what are sign that your girlfriend might be cheating on you?

Question

Please keep in mind that i see her EVERYDAY at about 7-8PM until the morning when i leave for work and i see her all weekend long F 7-8Pm until early Monday morning. Now her EX, who she cheated on her ex-hubby with, lives only 2 miles from her job. She is going to the gym a lot more lately. I mean, when would she have time to cheat. She also lied about a text from him, saying it was from an old friend... She also created a second email address (i don't have the password to either) and she promised me she would stop talking to him...

...any signs that i should look for?..what are some sign she MIGHT be cheating being that she lied right to my face about the text?

Answer 1

How many more signs do you need to realize whether she is cheating or not, she has already betrayed your trust which is the second most import key element to maintaining a healthy relationship. The first is love and mutual respect. In your case, it doesn't appear that you are experiencing either from what you describe.

Answer 2

i agree with the answers above me, once a cheater always a cheater. and about the gym thing she could just be saying it. heres some more signs, if you really need them.

Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

Your cheating girlfriend stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you

Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

SHe becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt

Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

Suddenly wants to try new love techniques

He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.



The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.



I hope i was helpful and you figure out soon what is going on!
goodluck

Answer 3

You are either way to smothering and jealous or she is cheating.

Look the signs are that you are getting a lot less sex lately, but that she is taking really good care of herself and looking really hot. The second email address is suspicious, but you shouldn't have passwords to any of her email addresses. The text could be bad too.

But you sound like you expect her to cheat and are constantly sniffing around for signs. Do you both a favor and relax. Then have this conversation with her...

Tell her that you want to trust her and that some of the things that are going on lately have made you a bit suspicious. You are not going to ask her to explain any of it, but just that she needs to know that if she cheats on you you are going to kick her @ss to the curb. Period. no regrets, no second chances.
Then end the conversation.

And then if she cheats on you, poof, she is out of there.

Have some balls, lay down the rules and stick to them.

Answer 4

You need to sit down and talk to her. Explain to her that her actions lately have given you plenty of reason to think she is being dishonest (the text, the 2nd email address, more trips to the gym) and tell her you want the truth. Tell her it's only a matter of time before you find it out on your own and it would be better for all involved if you heard it from her. If she says she isn't cheating you will have to take that at face value, but considering her history I think I would check and see if she is spending that much time at the gym.

Answer 5

Signs of Deception: Body Language of Lies: • Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space. • A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact. • Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand. Emotional Gestures & Contradiction • Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly. • Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made. • Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.” • Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc. Interactions and Reactions • A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive. • A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away. • A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you. Verbal Context and Content • A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.” •A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it” • Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly. • The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation. • A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement. • Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized. Related Books: Never be Lied to Again Body Language Other signs of a lie: • If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject. • Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject. Final Notes: Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.

Answer 6

You already know the answer to your question. Once a cheater, always a cheater rings true for the most part. You've already noticed some of the signs..secret emails, working out more than normal (trying to look good for someone new), talking to someone she probably shouldn't be talking to if she's with you, lying to your face....what more do you need? Sorry man, find a real woman who can keep her legs together. Kick this one to the curb.

Answer 7

I would dump her.

She's already proven to be untrustworthy when she cheated on her hubby.

To me, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Answer 8

the fact you need to ask this, sould be reason enough she is cheating, or wants to. maybe when she says she is going to the gym, she really isnt.

Answer 9

pucbic hair in the corners of her mouth ....stains on her clothes ... a familiar smell on he breath, or conversely, the constant smell of mouthwash, mints, etc on her breath