is my relationship going well?

Question

It is always me sending the
e-mails and making the phone calls to my girlfriend. I always have to initiate everything. How do I know if she doesn't like me and just feels bad? it's kinda weird that she isn't putting effort into her half of the responsibilities that there is when being in a relationship.

Answer 1

If you have to ask if your relationship is going well...that is not a good sign :( Only you can truly feel if things are going ok. You should just talk to her and tell her you feel like you are the one trying to make it work. Tell her everything you told us, and one way or another, things will work out fine. If she doesn't want to work at it..do you want to be with her? Good Luck, hope everything works out for you!

Answer 2

You shouldn't be the one always initiating things if it's considered a serious relationship. You need to talk to her about how you feel, because you're right; it's a relationship i.e. there are two people and she has responsibilities. If she isn't ready to fulfill those responsibilities then maybe she isn't ready for a serious relationship

Answer 3

I did this to my now husband when we were dating. I always thought it was nice that he was always the one in charge with making plans and i could just go along if i felt like it but i would be really mean to him at the same time. He always wondered if i really cared about him and always would ask if i was sick of him, i wasn't he was just to available so i would kinda throw him around because i knew he would put up with it....but i did care a lot about him, i was just immature.

Answer 4

maybe you are suffocating her with e-mails and phone calls,relax,let go. be easy ,do not communicate for 2 weeks or so unless you HAVE 2 ...this is not a punishment....just a test...if by the end of 2 or 3 weeks of not hearing from her(in the meanwhile ..no e-mails .phonecalls from u) your gf does not respond...time to meet face to face and talk

Answer 5

You need to ask her how she truely feels about you. Tell her that if she doesn't share the same feelings for you as you do for her that it is better to know now rather than get hurt down the road. Be open and honest with each other.

Answer 6

If I were you I would step back for a while and see how much she values the relationship. If she doesn't call you or say she wants to hang out it could be a sign.

Answer 7

Stop doing it as much, You will find out real quick. She will either say "why don't you like me anymore" You will say why? She will say you never text me or call anymore.
Or she will not say anything in witch case move on.
She could simply be a premaddonna and what you chasing her like she is the cats ***. In witch case don't be a chump.

Answer 8

You all need to sit down... and you need to share this with her. Let her know that a relationship is 50/50. And let her know that you dont feel appreciated. And ask her how she feels. And whats going to happen or what does she want out of this relationship.

Good Luck

Answer 9

you should talk to her and theres also little hints if she doesn't like you or if shes just depressed when you kiss her she doesn't kiss back the same way she used to she doesn't talk as much she always seems mad sad or irriatated just alk to her be like you know im not sure if you like me anymore because it seems like i inciate everything what happened? be calm and don't yell if shes like YOU ALWAYS DO EVRYTHING just be like you've just changed and what not think about what yuo say before yuo say it

Answer 10

Don't try too hard!! Your world shouldn't revolve around her. Just abruptly stop talking to her, and if she says something say "You didn't seem interested, so I don't see why we should be together." You can get better girls, good luck!

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