "this isnt the 90's, the movie theatre isnt discreet" and the other person said "well, im not a p__" and i cant figure out what that word meant that started with a p, so i would like to know what that person meant when they said that?

2007-08-22 04:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by americansugar80 3 in Singles & Dating

he bartends at the local bar.I met him a year ago and the first night we seemed to have a connection,he asked for my number,i gave it to him and left to go to a freinds house,he is also friends with the person and found out i was there and came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor,he drove me to my car in the morning.For the past year I would go in the bar about once a month,he always would give me a hug,say hello,give me a free shot here and there,and little flirting he would send off,he once yelled"i love you"as I was leaving.I dont want to be another one of those bar flies to him,so I have kept my distance only for that reason,even though i really like him.He invited me over his house one night but I declined(Im not gonna just'give it up')How do I get him to want to know me more?as in taking me out besides the bar or just an afterhours at his place?I wanna be more than a paying costomer.what do I do?Is he even interested in more?

2007-08-22 04:24:23 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Please keep in mind that i see her EVERYDAY at about 7-8PM until the morning when i leave for work and i see her all weekend long F 7-8Pm until early Monday morning. Now her EX, who she cheated on her ex-hubby with, lives only 2 miles from her job. She is going to the gym a lot more lately. I mean, when would she have time to cheat. She also lied about a text from him, saying it was from an old friend... She also created a second email address (i don't have the password to either) and she promised me she would stop talking to him...

...any signs that i should look for?..what are some sign she MIGHT be cheating being that she lied right to my face about the text?

2007-08-22 04:22:21 · 9 answers · asked by joey 1 in Singles & Dating

when every time you are around someone your knees go weak? Only one guy has ever done this to me.

2007-08-22 04:19:05 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my ex broke up in May and since then we've decided to stay friends, actually its a friends with benefits thing. It's almost more of a we're taking a break thing cause we've had all these talks about how we may get back together one day. I'm Still in Love with him. And i've been going to see him every weekend almost since we broke up and its like nothing had changed except i dont live there anymore. Now all of a sudden he's upset cause I'm up there every weekend when hes the one who asks if i'm coming on the weekends. I don't want to make him mad and ruin the friendship and possible relationship. What do i do?

2007-08-22 04:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Singles & Dating

like i always hear people saying "oh one day u'll find the perfect match" but sadly enough i dont see that happening to so many people...people go out with so many guys/girls and then eventually get married to their so called soul mate and it all ends in nasty divorce...so in that case does anybody have the same doubts on trust as i do...like myy friends and i always tell each other we probably wont ever get married because u can just never trust anybody enough and its always so hard to naturally meet someone without using dating services or the iternet...

2007-08-22 04:00:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating