Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

2007-08-19 23:59:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Guys tell me what you think of me appearance wise thanks!

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2007-08-19 23:52:10 · 18 answers · asked by kellyeibhlin 2 in Singles & Dating

I never had girlfriend and in the future I want to have girlfriend and I dont have know idea what kind of thing I have to spend with her. I dont even know what kind of place I take her.

2007-08-19 23:52:06 · 26 answers · asked by neuken 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently 26. I recently got to know a 30 year old lady. We did not know each other's age in the beginning. My 1st impression of her was that she has a mature look. Not old. We started going out more and chat more.
She guessed my age correctly. I actually thought we are of the same age. When she finally revealed her age to me. She was very dissapointed. As for me, I was totally cool about it. Not shocked or surprise.
She finally start to be frank to me. She admit that she likes me but our age difference made it impossible between us. She would prefer that I go for younger ladies as I'm still young and eligible. I don't feel the age difference when I'm with her. I like her too. She's simple and easy going. Not as fussy as younger gals would. She is a very practical lady and I like the way she is. She told me about her feelings towards me but was afraid that she will be a burden to me.
Is it really impossible between older woman and younger man?

2007-08-19 23:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by Incey 1 in Singles & Dating

How can a friend ask so much and only say I appreciate everything you do,pay other help on manly jobs but I get squat,just told i appreciate you,and im gonna pay you,but hasn't yet.been 3 months falling for lies

2007-08-19 23:46:46 · 3 answers · asked by donnaj_32 1 in Friends

yesterday i found out that my husband wanted to stay with his ex-wife because of the kids even when she wanted a divorce. he says he wanted to raise them properly, but he didnt get a chance. now they are not very well mannered. and he has to pay alimony money. of course he has nothing nice to say about his ex-wife. but i am thinking - is that because of the kids or could he still have feelings for her? i am very jealous that we dont have children of our own and she will always be the mother of his children. i have been physically sick because of this, it is driving me crazy, i lvoe my husband but i cant get it out of my head.
please, understand taht i know i might be wrong in this situation, but how do i get rid of this disgusting and very strong feeling that i am jsut a rebound and that that was the love of his life since they had kids together. I feel like i am fighting wtih ghosts and shadows and i will never win. my husband is already sick of my ****, but i cant get over it.

2007-08-19 23:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am very happily married and have a 12 year old daughter. Recently i have been jumping down my daughters throat for no apparent reason. Whenever she asks me something or says something i snap. What is wrong with me ? Iove her so much and I am scared this will scar her for life. Sometimes i feel its a power I cant control - god nobody tell me i`m abusing her cause i couldnt live with that . I work with children as a job and i am worried i`m becoming a manic depressive. God help me, I make her feel horrible if we go out somewhere and she wants to get back to see her friends . I snap if she says are you ok mum ? Please help i`m desperate !

2007-08-19 23:39:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have a mutual friend whose husband is gone on leave right now, things seem a bit fishy, although I might be paranoid. Tell me what you think.
1. I've came over a while before with him on the phone with her, albeit, we were going over to her house later on.
2. She seems to address him before me (multiple comments on his myspace, nothing on mine). I started getting suspicious, and things immediately changed.
3. I've found him over at her house... he was helping her pack, but still... for some reason my gut was churning.
4. When we went over that afore-mentioned time, she would talk with him the whole time, and then when he left for a beer run, she would call a friend on the phone.
5. One time when her friend called, she said, remember, I told you about him (about my hubby).
6. Last night, when we were over there, I came out him saying something about an appointment. She quickly said "yeah I need another eye exam" Followed by an uncomfortable silence and then a change of subje

2007-08-19 23:32:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is only paying $ 75.00 a week for 7 days,They bought an old house and everything is being redone,and the dust is really terrible.my hours are from noon to 8 pm.but I really feel im being tooken advantage of.what do you think?

2007-08-19 23:28:50 · 8 answers · asked by donnaj_32 1 in Friends

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2007-08-19 23:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are both married now.But when we met in march we had a brief affair but after that she stopped talking to me and taking my calls etc.She said that we had to put an end to this so she does not want to maintain any contact.But then she came to know that i have been giving missed calls etc. she called and gave her new no.and said she could be contacted there. but when i try to send a msg. i do not get a reply from her.Pls. advise as I really want her in every way.What do i do as i feel she is interested but for the fear that people will get to know of the affair.

2007-08-19 23:19:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship with the same guy for almost 5 years now.We started going out when i just joined campus,but things have been bad for the last two years.
He has cheated on me, and he lies so much..we broken up and made up enough times..
My greatest problem is, i always forgive him and give him another chance, and he seems to change but for just a little while. I feel and i know i have to move on without him, but i have not been able to do exactly that.
What should i do in order to get him completely out of my life?
There are other guys interested in me but i cant move on till i'm sure he's completely out of my life.
Please give your honest opinion and advice..thanks

2007-08-19 23:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by eversmiling1 1 in Singles & Dating

He's always really nice and sweet and i think he's sending signals but i've been wrong before how can u tell?

2007-08-19 23:14:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy n girl see each other once a week. they'from different schools.he might have a secret crush on her. she isnt so sure but suspects it.they seldom have a chance to talk.

he acts kinda weird.like,looking at her and then looking away.gazing. smiling alot when he talks. he once changed his bus route to fit hers.speaks easy to girls but gettin tongue tied with her.took 3 months to initiate talk.staring at her when she went to his concert.is gentlemanly around her.but doesnt talk to her when friends are around.

he once confided in her,at a time when they werent close yet. he told her his friends in school were superficial, some family stuff.n when texting he took some time to reply but always asked her a qn at the end. like if she asked how was his day, he would answer and say, "you?" it went on for 4 days

these few weeks leading to his exams he has been looking less in class.he's focussed on work or suddenly not interested? :S

2007-08-19 23:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl plays hard to get? i kinda have a crush on this guy at work and he knows i like him and he thinks i'm cute and well we're kinda dating, i tend to act like a ***** sometimes w/out thinking twice and today i kinda rejected him when he was gonna hug me because i didn't want the managers to see...sooo i tried calling him and he didn't answer, is it me or is he seriously mad? and do you think a simple i'm sorry will fix things? i sent him messages apologizing...are guys usually moved by apologies???? idk i'm really tripping i cant even sleep

2007-08-19 23:06:25 · 18 answers · asked by Buttercup 3 in Singles & Dating

i recently parted with my long term girlfriend, now i'm thinking did i do th right thing. were spending time apart now. but how do i know if i've made th right desicion and not just made th biggest **** up in history?? please no stupid or immature answers

2007-08-19 23:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by predator 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend coming up to 2 years but the thing is ive no confidence at all. He tells me how much he loves me all the time but im just afraid when he's out he will cheat on me. I really want to trust him cause I love him so much & I dont wanna lose him but all I can think about is him with another girl when he's at house partys. His friends have told me he would never do that but I find it hard to believe them. Ive been cheated on in the past & I dont want it to happen again. My boyfriend knows how I feel and he says im being silly for thinking like this but theres just that wee voice in my head all the time.

Can anyone suggest what help I can get because im only 19 & dont want to live my life thinking like this all the time. Please dont get cheeky answers. :)

2007-08-19 23:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jules 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

things like Get a scarf on your head and keep warm or you will suffer later in life!

2007-08-19 23:03:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that they like me? and if they do and i show they like me then not talk to me any more too. I get told i am beautiful all the time and yet i have no bf. only one and he was not a very good bf

2007-08-19 23:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 23:03:01 · 18 answers · asked by basabdeb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean,is it possible that you can love on person so much and so deeply that all other emotion is blurred out?That everyone else fades into insignificance?

2007-08-19 22:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by DecemberSpirit 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. I really have been inlove with her for over 2 years now. I'll admit I think even upsessed & it has been really hard for me. I have not told her how I feel. She has a boyfriend who really does not treat her right. He has cheated, left for days & does not call etc. Anyway she is upsessed with him no matter what anyone tells her she wont break it off. Then this other guy came along but they came close to being with each other. Then her boyfriend came back & their relationship is better then ever. I think he is mentally abusing her & got jealous & that this better than ever will not last long at all. What do you think?

2- 1 day I told her how much I care & love her & that I am here for her. I did not tell her that I was inlove with her etc. I think she got the message ?
Another day out of the nowhere I looked her in the eyes & said I love you. She got that look on her face of shy or ? & turned her eyes? What do you think this meant? Anything good?
THANKS IN ADVANCE! :-)

2007-08-19 22:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that so many mothers and daughters don't get along. I don't understand this.

2007-08-19 22:58:02 · 7 answers · asked by poopski 3 in Family

i asked her out and she said no i have liked her since primary school i feel like a complete looser

2007-08-19 22:44:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you have been accused of something you havnt done. How do you convince them and get them to believe you. If you have done it and got caught, well fair enough but when you havnt the lack of trust eats away at your spirit until theres nothing left. i have been accused of cheating when i havnt so much as looked at another man. What do i do

2007-08-19 22:44:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can`t explain what i mean but am sure that someone understands.

2007-08-19 22:42:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after talking one month on the phone, we get together. We have great chemistry, and our first date was full of laughs, relief of finding each other attractive after talking and deciding to meet. 3rd date we have sex. each date was 1-2 hours long. Now he is gone. can't reach him. he did answer a few call s and tell me he was going out of town, then would get back to me. I am middle aged for goodness sake guess I didn't expect someone to ditch and run............is this really something that we still do is lie, and hurt at this late date in our lives?????

2007-08-19 22:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by lisa c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 22:37:32 · 38 answers · asked by Ninja jolmod 3 in Singles & Dating

If you should send a gift, do you do it when you send the RSVP that you can't attend. Or do you send it closer to the date of the wedding. A cousin is getting married and it's too far and too costly for me to attend with transportion and hotel fees included.

2007-08-19 22:35:58 · 15 answers · asked by Niko- 2 in Weddings

We started dating Aug 3,4,5 at a rodeo, one year ago. This year, since my boyfriend is a bullrider, we returned to the rodeo so he could buck. We camped over the weekend with a bunch of friends. He did not buy me anything, he did not say anything, we did not have any kind of sex the whole weekend because of the lack of privacy, and when i mentioned that i was not having a good time(not a big fan of rodeos, which he is very aware of) he said if i wanted to leave that would be fine but he would stay another night (night #3, cuz the first two drunk caberet **** shows weren't enough) and he would see me the next day. Then he said he would really like me to stay. So i agreed to stay, only to spend yet another night being sad and just wanting some form of attention from him. He was always off with his friends, partying. He has never dated anyone before and had a very very sheltered upbringing(ex hutterite) so i understand the lack of relationship knowledge but i think i was gypped!

2007-08-19 22:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating