Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

What can i do to a persons house/car thats not to harsh but just enough to get revenge!

2007-08-22 03:56:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok. so it starts of when i was a couple months old and my parents got devorsed. Now I miss my Dad because I only get to see him every other weekend. I want to go to his house more often, but my Mom doesn't like it when we (me, my sister or brother)talk about my Dad.(we can ask simple questions like how did you guys meet?) How do I ask my Mom and not make her mad?

2007-08-22 03:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by rockhopperrulez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife commited adultry but because Im the father and she is the mother and because she is not a abusive or drug addtict mother. The courts in So. Cal looks down on me for custody issues because Im a man. How do I avoid from getting ripped off in my case. Keep in mind Im full Army active duty and she lives in CA and Im in Iraq right now.

2007-08-22 03:49:09 · 27 answers · asked by guiearmy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want she is :Affable,Cheerful,Sweet,Gaiety,Natured,Behaved,Pretty,Artistic,Tongued,Tasteful,Benefactore,Accessible

2007-08-22 03:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by ali2008 h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how smart and good with managing money, having goals, wants you to reach yours and pushes you (but you argue and are always getting angry)
which is better in the long run??

2007-08-22 03:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do u think i'm justified of getting mad at my husband when he gives attention to his sister-in-law (brother's wife) even when she has done all she could to harm our marriage and my position in my in-laws. My hubby knws and do blame her too but she and her husband ignore me all together. while myhusband will engage in chats and laughs and that make me very furious.

I have never got mad when it come sto his siblings but she isn't a sibling. im not saying he should fight with her but why is he being happy and engaged in chats.

we live in joint family.....plz i knw we shuld get out but its not possible right now.Focus on my prob.

We end up having fights and i end up crying , but he will be like '' don't tell me wt to do''.

I just can't take it when he gives her attitude which will make her think HER BRO-IN-LAW (my hubby) DON'T CARE what she is doing to me in house and it makes her a winner and ME! A LOSER on all ends.Hubby claims he consider her *****, yet he will do this.

2007-08-22 03:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here's the deal. We got married and now I want my last name and his last name. He wants me to have his last name only. Cheyenne Elizabeth Moses-Rodriguez? or Cheyenne Elizabeth Rodriguez? Yes, I know it's up to us, but I would like to keep my last name and have his last name. Is there anything wrong with that? I told him our daughter will have his last name ONLY no matter what!!! So what do you people think? I just think it would be nice to have both last names. I like my last name. Please give me your opinions. Thank you.

2007-08-22 03:41:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy on my messenger list who i belive is a complete jerk i refused his friendship but now he got my cell no from somewhere i did chat with him once or twice via my cell What i wanna know is that what am i supposed to do now
& how on earth did he get my cell no.What steps should i take to now

2007-08-22 03:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by hope 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my little sister (6) and her friend (13) wont leave me alone there in my room playing my wii and i tell them to get out and they dont i tell my mom (she works at home) and she says she needs quiet and wont tell them to get out of my room. my sisters friend has been over every day since 9:30 or 10am till after dinner thats arond 5:30 6:00. i dont care what they do as long as they leave me alone i need some help here

2007-08-22 03:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance, who I live with, does nearly all the cooking since we moved in together, nearly 3 years, every meal I make sure to thank him for cooking and when he shops I thank him for shopping. In fact, everything he does around here I say, thank you. I've been thanking him almost everyday for 3 years and will continue to do such things after our wedding. When I do something, he thanks me.

On here mostly, I've read spouses take eachother for granted etc. but I couldn't imagine not thanking him for making me a delicious meal or doing some chore I hate. So do you say to your spouse a simple thank you or not? If not, why not? Doesn't he or she deserve it?

2007-08-22 03:39:24 · 15 answers · asked by skunk pie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

because she really NEEDS it, would you/could you forgive her for having a brief affair?

2007-08-22 03:36:43 · 64 answers · asked by Sexy Anna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What was it that you enjoyed about "younger" women?

How did being in a relationship with a younger woman make you feel?

2007-08-22 03:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 03:25:33 · 21 answers · asked by 55 and trying 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 20 years and found out 3 months ago that my husband was having an affair. I found out on accident by listening to his MP3 player (It recorded everything that happened that morning along with a phone call with him and his girlfriend). After he was already caught, he told me that he only talked with her maybe once every three months... I found out it was more like 8-10 times a day. He lied about being at her house among other things. Everything I found out, I found out by 3rd party and had to have the proof before he would come clean with what happened. Other then what I found out he wont tell me anything. now that its 3 months after I found out, he expects me to never bring it up, never to be hurt and I should have no questions because according to him there are no answers. I have never gotten any answers as to why he did this or why it lasted 2 1/2 years. How do I get over this? Will I ever get over this?

2007-08-22 03:25:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months. He has, for the last couple months, been joking and mentioning marriage. Just two months ago we finally started saying "I love you" to each other. We've always been really lovey-dovey but now its really quite special. The things he has been saying lately range from "I love you...We're going to get married..." I kind of play along because he jokes about it all the time. When we went on vacation, he passes by a big room at a diner and says "That's were I want our wedding reception to be!" (That instance I know he is joking but..) He compared my friends wedding to our own... "Your brother sounds like a nice guy but he is not going to be the best man at our wedding."

Things like that... are they him just being playful and joking or is he giving me hints? We're in our mid 20's btw. Neither of us have been married and neither of us have ever been in love like we are now.

2007-08-22 03:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with my cousin 2yrs ago but because she is my cousin i never told her about my feelings towords her.
Now i'm feeling too much pain inside me only thing i keep on thinking is IS IT MY FAULT it was like love at first sight i never though i'll fall in love with my cousin but this has happen i can't change it.
I try to dated other girls but it didn't work all i need is her
now i just want to know is,
is it my fault r whom shall i blame for this????????????

2007-08-22 03:21:24 · 3 answers · asked by Amit 2 in Singles & Dating

Love comes and goes but people have to move on. I bet everyone knows this too well yet it still easy said than done. Say, how would you act if your beloved lover insists on breaking up with you though you have tried everything possible to prove your love? Will you just give up or will you bear enmity in mind or even think of revenge some othertime?

2007-08-22 03:18:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you be upset if you worked (full-time/daytime) and your spouse stayed home with the baby (fulltime!) and thought it was okay to leave the baby w/someone while they venture off out of town (about 100 miles away) anytime they feel like it without so much as a courtesy phone call to you?

I work in an office so it's perfectly fine for him to call me. I think it's only resonable that he tell me before trotting off out of town on a whim. Am I unreasonable???

2007-08-22 03:18:06 · 20 answers · asked by Just Me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are getting divorced. He is a cheat and was seeing this whore at work who KNEW he was married.

I am getting EVERYTHING that I want in this divorce. EVERYTHING. He is currently without a car (his motor blew) and he is sleeping in his friends basement. She is now sleeping in the basement with him now too since he needs a ride to work every day.

I already have it set int he divorce that she is NEVER to be permitted within 500 feet of my son. Regardless is they fall madly in love and move in together. It is written that she is required to leave the residence should they ever cohabitate.

But, I am not done with her. If she didn't know....then I would let her walk. But, she knowingly got involved with a married man.

Legally, what can I do to make her life hell. I know it's already going to cause problems with them the way I have the visitation with our son set up.

Any ideas? Nothing "really" illegal. Not into going to jail.

2007-08-22 03:17:08 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like dane cook says... every group of friends has that ONE person that you all secretly hate, but they are in your group of friends anyways.

I have a friend like that, and shes been a notorious boyfriend stealer since 9th grade. Her original group of friends kicked her out and refuse to speak with her because she lied to them and manipulated them.... so she ended up in my group of friends. (what we like to refer to as "damage control") Shes an opportunist, and she jumps in whatevers happening around her (although it has nothing to do with her). She just eats it up, and she always has good things to say to your face, and aweful things to say behind your back.

have you ever had a 'friend' like that?

2007-08-22 03:11:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 03:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by Perrie Ann T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has cheated on me many times in the past. He has vowed never to do it again and we moved out of the state we lived in a month ago. Since that time he has not made contact with the girl he cheated on me with (the main reason we moved). He called her last night and talked for 5 minutes (I saw the call log on the phone). He told me he was sorry and made a mistake and that he talked to her about the problems he and I are having. He says he's sorry, and says he will never do it again. I feel as though he just doesn't understand how hurt I am about this though. We are not going to divorce and have been through marriage counseling before. I just want to know how can I get him to understand my feelings and how much these things hurt me. Am I blowing this out of proportion (The girl lives 700 miles away and it's not like there going to hook up anytime)?

2007-08-22 03:09:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You know someone that you really would have like to see where it would have went but never got the chance. If so, what happened?

2007-08-22 03:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i have kissed the man i have always dreamt of it was so nice and so sweet but he has a gal though there is no communication,and the other thing is he has never asked me be in love with him but he has tald me he loves me and he has asked for hugs and kisses this first kiss havs given me so much feeling for him what do i do?

2007-08-22 03:07:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it obvious when we (males) stare/look at your Chest (females)?

Any funny stories about it happening?

2007-08-22 03:06:27 · 52 answers · asked by Lucas W 1 in Singles & Dating

my first time was............................

2007-08-22 03:01:15 · 40 answers · asked by Kirsty 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 02:58:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you asked your significant other to not communicate with their EX, who they cheated on their ex-married partner with, and then dated them. Later on she dumped him (about 8 months ago). And who still has communication with him periodically, unknown to me, and who says she is still friends with, but says that he took advantage of her and ruined her life (sounds contridictive). Asked her to leave her past in the past and she agreed and said she wouldn't. This past Thursday, she received a text from him (now she answers my phone and vice versa, supposedly nothing to hide from one another). I confronted her about it, and she said that it was from an old friend from school. The text from him said"just saying hi"...she replied "hey, just got your text, how are you?"...sounds innocent right?...i asked her to stop communicating because of their past and how it ruined one relationship before and bothered me. I know it was his #, but she lied to me about it. Is she hiding something?

2007-08-22 02:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by joey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single mom of a 7 yr old, and guys these days seem to want a wife/mother or to play "dad" to my son! What ever happened to going out and having fun, without looking to get serious? Two failed marriages have me somewhat gun shy...... but I do enjoy the company of a good guy that is fun to be with. Where are all the "real men" in this world?????? Have things really changed that much ? Somebody tell me what is going on!

2007-08-22 02:54:16 · 13 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 02:54:11 · 23 answers · asked by shiningStar 2 in Singles & Dating