how smart and good with managing money, having goals, wants you to reach yours and pushes you (but you argue and are always getting angry)
which is better in the long run??
2007-08-22 03:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want it all, smart, good with money, having goals, supports my goals and makes me feel good inside. I will never again settle for less.
2007-08-22 03:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a wonderful relationship with my husband. We are not rich, by any means...we actually have very little money. We do make ends meet and live pay check by paycheck. We have the same goals and we are both very happy with each other. He is horrible when it comes to managing money, so I do it.
Both of us have chores that is easier to have the other person do it. He is a great cook and I prefer washing the dishes. We work very well together.
For me, I was looking for a best friend in a husband. I needed someone who wanted to share our lives together, and not be their life or vice versa. I found the life companion I am very comfortable and happy with. We have our problems, like any other couple, but we know how to get through them. We don't fight, we talk things out and find a way to compromise.
I would never settle for second best or be in an abusive relationship as the one you have described. I am an independent individual who enjoys sharing my life with my husband!
2007-08-22 11:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The money and goals and all that is great. But at the end of the day I need to feel that me and our children are loved and wanted.
2007-08-22 10:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to work together, complement each other, do your fair share to help the 'UNIT'. If you need to be pushed a bit to get started, OK . Take it and run with it. If you don't want or feel the need to do your share, get out of it. He'll do better and you'll be happier being you.
Sunbun........Your going to let the an air head handle the money?
2007-08-22 11:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how he makes me feel in the inside. that is #1 for me. the rest i can deal with like money issues and pushing myself for my goals. if he makes me feel good in the inside thats all that matters b/c he is showing me love and how much he appreciates me. if he makes my heart happy ill be the happiest woman alive
LOVE is the way he makes you feel not the things he does
2007-08-22 11:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUSHING! The long run! Everything will be worth ur pain because pushing each other is what gets u and ur partner to a higher level. A high level is where ur love can EXPLODE WITH PLEASURE. NO PAIN=NO PLEASURE!
2007-08-22 11:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by B E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of that is very important in the long run. Its better to have one person with that complete package
2007-08-22 10:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise you let him make you feel good inside and you manage the money and share your goals
2007-08-22 10:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a business manager, I'd say the latter. If you want a lover, confidante, friend, go with how he makes you feel.
2007-08-22 10:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by M K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're always arguing, the rest doesn't matter, IMHO.
2007-08-22 11:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋