Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

whats the thing that scares girls away from loving him or even talkinh to him.

2007-08-22 06:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by ppohyhh 1 in Friends

My husband and I were going to church, looking at adopting my nephew, and then BOOM! The floor fell out from underneath me. He totally became a different person. He decided one day he didn't want to be with me any longer. I came home from work and he just came out and said he thought we'd be better off apart. Okay, so I left. You'd think that would be it, eh? He didn't just want to separate and take time off as he said at first, he decided to go a step further and try to ruin me as a person. He has been going around telling all kinds of lies about me. Saying I wouldn't let him talk to his family and that I was manipulative. ??? He was the KING of manipulation. As far as his family was concerned, he didn't have a relationship with them when I met him. Says him anyhow. I tried to push him to talk to his mother. So now I'm not only dealing with a separation, but a husband who is walking around trying to make himself look good by lying on me. What is going on here?

2007-08-22 06:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Any diamonds or other interesting stones?

I just got married a few months ago. Mine is titanium and black titanium with a single diamond.
Mine is the 2nd one down on the right.
http://www.furthers.com/black-wedding-rings.htm

2007-08-22 06:51:23 · 17 answers · asked by Joe M 3 in Weddings

2007-08-22 06:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man was so attentive the first 8 months of my pregnancy, we are both very excited. But now that the baby could come any day hes put like MILES of distance between us...i know our lives are about to change tremendously should i just stay away?...is this normal?

2007-08-22 06:47:35 · 5 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have fallen in love witgh a girl and she also claimed she loves me. I bought her a car although the amount was all I had in my savings and right after that she just left me.
what should I do now?
should i insist in my love feeling or should I get back the car somehow?

2007-08-22 06:45:25 · 2 answers · asked by prodigy73 1 in Singles & Dating

we been to gether for 2 yrs. he gave me a promise ring in feb. for val.day.i been putting up wt his ex untill its not funny any more. she uses the kids to get to him.she was married to him for 17yrs. and was not the best moral wife. she left him for another got remarried,and devorced already.she uses him threw the kids. she calls every day,he goes to her house all most every day to drop the kids off from school.he has already took her back 6mths ago for a week. then came crying back saying its not the same and he loves me.i respected him for the kids sake,and cause he was the one who was rejected.but..he says its nothing but she's calls for any and everything.the other day she had a flat. he got mad saying its nothing. but what if i wasnt around would he of went see about her. she has other boyfriends let them see about her.then i heard when she said oh iam sorry i didnt know u were at yr. gf's hm. but i found out she new cause she had just called before he came,and he told her.

2007-08-22 06:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by ladycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is it with you guys and porn? I don't let my husband watch it, but I once caught him with one and told him if it happened again, it would be the end of our marriage. It makes me feel like I'm not enough, Is that what it is? Help me understand.

2007-08-22 06:39:55 · 43 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 06:37:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 06:36:56 · 2 answers · asked by robertandwendihill 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please share your wisdom and experience of signs that a relationship is not going to work.....

2007-08-22 06:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I stated that I didn't feel special or important to my husband anymore & that it was causing problems in the bedroom & that I wanted to spend more time together outside the bedroom & fix our other problems. And I got a few answers saying that the problem was in my head, it wasn't my husbands fault & that I was being controlling. Is this true?

2007-08-22 06:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you establish a guest list!? Do you invite people that you haven't talked to in a year or so, or do you just invite people that you still talk to. I can't imagine inviting all the people from my past, but I feel like I have to, because if they found out I got married and didn't invite them, they would get mad...help?!?!

2007-08-22 06:27:12 · 14 answers · asked by BUNNY11 2 in Weddings

2007-08-22 06:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a Co worker that is cheating on his wife....I know his wife well.......Do I tell?

2007-08-22 06:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by karry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no desire to stop smoking unless i plan on having a child. My boyfriend of 2 years keeps demanding i stop just because he is not a smoker. In your opinion who is wrong in this situation?

2007-08-22 06:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ariel 5 in Singles & Dating

I think it`s not possible to buy love, to buy time, and many other things....

2007-08-22 06:23:40 · 3 answers · asked by April 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want one. Are there legimate services that really do set people up or are they all rip offs like you hear on tv?

2007-08-22 06:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a year ago when he was bartending at the local bar,we seemed to have a connection,by the end of the night he asked for my number,i gave it to him and left to go to a friends house,he is also freinds with that person and found out I was there and came over,i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor,he drove me to my car the next morning.The past year I have gone in the bar about once a month and he sometimes gives me a hug,always says hello right away,usually is real flirty,and sometimes gives me free shots.he invited me over his place one night right before closing and i had to deny because i did not want to come across as an easy afterhours hookup.we are now myspace friends and i sent him a message asking him to get together sometime,he replied with okay and gave me his number to call,so i called and left a message,no return call but a myspace message two days later apologizing for missingthe call and that we will make plans later in the week.I did not reply.

2007-08-22 06:14:53 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I would just like to take a second to wish C & K a happy half hour anniversary. I would like to say thank you to my parents, Mr. & Mrs. M, for all that you've done to make this the special day that it is. And, of course, my gratitude to Mr. & Mrs. L and family for all your support and travel time to make this the perfect day for C and K. At last, I would like to welcome C and his family into our family. The more the merrier!!

I have only been married for 6 years so there are probably many other couples here today that could give you better advice but here is mine. Actually, it's advice Mom gave me the night before my wedding day. So in reality, combined it is 46 years of experience. She told me: love is a decision.

On the surface it sounds a fairly clinical and an unromantic assessment, but if you think about it a little deeper you will realize that there is truth in these words.

It’s easy to fall in love. When a couple first meet, life

2007-08-22 06:13:14 · 21 answers · asked by Nezz 2 in Weddings

To help a friend out, my husband borrowed, from my brother, a truck to haul something for a friend. In the process of doing this, the truck broke down, maybe blew the motor. The truck did have some age on it and is known to have problems. As far as I know, his friend has not offered to pay for it. The question my husband and I are disagreeing on is, who should pay for fixing the truck? I say it should be his friend, but my husband said he borrowed it so it's his responsibility. I understand that part, but if he wasn't trying to help this friend in the first place, he would have never borrowed the truck. It had to be towed and my husband payed for that, also. I'm just curious. My husband will end up paying for it, that's the way he is, but I'm just curious to what everyone else thinks. One other thing, I apologize for this not being a sexual question!!

2007-08-22 06:10:17 · 29 answers · asked by Needtoknow 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Wedding invitation etiquette states that when inviting an couple who you know are either engaged or in a long-term relationship and who do not live together you either put both names on the invitation and send it to the person you know most OR you send 2 separate invitations to both people.
iVillage's "Sharon Naylor is the author of The Essential Guide to Wedding Etiquette" has this to say about - "TOP ETIQUETTE MISTAKES IN INVITATIONS: "Putting 'And Guest' when the recipient is in a long-term relationship or is engaged. Again, this is a research thing. Find out the names of your guests' guests - you can call them directly if you have never known their significant other's name, or ask a friend or relative for the info. It's a gracious move that is the essence of good invitation etiquette."
http://weddings.ivillage.com/etiquette/etiquette/0,,naylor_bxsvgkr9-3,00.html
Also FrugalBride.com says "and guest" is only to refer to single people to bring a guest.
Follow these rules! Agree?!

2007-08-22 05:58:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have heard before play hard to get but do you believe this is true? My husband and I have a very stale, boring relationship. We have been married 5 years and we have really lost interest in each other. Any tips of "playing hard to get" to get a spark back in our relationship?

2007-08-22 05:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Singles & Dating

My in laws are here from India. They've been here for three months (two weeks before my son's birth) and will stay for another three months. This is typical of Indians - the six month stay.

However, I'm having problems adjusting because I'm not Indian. I'm American and love my independance! According to Indian tradition the parents take care of the grandchildren after birth. At least that's how my husband's family does things. I don't like that idea. I like doing things myself. However, I've been really sick the past month so having a helping hand has been really nice. (I have a 17 month old and 7 week old).

However, my inlaws have been slowly loosing patience with the seventeen month old. Three times I've caught her with her hand in the air like she was going to beat him. She's yelling in Tamil - her native language.

And, my newborn has gotten used to being held and rocked all the time. So - I get no sleep. Is it mean for me to ask them to leave? What would u do?

2007-08-22 05:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 in Marriage & Divorce

he has your number and still never calls you? but when he sees you he is all about you? why are guys like that?

2007-08-22 05:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a year ago at the local bar where he bartends,we seemed to have a connection and by the end of the night he asked for my number,so i gave it to him and left to go to a friends house,he is also friends with that person and found out i was there and came over,i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor,he drove me to my car the next morning.For the past year I go in the bar about once a month,he will either give me a hug,say hello,give me a free shot,always flirty towards me.once when i was leaving he yelled'i love you'but i kept walking out.I dont want to be another girl to him that hangsout there.escpecially considering i gave him my number a year ago and he never used it,but yet he acts like he likes me when im around.He invited me over his place late one night right before he was getting off,i had to refuse because i dont want to seem like im easy to give it up,how do i get him to pursue me in taking me out besides the bar or afterhours at his place?

2007-08-22 05:52:04 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am starting up a photography business and am not sure what the best way to advertise is. I don't have a lot of family or friends that are good at supporting people and helping with word of mouth. I can't figure out how to get any business. Any advice is more than helpful.

2007-08-22 05:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by missbabygator1983 3 in Weddings

I am 5'3
a brunette
wears glasses
I am nice and caring.

2007-08-22 05:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by peace.live.love.laugh 4 in Singles & Dating

It is always me sending the
e-mails and making the phone calls to my girlfriend. I always have to initiate everything. How do I know if she doesn't like me and just feels bad? it's kinda weird that she isn't putting effort into her half of the responsibilities that there is when being in a relationship.

2007-08-22 05:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by avalentin911 2 in Singles & Dating

I almost cheated on him and hes really mad hes a really good guy n i hate myself for doing what i did. I want to know how i could convince him into trusting me again.

2007-08-22 05:49:07 · 16 answers · asked by ..LostnConfused.. 1 in Marriage & Divorce