Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

My husband is deployed right now and his birthday is coming up in less then a month. It is hard to just buy anything because we have 2 delema's one we are stationed in Germany and 2 as i said earlier he is deployed. Any ideas would be great thank you

2007-08-19 02:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by militarybratwife 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a busy mum of 2, in the eve 4 only abt an hour i go on the com 2 chat 2 friends etc, y has he got a problem with this.

2007-08-19 02:12:48 · 35 answers · asked by lexi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single dad, trying to get my ex to help with the support of the two children, during the last year, i have had to write certain unsavory letters to the support unit and to complain to as many state agencies as possible, well , enforcement worked, she went to jail once again for not paying, even had money for the kids. but now the state of colorado want to close mycase because they say i am uncooperative, and in order to,proceed to the next level, i should be more. i think it is alot os bss. a simple way out since . obvisily someone in that office was stung in the butt by a higher up. should i just let go, should i stay the fight , as i have been,i have nevr threatened anyone, i did make comments as such, that you are inept, get a job you can handle, and just give me the same treatment as a female would have in this situation, any input will be great. anyone want to help file legal action for my children. have to ask

2007-08-19 02:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by L1M1J1 4 in Family

hi all,
first of all im in an 11 month relationship, im 17 and so is my boyfriend.
our relationship is pretty serious but about 3 weeks ago he got grounded by his mother for calling my mobile from his home phone and racking up a huge bill, she told him she was going to ground him for a month, and so far its been 3 weeks so shes sticking to her guns. He paid her back the day after he got caught but still hes grounded, i know he has to be taught a lesson but she didnt even let him see me for our 11 months, its really hard and has put a big strain on our relationship because we cant talk, only over a stupid computer because he isnt allowed the home phone, and its hard to know he still cares..its horrible i dont know what to do it feels like i havent heard from in ages or seen him and like im not going to for ages many of you may of read this, but i just wanted to know do you think by the sounds of this his mother is tryna keep us apart, me and her havent got along in past situations.

2007-08-19 02:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a question and a lot of folk said yes in response but also said that they had earned their red wings?????

2007-08-19 02:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by B.B. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 01:59:23 · 4 answers · asked by amit r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are in an unhealthy relationship. He gets into fits of rage and violence, insults you, and says things that you are not even thinking.

Each time you get into a major fight, which is almost every week, he says that he is leaving. He calls everyone and lies about you and tells them he's out of here and you will be dead without him.

You wait for him to leave but he doesn't leave, he just gets into his "nice phase" until the cycle of rage starts again the next time.

You pay most of the bills and he lies to everyone that he does. He is threatened each time you move up in your career although you've tried your best to reassure him of your faith in his abilities.

You know that one of you has to leave for your safety and that of your kid.

What do you do?

2007-08-19 01:56:31 · 28 answers · asked by Moira34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

fantasising about other people its really strange. i love my boyfriend so much but i think i am a bit bored - he would be devastated if he new how i felt.

2007-08-19 01:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 01:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by MAUREEN K 1 in Weddings

Alright so yesterday my family and I went on a trip to the CNE.Both my sisters and I got ten bucks each.My one sister spent all of my money without telling me and I let it pass and asked my parents for more money.After following my sisters around the whole day and being really nice to them even though they were trying to exclude me Samantha started saying she would die to save our younger sister if anything happened.I asked if she would save mine and she was like "probably not".Do you know the Bull$hit I go through trying to be her friend?!Every time she would be bullied I would stick up for her and everytime something upset her I would be concerned for her.Shes a user and an abuser.I put up with her bossy,manipulative ways for too long.Should I be upset?After everything I've done for her she treats me like $H!T

2007-08-19 01:53:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-19 01:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by Fedy 2 in Weddings

Im not happy with my married life.It feels as if im living in a hell with my wife.In the May 1997 we had filed a MUTUAL CASE for divorce. Plz answer my following questions.

What should i do i dont ,i don’t hv good relations with my wife?
Is there any scope of improvement in our relationship?
If i get divorce frm her then do i hv to marry a manglik women only?
Out of 11yrs with her i hv been unemployed. What shud i do?
Will i hv any success and happiness in my life?

About Our Birth information :

Myself
Name : Harsh Chandra Panjwani (Manglik) [ Real name Hesraaj Panjwani]
Birth Place – Delhi
Birth Date – 11th September 1958
Birth Time – 9:10 a.m
Sign : Cancer

My wife

Name : Meena Ahuja
Sign : Leo
Birth Place : Karnal
Birth Time : 14:40 p.m
Birth Date : 10th September 1961

2007-08-19 01:51:35 · 11 answers · asked by Hunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 01:45:25 · 38 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

But I have just found out that he has got back together with his ex girlfriend - who is the reason we split up! Should I tell her that we have been sleeping together? Or will this only serve to hurt me in the end? (this girl isn't nice by the way & anyway, I think she should know that he has been cheating on her!)

Has anyone ever done this? And what has been the outcome? If I am honest I just want to hurt him as much as he has hurt me. He doesn't know that I know they're back together & is just playing me.

2007-08-19 01:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by imridingahairytractor 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are devorced , i grew up with my mother and my father moved to another country and i hardly talked to him. my mother and i never were close, she told me when i was younger that getting pregnant with me was a way out of the military i was a planned accident , my self esteem is very low Im now over 30 and have not much of a family life and dont really have any friends , i really want a family to talk to , be around so i tried calling my mother she told me she was busy and hung up. I feel so hurt inside . but do you think i should try again with her ? I dont have any other family members alive other than her and my dad.

2007-08-19 01:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-19 01:38:29 · 26 answers · asked by sykbus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it fair to ask your mate to share in the upkeep of your home 50/50. If you both work 40 hours per week, and one mate doesn't contribute at all, the other cleans, does laundry, cooks etc. and the other complains if something is not done, yet does nothing!

2007-08-19 01:27:41 · 27 answers · asked by Mina M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

trying to find out why.

2007-08-19 01:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

I have caught him several times doing this. My husband is 19years older than me. He stated that he was looking for something that way. (yea right) But just swares that he was not looking at her. This is my first marriage and his third. We have a son together. What should I do?

2007-08-19 01:07:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my guy recently went to a strip club--i feel betrayed. I asked him if i sat on the neighbor's lap with a mini skirt and no underwear would this be acceptable as long as he tipped me?

2007-08-19 00:33:53 · 3 answers · asked by hijynx6 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes ! how could i make my wife to fall in affair with another man and have sexual relationship with him, also that i how could i make that man take pictures and videos of her while having sex with him and give it to me, ofcourse i dont intend to blackmail any one, but how can i achieve the above stated goals?

2007-08-19 00:30:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 00:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are your opinions on love at 15. I'm asking because i have really strong feelings about this person that i have never felt before. I feel like she is the one. I need to know if it is true love because i genuinely feel i love her...

2007-08-19 00:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this cute boy on my road and i like him and he likes me were both nine and i am ten in October and he is ten in Febuaray it is August now we cant stop staring at each other plz help thanks

my dad thinks he likes me too
i want to date him but am i to young???????????

2007-08-19 00:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by zoe k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 00:22:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering what impression or effect it leaves on people.

2007-08-19 00:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-19 00:10:38 · 19 answers · asked by youssef brino 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If anyone has been to a wedding lately and has been given something different please let me know.

2007-08-19 00:08:45 · 33 answers · asked by Melissa H 1 in Weddings

(Answer within 2 days)

2007-08-19 00:06:53 · 5 answers · asked by Aneesah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-19 00:04:37 · 14 answers · asked by Hart Jespers 1 in Singles & Dating