Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

i also have a problem opening up to people and fear of being around people even in my 30s

2007-08-19 03:26:21 · 18 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was 12 (Im 14 now)Ok my little sister(she was 8 at that time) does some stuff wrong like at school (behavior problems) My Mother hit her and left she was told to take a shower and my mother left to go to work my two older brothers pushed her and grabbed her towel away from her One is 18 the other is 17. They laughed in front of her and said "we already saw you no need to cover it up"
I felt this was so wrong and couldnt get it out of my head. Also two incedents happened when she was changing, another time she was trying to take a shower and they pulled the covers. I cant get this out of my head it is haunting me they are both 20 and 21 now they both stopped it. How can i get rid of these thoughts.

2007-08-19 03:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Logan 1 in Family

OK... so my b/f has cheated on me before... i have called him out on it but he just deny's it and says that the girl who claims to have slept with him is lying.... So now i'm getting the feeling he is screwing around on me again... i just dont have proof this time... it's an aweful feeling but we've been together for 3 yrs and have a child together. I just dont know what to do any advice? I don't know for a fact that he is cheating on me this time... i am just worried that's what he's doing...

2007-08-19 03:19:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been to all the theme park in this area ..away at horse camp ..did other camps as well ...seen every movie..
swimming ,bowling ,tennis ..has game boy ..DS. and PSP ...
what more can i do ....i spent my time at work or with her ...
so now what ?? the summer is almost over and i don't know what to do ???

2007-08-19 03:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My daughters friend done this and my sister has told me that it is classed as paodophellia! Is she right?

2007-08-19 03:06:27 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why does she keep meeting weirdos,she goes to the best and the worst places shes been in all millieu's,but the only people she meets are either very mature men with kids,or those who have no aim in life but waste on drugs and alcohol ,those who live only for one day,those who are so complicated,those who are plain weird,or immature guys who are plain ignorant..and everyone around her cannot understand the reason for her being single,what is her problem?how does she manage to attract the wrong energy??please help ..cause im one step of going crazy and 2 from becoming very cynical and depressed,and i have been patient for 1year 8months..so??

2007-08-19 03:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by patme 1 in Singles & Dating

He lives in another country. My mother left when I was young and he raised my two other siblings and myself. He made alot of mistakes and was abusive, although he did the best he could. Up until last year I was engaged. He said he would not come to the wedding, that it was too long of a flight. Am I obligated now to go see him simply because he is my dad and getting older etc. He makes very little effort now, 1 phone call a month, maybe a 3 line email every second week.

2007-08-19 03:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Wendy H 1 in Family

I just ask God Into my life and confessed my sin to him. how come It does not feel like he Is In my life and he forgave me? why does It feel that way?? how do I have a true relationship with him? what do I do now that I have asked him Into my life?

2007-08-19 03:00:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need some stories on your mothers attitudes during your wedding planning. Lets start off by saying that i love my mom dearly. With that said, she is driving me nuts!! Instead of helping me with things, she is quite the opposite. Here is an example. The other day i got my shipment of 'maids dresses(BTW, houseofbrides rock) and i was making sure that what i ordered was all correct. She looks at the dresses, looks at me, rolls her eyes and says "Is that what they look like?" I sucked up the urge to yell and told her that it was. Then she gets over that and says "Are all of the maids going to where the same color?" I say yes and once again, she rolls her eyes. Then she starts giving me a guilt trip and nitpicking about "oh, i thought they were going to have different colors & why are they only knee length?" This is just 1 issue. When i talk about the wedding, this happens. Any brides have stories to make me feel better? Please, i need to laugh

I marry my sweetie October 20 07

2007-08-19 02:59:26 · 12 answers · asked by mom to be 6/27/09 3 in Weddings

My Mom Is very mean and rude to me and she Is always putting me down. I get treated very badly by her and I have never gotten treated so badly as bad as my Mom treats me by anyone. me and my Mom barely talk because of the way that she treats me. she's always yelling and swearing at me, saying how much she hates me and everything. I'm 23 years old and me and my friend have been planning on getting me to move away and move In with her which Is In a different town and If I told my Mom I am moving out she would try to stop me because I know the way that she Is. when I am living at home I have nothing, no life, no future and it's all because of my mom, she does not care about education at all. And my friend said when I move In with her, I'll have a life, future a lot of things and her husband has already gotten me a job. the question Is HOW would I move out? would I do it without my Mom knowing and leaving her a note? Because If I do it by walking out the door when she see's me then she Is probably going to try to stop me and argue with me like she always does. what should I do? you're help Is apprecitated thank you....

2007-08-19 02:58:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey Guys,
Here's the situation. I attract the "players". The competitive type, which is similar to my personality. The problem is, although the foreplay and sexual tension is fantastic, The sex usually lasts about 5 minutes, and I'm sorta left hanging. This is really frustrating for me, and it's becoming a repeated pattern. I have had men tell me I make them feel embarrassed/inferior after were finished. The classic line: "this has never happened to me before..." Im wondering if any of you maybe have some suggestions as to what i can do to relax him a little more, slow it down, while still keeping myself interested in it??
And what can i do to prevent lasting feelings/emotions, which sometimes is mistaken when they become infatuated and think they are in love?? I just want to have an orgasm!!! I have tried quite a few things, different age groups, different types, it always seems to bring out the same result....

2007-08-19 02:54:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where is the prince that I married? What happened to that diamond I keep dusting off?

2007-08-19 02:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by Wonder Women 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would appreciate any answer and I know there will be some rude answers, but I'm really in deep trouble and don't know what to do. Here is my story.

I got married when I was 18 to a guy I didn't really know. This was sort of an aranged marriage. I wasn't completely in the dark about all this but I knew at that time how bad my parents especially my father and the rest of the relatives really wanted this marriage to actually happen. I was young and stupid and I went along with it. It's been 8 years now that I am married to this guy and even though I learned to respect him and care about him after all he is my husband, I never actually loved him. We are completely two different people. He is 10 years older than I am and we have nothing in common. We fight all the time. He cares about his job and what other people think more than he cares about me which is why I am not really so attracted to him. Well this is not the whole problem. About 3 years ago I met a guy and we were friends for

2007-08-19 02:52:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my family always shouts on me if one of them is mad from sb they start shouting on me without a reason.........WELL im 18 a girl wiyh 2 brothers the older one is 20 and the young one is 5...and they never get blamed its always on me evenif it is not my fault and to make it more complicated they never never listen to me.................how bad is my luck.....no family to understand me and no sister to talk with and no friends right now to hang out with cause all of them are busy right now.....how lucky am i????????????

2007-08-19 02:50:31 · 4 answers · asked by bestpocahontas89 1 in Family

Just want some opinions...I've been talking to a guy online for a while and recently he sent me his number. I don't have my picture up cos a bit dubious about stangers knowing all my personal details etc. Anyway, i texted him my picture and then he got all flirty and saucy with me. I played along with it (was a bit drunk) and now he keeps asking for pics of me in my underwear!!!! He sent me one of him in his pants (dont ask).

Was fun at first now he won't let it lie. Dunno if it's flirtatiousness or something more sinister??? Do you think he's a perv?

I'm a bit creeped out now...

2007-08-19 02:46:30 · 28 answers · asked by nursey 2 in Singles & Dating

I ask all kinds of questions and all I ever get is like 5 or 6 answers. Why?? There are plenty of stupid questions on here that get like 40 or more answers. Those questions are stupid and are not even serious. When I ask my serious questions it seems like no one answers much... why is this.

2007-08-19 02:46:05 · 11 answers · asked by what? 3 in Singles & Dating

Either the car or the credit card is paid and half of the other....he won't keep a positive outlook that this might be doable in January....I just really want to TTC! He already broke a promise we could try after getting married in July....because he made a $8000 mistake in October 2006....now I'm paying for it!? How can I convince him to try in January even if his goal isn't met? He seems to think it's all about when HE feels we are ready....

2007-08-19 02:43:20 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sixteen and i want to move back to my hometown of St. Andrews to train to be a nurse whilst living with my fiance who is eighteen. (We have been together since i was twelve and he was fourteen) I currently live near Aberdeen (we live up here because my dad was moved due to the armed forces), but my parents think i'm not responsible enough. How can i show them i am mature enough to leave?

2007-08-19 02:39:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean, if you notice you have no friends or people of the opposite sex to hang out with unless you're in school or work, doesn't that tell you that you need to get out and mingle???

2007-08-19 02:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is emotionally cheating on me and probably physically too. I'm 7 months pregnant and am trying to decide if I should leave and move 3 hours away. I'm scared I can't raise my son on my own. Any success stories out there. How long will this hurt?

2007-08-19 02:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Jenny D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my best guy friend has been my friend since 1st grade but has always been a grade above... suddenly he decided he would rather be in my class other than his class therefore moving to 9th grade from 10th grade. (we only have 1 class per grade) The problem is he has been acting like an idiot. He keeps treating me like i need someone to take care of me all the time and like im a little kid... but he does this in front of everyone! For example "you know you two shouldnt argue, "mystery girl" why do you have to argue with everyone? im going to sit in between you two so that you (meaning me, mysterygirl)dont cause problems" when me and my other friend (girl) were really just playfully bickering. He acts protective saying "ooo you shouldnt watch this part" when im actually the same age as him and wasnt the one that got freaked out by Behind Enemy Lines in 7th grade..he's like my father, my brother, and my annoying best friend in one! and Now he is in my class!!! i dont know what to do!

2007-08-19 02:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by MysteryGirl 2 in Friends

Many of the postures are provocative and include her friends.
Her mother is struggling this summer to finish her Master's degree and is a single mother and very stressed out. I don't know how to bring this to her attention without, a) having them both "shoot the messenger" (me), having my neice furious with me for years to come, facing my sister's denial and causing her MORE stress. (We are not close). Please advice . . .

2007-08-19 02:34:08 · 48 answers · asked by apples 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend(girl) ,i mean only friend not gf.After a week that we know each other i offered her to put our relationship in a new level,i mean gf & bf.Then she rejected me and asked me to be just friend. Now we are just friends but she doesn't treat me like before.Her body language says: "you want me,but i don't and you're a poor guy" and something like this,and it seems that she's happy for rejecting me and wanna play with me. What do i do?

2007-08-19 02:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by EH$AN 1 in Friends

my friend is the same age as me, 15.. he has gone through a lot of pain.. his parents recently had a divorce... he lost many of his friends... his girlfriend who he talked about his problems with dumped him recently.. and his grades suddenly dropped.. im sure it seems very unrealistic but its tru and he is a very close friend of mine... one day he called me and he said he wanted to kill himself... wat shood i tell him if he calls again?

2007-08-19 02:31:46 · 20 answers · asked by Summer-breeze Pete 1 in Friends

My brother is 14 and im 16 and he is a total pain in the @zz. Last night he got on my last nerve and I totaly went off on him. He's been annoying me since last week, it like he's the younger brother front hell!
I was on Myspace when he was just doing random little things just to piss me off and I had it!
I told him " F*** you you little s***, just f*** off and leave me the hell alone, You have just been a total pain in the @zz and I'm sick of it!" He looked pretty scared and he ran away from me. It felt so good to let out all that anger bus so bad to yell at my younger brother. I tried say I was sorry but he just wouldn't anwser me. Do you think I was TOO harsh for yelling at my brother like that? My friends think he'll get over it and my parents took a 2 week trip to Ohio and their cell phones don't get a signal there so I can't get in touch with them

2007-08-19 02:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-19 02:26:15 · 3 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

The couple is a lesbian couple.How can the nonbiological mother get custody or some type of part in the children's lives?Her name is on the birth certifcate and they do have her last name.However,she never adopted them.Is there anything at all she can do?? Any answers would be very helpful!

2007-08-19 02:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by just meeee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 02:24:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight my gf & I enjoyed an afternoon in bed as it was a rainy, wet Sunday in more ways than one ! We always enjoy gr8 sex, today I was more attentive and gave her oral pleasure for half an hour after taking her from behind than as she rode my face I felt a trickle than the flood gates opened, I'm just not sure if thats ALL it was cause usually I would love that, but this left me gagging, I had to stop & wash my mouth out !

2007-08-19 02:20:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or these womanizers will only be ready to commit to ONE and ONLY ONE partner, only when their physical prowess succumb to old age?

2007-08-19 02:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating