Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

After years I have come in contact with girl now woman I admired and loved.Now she is a mother and a house wife and so am I. I just wanted to know whether she ever liked or loved me . How can I know That.

2007-08-19 07:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by karavi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a small problem... my husband's salary is about 2300 euros, we live in romania, he is a teacher. I always tell him he could do more to earn more, but he's not the type of guy that would say "ok honey, dont worry , you'll never need anything" ... he's in his late 20s, and just says "i always want u to be happy with what i have" ... is this a certain lack of ambition or fear that he cant do more?... I even brought up tthe fact that we'll have kids one day, and we;ll need more, he says he will try and always try for more, but they should be happy... Why didnt he say "my kids wont lack anything, i will do everything to give them what they want" ... :( he was poor himself in his childhood, but now earning that decent salary, which is more than the average income...but why doesnt he insist for more?... Our story was quite different from the beginning... I was the rich girl who had everything, he was the poor boy who worked by himself... Sometimes i think he lacks ambition :(...

2007-08-19 07:35:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I swear I answer more "is my significant other cheating" questions. Sometimes I sit and shake my head at the blatant signs of cheating. I had a situation where one of my married friends found another womans underwear in her bed.....and she asked her husband about it. He ofcourse denied it. I can't think of any reason another woman draws would be in a married couples' bed. Surely I would not be asking my husband if he cheated........the only question I would ask him is "did he hire a good lawyer"???

Do we fall so much in love until our ability to reason leaves our sphere of thinking?

I am not normal with my solutions to issues.....I don't think everyone was cut out for manogamous relationships. I think there are more folks who dont make the cut than we may ever know. It is just so against the norm to just be honest and tell someone upfront that you are not into manogammy. However, wouldn't that be the most honest thing to do...instead of breaking promises and hearts?

2007-08-19 07:34:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

chandran...this is the name! what do you think about it? is it a beautiful name?

2007-08-19 07:31:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-19 07:29:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee's mother is the most meddlesome and annoying person on the face of this planet. She calls him 6 to 7 times a day(they live together, he helps her pay bills) and when I was staying there on vacation, she called me just as much. Have you ever heard of a son who yells and screams at his mother and tells her to mind her own business, stay of his affairs, to let him go, leave him alone, yet she still does what she wants? LOL, it is absolutely amazing to me. I've seen him yell and scream at her, demanding his privacy and respect, since being nice never works, and yet the very next hour..she is back to meddling again? She is always in his and my business. He and I are getting married next year and I am moving to be near him. She refuses to let him go and is constantly trying to control him and me. We don't rely on her or need her at all, she can barely do for herself. I'm not going to be able to deal with this as a married couple.

2007-08-19 07:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Family

give me your first thought.. the first thing you thought when you saw her:
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2007-08-19 07:25:56 · 22 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Singles & Dating

My son is with my sister and she won't give him back. I have tried calling her and emailing her for almost three weeks. I went to her house today and the lawn is overgrown and nobody was there. I have custody (never has been a question about that). I know she knows that I want him because she has talked to our father. Now she's mad at him. I'm ready to press charges. Please help me someone. I'm worried about my baby. He's only eight. I know he's okay physically, but I don't want this to hurt him psychologically.

2007-08-19 07:20:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom and dad have been married for 27 years. My mom has been wanting a divorce for awhile now but cant make it on her own. There is no love between them at all and there never has been. My dad has slept on the couch for as long as I can remember. They fight constantly. They are both home alot of the time so they are always seeing each other and they just fight all the time. I am married and pregnant and I live about 15 mins from them. I finally had enough last night after another phone call from them with them yelling at each other. I am the one who has to listen to all their bullsh*t. I finally talked to each of them seperately and said I am sick of this fighting. It is all I have known my whole life and yall are no foundation for me my brother or my sister. I said yall have no love for one another and my mom sais yes you are right-I resent your dad for all the hell he has put me through for 30 years(controlling, alcoholism, treats her like she is stupid, does nothing with the fami

2007-08-19 07:19:59 · 3 answers · asked by 1st-time-mommy 1 in Family

I dont really want "love" or infatuation right now...(im too young or whatever better excuse i wanna give myself.)He's a junior in one of my classes and i dont really know why i like him or if i do but i find myself loosing sleep thinking about his smile....is there anyways for me to get over him before falling into another relationship and loosing myself yet again?

2007-08-19 07:15:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short, my sis moved out a month ago and she keeps coming round not to chat just to watch TV and she had her friend round one night from 5pm, our house is open plan and I was cooking for me and my bro but since my sis and her friend were having a private conversation I had to stop and go upstairs, by 11.30pm they were still there and me and my bro were starving so I went downstairs and spoke to my sister and basically said they both have their own homes which are empty so why cant they go there so I can sit in the living room of my own home, they soon left and I found out a few days later that her friend said I was rude and she would never come in our house again because she doesnt feel welcome.

My point was it was 11.30 at night and I think their being there was rude.

Was I wrong?

2007-08-19 07:10:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

will boys ages.....12-14 ask out girls if they are a little chubby??? Or are the girls totally unattractive to them?

2007-08-19 07:08:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aside from his mother refusing to let go of her 29 year old son who is ready to get married and start a family with me, he and I have major issues with his mother. I am more than respectful to her and nice and haven't spoken my mind and for his sake, I doubt that I ever will. However, he is Puerto Rican and Sicilian. I am biracial mixed with Black, Asian, and Indian. When we start living together as a married couple though, I would love to prepare the meals that he loves so much by her. I have called and even when I was with her, I asked her 4 times for several recipes of Puerto Rican food(recipes her mother in law gave to her) and Italian recipes from her family. I have yet to get them. I am determined to prepare authentic meals for my fiancee, but I dont understand 1) Why she is refusing to give them to me?

2007-08-19 07:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Family

My mom past away 7 years ago. My fiance's dad past away almost 2 years ago his mother little less then a year ago. should we chose one song as a memorial to all of them. A special song for each of them through the recpition? What can we do besides just a song to show a loving memorial to all of them?

2007-08-19 06:58:23 · 22 answers · asked by pandazoogurl 3 in Weddings

I met a man recently (about a month ago) who seems to be very up front and honest with me. He told me he was married, which I already knew. He told me he has one son and his wife recently had twin girls, but he is not sure if the girls are his.

Over the past month we have been talking and slowly becoming friends. I knew that he was developing a crush on me and I on him, but I respected his marriage and didn't say anything about. Then one night he kissed me.

Even before the kiss, we both seemed to be very open and honest with each other. He knows I have a daughter from a previous relationship and was quite heartbroken to find out after becoming pregnant that my daughter's father is married with a daughter (he told me he was single with not children). He told me that he and his wife have talked about getting a divorce because the relationship is not going to work. He told her as soon as she stops nursing and returns to work he is filing papers.

is this adultery?

2007-08-19 06:54:49 · 38 answers · asked by chele2382 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy nearly 3 years ago now and have got to know him more and I fell in love with him, I can't bring myself to tell him because in my heart I know he's to good for me and I'm not the type of lady he usually goes for they seem to be tall and confident whereas I'm small and shy, anyway I've gained this reallly good opertunity (excuse spelling, keyboard's playing up)for me to get away from him and maybe figure out how much he means to me, it's 2 months in south america, working with wildlife, I have put my name forward but I need help to find if I have made the right decision or if I'm just running away, please help me any suggestions will be appreciated.

2007-08-19 06:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Singles & Dating

It always seems to happen. You lose your job you find a new girl. The girl thing gets more interesting and you need to relocate. Explain how you deal with a few heartless years. Is the crapshoot the best possible system??

2007-08-19 06:46:13 · 1 answers · asked by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 in Friends

2007-08-19 06:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My exboyfriend broke up with me about a month ago because he couldn't handle the stress of our relationship anymore although he still loved me. We got together a few times after the breakup and had a wonderful time, but nothing made him want to come back. I called him at the beginning of the week and he was very rude to me and said he wants to move on. My ex never says he is sorry for anything, but he ended up texting me that night saying sorry. I didn't respond back so he ended up calling me 4 times the next day and left me a message saying sorry for being rude, he was just trying to make a point, and he hopes I feel better. I never answered the phone and still haven't called him back. He always expects me to be there when he opens up communication between us, but I wasn't this time! Am I doing the right thing by not calling him? I was hoping it might make him think.

2007-08-19 06:34:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my friend just had this party yesterday and today at her grandma's campground. There was this really hot guy there, who ended up being a couple of years older than us, that we talked to and convinced to come hang out with us (even though it didn't take much persuasion...).
So he came and hung out with us (it was us five girls and him) and he ended up just staying over with us even though his site wasn't too far from ours.
Me and him ended up sharing a pillow, blanket, and pretty much the room that we had. After a while though, we ended up cuddling and holding hands until we fell asleep.
We woke up a little bit later, and he asked if I wanted to kiss. I had just met him, but I pretty much knew everything I needed to know about him and said no without thinking. I didn't want to say no, but he'd caught me off guard and half asleep, so probably not the best time to ask me.

(I'll add more details, just hold on!!!)

2007-08-19 06:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

First of all, I already know the answer, but I don't feel I am capable of it. The answer of course is not to be afraid and go on the attack. In other words, I need to be the alpha male. But knowing something intellectually and being able to do it are two very different things.

How do I rise above the shyness and the anxiety?

2007-08-19 06:29:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well....
If you had a daughter that was 15 would you let her go with one of her friends who is 17 in there car? just to go with them somewhere?
yes or no....
not maybe..lol

2007-08-19 06:24:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-19 06:24:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 06:19:42 · 71 answers · asked by Lil Star 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the above says it all..

2007-08-19 06:05:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm confused in my marriage. I'm not sure what to do next. :(
My husband cheated on me before we married. (That girl told me that your BF was chating on you with me) He said he wont do it if I forgive him and give him second chance. Which I did. A year later we married, and moved away to another state. We have been married a year and 2 months now. I'm still thinking: Will he cheat one me again? b/c I still feel hurt from his first cheat.
We dont really have alot of sex. once a month or so.=/ It is not I dont want to. It is he always feel tired from his work. We dont talk about our mind or feeling to each other either. Is that normal to married people? You lost interests in each other after married?
Now He is away for some business. He is not answering his phone when I called. He would call back after it. He goes bed at 10pm.(we usually dont go to bed until 11 or 12)
What should I do? I want to believe him, But I dont want to get some disease either if he lies to me again.

2007-08-19 05:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Talking about my mom.

2007-08-19 05:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was shopping the other day and this guy just came up and said "nice a-ss"

I walked away..but I found it very rude. If someone came up to you and said that would you find it rude?

2007-08-19 05:52:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tinly little lies.Well i never lie to my hubby,but i told him i hadnt seen some pics he had sent me,but i did.Is this bad?.i feel like im lying to him BIG TIME

2007-08-19 05:50:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i started liking this guy i met at a frat party a couple of days ago. things were going well...he thought i was cute and i thought the same of him...we kissed, he acts like he likes me so i thought we could date. so tonight we talked and he said he had something to tell me. i was thinking that maybe he'd ask me on a date but instead he tells me that his ex wants to get back together and he's trying to decide what to do. i told him that although i do like him, i understand but to tell me what he decides to do. he said he would but then proceeded to tell me that i could still come over to the frat house to hang out. idk what to do really....he says it wouldn't be awkward but i think it would be. i really like him but idk, would you still go over there?

2007-08-19 05:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating