this guy n girl see each other once a week. they'from different schools.he might have a secret crush on her. she isnt so sure but suspects it.they seldom have a chance to talk.
he acts kinda weird.like,looking at her and then looking away.gazing. smiling alot when he talks. he once changed his bus route to fit hers.speaks easy to girls but gettin tongue tied with her.took 3 months to initiate talk.staring at her when she went to his concert.is gentlemanly around her.but doesnt talk to her when friends are around.
he once confided in her,at a time when they werent close yet. he told her his friends in school were superficial, some family stuff.n when texting he took some time to reply but always asked her a qn at the end. like if she asked how was his day, he would answer and say, "you?" it went on for 4 days
these few weeks leading to his exams he has been looking less in class.he's focussed on work or suddenly not interested? :S
2007-08-19 23:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes the girl is me. and uh, dont ask me to ask, cos im rather shy. :)
is there any way i can let him know im interested without coming on too strong? thanks! :)
2007-08-19 23:15:13 · update #1
Sounds to me like he really digs you and is just a shy person. It depends on your age honey but I know that these days, guys are so afraid of rejection, so the fact that he is giving the subtle messages means that he is in for a deep relationship, dont spoil it by jumping the gun and asking him anything, not just yet, rather let the affection grow up, all by itself, if he is into you he will come out and tell you himself, dont push it as pushing it makes you look kinda desperate.
I also would advise that you take a cue from him and go study for your exams, its very important at this stage of your life, I give him credit for taking time off to read, sounds pretty focused to me, just dont pass on the impression that you are a flimsy shallow girl cos then he might just finally scout.
Be yourself and I believe that does the trick.
be good.
2007-08-19 23:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have understood correctly, he has some exams coming up. Send him an sms wishing him luck with his exams and, if appropriate, offer to help him study or just to study together. If he is serious about school it is a good thing and doesn´t mean anything against you.
2007-08-19 23:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him and ask him a vague question, like "What is for lunch in the cafeteria today?", or something that requires more than a yes or no answer. See if he responds. If he does, he probably likes you. If he doesn't, move on.
2007-08-19 23:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by reardigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No shortcuts please! Just let him know that you wish him success during his exams and cross the line 'just' a little bit! Tell him that if he needs a shoulder to lean on - he has your number!
2007-08-19 23:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by antoznyagz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell you to ask so then in about a week you can ask this question again ??? that's silly.. the only way to know is to have the courage and just ask him...
2007-08-19 23:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guts, no glory. Sometimes you just have to suck it up, and say what is on your mind. If you don't, you may never know.
2007-08-19 23:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋