My man was so attentive the first 8 months of my pregnancy, we are both very excited. But now that the baby could come any day hes put like MILES of distance between us...i know our lives are about to change tremendously should i just stay away?...is this normal?
2007-08-22 06:47:35 · 5 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might be getting prepared for when the baby arrives. Up until 8 months, all was well (he was still a contender for your attention). The closer you get to delivery, the more the focus shift from him to the new baby. Once the baby arrives, all of the focus will be on the baby. He knows he will still be important, but not getting every ounce of your attention will be tough (he is practicing now to avoid the immediate shock). Give him time. After the baby arrives and you get back to some type of normalcy, revitalize the romance. Once you become a family of three, all will be better. Best wishes & good luck :)
2007-08-22 07:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pregnancy is a whole different thing for a man. you've had time to get used to that little one growing inside you and he only knows what you tell him about it. i wouldn't doubt it if he's a bit terrified right now. it's normal. also, and this is not to be nasty, we women tend to get a bit weird during pregnancy. especially near the end. he may be wondering what happened to the girl he married. i know you've got a lot going on right now but, maybe you could talk to him, give him a bit of your time. he may be one of those guys that feels left out of the loop.
congrats on the babe.
2007-08-22 07:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, no worry. things change, focus changes too....
not sure if he is ready for the baby, the father & the mother should be more than happy to get near to the little, not distance...
talk to him, find out the why inside him, give him sometime to adjust too.
seek help from counselling if need to.
2007-08-22 06:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by lost man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my relatives doesnt enable its ladies to bypass out or take a seat on my own with a fiance . so this could be a actual cut back . this cut back instruments limits on any intimacy between the engaged couple . so, conferences between them are extra or much less like those between pals . with the companion , i dont think of that each little thing that comes on my suggestions could be reported or shared . there could desire to be a seive used to clear out what could desire to be reported or no longer . possibly after years of marriage , the clear out could have larger holes or could be bumped off altogether . besides , i constantly save area of my suggestions to myself . this has to do with privateness .
2016-10-09 01:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pay attention to him now more then ever, cause when the baby comes it's all about the baby and he may become jealous.
2007-08-22 06:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋