If you knew a guy while he was with his ex girlfriend and you knew for a fact he cheated on her multiple times (he is a bartender) would you believe he would cheat on you also? Or does it depend on the relationship itself, and what it ia lacking? Being a male bartender would also be tricky because you would have buzzed up woman flirting with you a lot, right? That would be har for a male to trun down night after night. Would you still give him a shot or no?
2007-08-22 04:26:40 · 9 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I may not be the best person to ask but I think once a cheater, always a cheater... I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and he had cheated on me once the first year and I decided to give him another chance.. Stupid me, guess what broke us up for good this time... 6 years... Ouch.
2007-08-22 04:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a shot
like u said it depends on the relationship
and being a male bartender has 2 be hard!
but if it dont work out move on
soo many other guys right?
or maybe he just hooks up wit girls but its like a free relationship
im not sayin he wont do it 2 u
cuz he might
if the cheating is real bad
then u might not wanna
sometimes 4 guys it dont matter on how much the girl has
they always want more (some guys are like that)
2007-08-22 11:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making excesses for him. If he was truly in love he wouldn't have cheated on his girlfriend in the first place. Just because he is a bartender doesn't mean anything he still can say no. What makes you think he would change? If he cheated on his ex then what makes you think he would change for you? This is your choice though,if you want to be with a guy that will cheat on you then be with him,but if you don't its just best to move on cause its not fair to you. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-08-22 11:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason why the guy cheated the first time. Some guys do just because they feel superior when they have more than one gf's. I actually know somebody who has cheated on his gf. the reason why he cheated is because he doesn't want to be with her anymore but didn't break up with her yet because he doesn't think she can handle it...so he gave her time to mature a little bit. I think everybody deserves a chance to prove themselves...but just be careful.
2007-08-22 11:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Once a cheater, always a cheater. I know a boy who goes out with two girls at the same time and then breal up with one of them and go out with another girl. Ending up with two girls again. He's a bartender, he proabably hundreds of hot girls.
2007-08-22 11:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep once a cheater always a cheater, because when they start dating somebody they always think they find somebody better then the person they are dating. Cheaters are never satisfyed.
2007-08-22 11:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheaters always cheat, even if trying not to. they cant help it, thinking they can get away with it, having the exicitment flowing thru them... its hard for them to resist, and they just wind up doing it again, and again. He might do that to u, and u shouldnt get in relationship like that
2007-08-22 11:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Meh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes no matter what they say they are always going to do it because they think that if you take them back once you take them back again and there is always somebodythey will see that they will wont to know better because that is how there minds works
2007-08-22 11:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by bigboobs17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my experence is once a cheater always a cheater! i would just be friends with him.
2007-08-22 11:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋