i have been a good kid, they ( my parents ) tried to blackmail me , emotionally abuse me , brain wash the shi# out of me . b ut i never gave in . Even my brother made me isolate from my own community , i still didn't give in and i never will , because when i know something is right i stand for it .
. when i see anyone now , i Judge them , using the knowledge i have now , because -
i have survived by reading a lot about how past affects our present , and inturn our future . So is it normal for me to judge people like that?
Everyonei see, even , if i sees you . i will judge you , and a tiny slip of a single word would make me think you wre also brought up like me or ,
make up a whole ambiguoous story of your child hood
why am i doing that?
is that normal ??
2007-08-22 04:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by sum142121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what???? i am confused?! do you want to know if you are ok b/c of the emotional abuse you suffered or what??
Well I say sure why not. I'm ok and I had it worse than you.
2007-08-22 04:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a little lost but what i can say is your past is yoru past if you don't like who it turned you into NOW then change it only you can!
1. notice what you want to change
2. find someone who has that change or that new trait youw ant and use them as a role modle (just the traits not everythign)
3. practice at the new trait your learning
4. now you can't use the past as an excuse for who are today!
you are who you want to be and if you want to be that person who says the past made me who i am and i can't change then so be it but do know that you can change and the past made you who you were not who you are! today makes you who you are! not yesterday! no matter what y ou bring with you from the past1
Best wishes!
2007-08-22 11:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to wonder but you need to be careful not to make assumptions and judge others. For you to judge others and expect them to be like you is not much different than what was done to you. Counseling may be in order to help you overcome your childhood and the abuse you seem to have suffered.
2007-08-22 11:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by nimat33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one who spells as badly as you do has any business judging anyone. Get an education, it will allow you a different point of view.
2007-08-22 11:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd think that, having "thoughts" about someone else, is human nature.
in you case, perhaps your childhood had such an impact that you are obsessed with what others might have endured?
have you ever considered therapy? it never hurts a person, and can actually help you to learn how to think differently...
take care
2007-08-22 11:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on....get over your self....emotionally abused? i'm sure they have a pill for that..haha
2007-08-22 11:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by lbr8urself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋