whats the thing that scares girls away from loving him or even talkinh to him.
2007-08-22 06:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by ppohyhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're only a loser if you think you are.
2007-08-22 06:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Alex W 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, a guy who is in his last teen years without a girlfriend is not a loser...nor is a girl in her last teen years without a boyfriend a loser. It means quite simply that you are far more mature for your age than you'll admit. Believe me - the people who rush into relationships; that you see prancing around with bfs/gfs don't know what they are doing. I have suffered this trauma and am still recovering from it. If you are a genuinely good guy, caring, and sympathetic, POLITE, respectful, unfortunately girls don't want that. Men are conditioned to think boys have to be bad to be cool and girls are conditioned to think, they have to love those types of guys. It could be you aren't the "stereotypical" guy. Men get scared of me and don't talk to me. So you and I are in the same boat. Email me and I'll discuss this further if you like.
2007-08-22 14:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by arielena_123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all. You got all your life for relationships and the drama around it. Just enjoy being in the position you are at and have fun. When it happens it happens no use of stressing out about it. Now when there is a girl you be as picky as you want to be, the pickier the better. Its not quantity but quality... always remember that. Try to be more social, talk to girl relatives' friends and be introduced to them. Practice makes perfect and if something goes wrong (said something awkward) then learn from it and do it better next time. Just be confident, that will get you any lady you want. ...
2007-08-22 14:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That never makes a person a "loser" It just means you haven't found the right person to be with yet, but give it time and it will happen. Really, it depends on the girl. In my opinion, someone who is conceited and talks about themselves all the time is what I dont like in a guy. Also, the guy shouldn't try and be someone who he isn't.
2007-08-22 14:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they're not a loser.. and anyone who thinks so is shallow and a waste of time.. there is no one thing that scares girls away from guys.. that depends on the girl.. what turns me away is a lack of confidence, jealousy, lying and someone who is fake.. in my opinion, the most attractive quality a man can have is being totally at home with who he is and back it with confidence..
2007-08-24 02:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a loser, but you might want to spruce up a bit. always stay clean, no one wants a stinky person, sometimes a person can't smell themselves. so always take a bath, at least once a day, or make sure you do the 2nd day. your clothes clean and teeth also. i was just thinking about this girl that is our friend, but we can't stand to be around her because she literally stinks!!!!!!!! be nice and courteous to people, and not a bully nor a someone that doesn't know anything.
2007-08-22 14:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes not a loser he just hasnt found the one that makes him happy or someone who he thinks will like him for him and not want to try and change him or the way he dresses or anything about him.
2007-08-22 13:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
James is correct-- Lack of confidence and fear of rejection.
The reason badboys always have a date is because they continue to ask. If this girl won't, ask another.and another...
2007-08-22 14:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not a loser. Things take time, you are still young...there is no need to rush things
2007-08-22 13:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, I'm 22 never even kissed a girl, held one girls hand ever, if you wanna make fun of someone, make fun of me...this dude is alright in my book.
2007-08-22 14:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not really, it shows that they haven't found the right person yet!
2007-08-22 13:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by ur@Wrdo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋