When I was 12 (Im 14 now)Ok my little sister(she was 8 at that time) does some stuff wrong like at school (behavior problems) My Mother hit her and left she was told to take a shower and my mother left to go to work my two older brothers pushed her and grabbed her towel away from her One is 18 the other is 17. They laughed in front of her and said "we already saw you no need to cover it up"
I felt this was so wrong and couldnt get it out of my head. Also two incedents happened when she was changing, another time she was trying to take a shower and they pulled the covers. I cant get this out of my head it is haunting me they are both 20 and 21 now they both stopped it. How can i get rid of these thoughts.
2007-08-19 03:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Logan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im not sick for making this up when i did the younger brother/older sister scenario people said it was alright and ur sisters were just messing around when i did the youger sister older brother scenario people said it was bad and a crime.
2007-08-19 03:52:27 · update #1
Your last question says this same exact senario but it was your 2 older sisters that did this to your younger brother. You're sick for making this crap up.
2007-08-19 03:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Green Is Sexxxy 5 · 9⤊ 7⤋
Little Sister Naked
2016-10-02 07:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by hone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SICK AND WRONG!
Those were the first words that came to my mind. Your brothers are perverted just hope that all they did was look. Thats still wrong. Even if they already saw her there is no reason to shove her or take her towel from her. Shes a little kid for crying out loud and they should be more affectionate especially since they are her older big brothers. You should stick up for her and tell your parents she might need counceling. just try to be there for her and tell her you think what they did was wrong be her friend it seems to me like after an experience like the one you named she could use an older sibling to talk to one thats preferably not a preverted idiot. Your brothers are a good 10 and 9 yrs older then her they should know the difference between right and wrong.21 and 20 is too old to be doing stupid stuff like that to her wheather shes 8 or 10 its still wrong. They are in there 20s and they should know better! just try to be her friend and help her because when she gets older you dont want her having a problem when it comes to trusting guys. Be there if she needs to talk thats very important good luck with your problem remember Im here if you need to talk. Just IM me!
2007-08-19 03:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sh00ting_St@r! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong of the brothers to do that to your little sister. They invaded her privacy. Did you tell your mother about the incident . You have the right to feel the way you do. Stick up for you sister if they try it again. They are both adults now, that is a sexual act doing those kind of things. Even if they were just playing and joking around it still wasn't right to make her or you uncomfortable in that sort of way. I don't know what else to say to make you feel any better about it other than talk to your mom about it. Good luck sweetie.
2007-08-19 03:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Wrinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds weird. it was somehow ok when ur sis was 8...coz she was just a child and "may be" that was the brother's (rude) way to annoy her or to make fun of her. but it doesn't really matter how old the sis was, coz both the brothers were already grown up.
ur feeling about this is ok. it is really weird. u have to tell ur younger sis to protest at this. besides, let ur parents know about it and also talk to the brothers the same way. at least let them know that the family is conscious about every small thing that comes in.
2007-08-19 03:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk to them about this because I would bet they have no idea this has affected you as deeply as it apparently has. (For that matter, how has your little sister processed this incident? Has it troubled her the last two years as well?) I hate the blanket excuse that "boys will be boys" but in this case that seems to fit. I am sure they meant no harm and it will probably surprise them to know it's still with you to this degree...in fact, they may have trouble remembering the incident themselves. But if you really want to put it behind you and get some sense of closure to this situation, they are the best place to start. Talk to them as soon as you can. Good luck to you.
2007-08-19 03:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, young boys do things they shouldn't. I doubt it was sexual in nature. I believe it was just a part of growing up. However, your Mom hitting her is wrong. Boys tease girls unmercifully when they are that age. Mom should have been told and set some standards to the boys. If your sister is happy and healthy, don't worry about it. It's over now and as long as you never see it again, forget about it. It's done.
2007-08-19 03:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by red 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why your brothers did this or whether it was right or wrong or whether it was just brothers messing about or whatever I don't know but I do know that it has affected you and its not right that you should be affected by it. You should talk to someone, a friend, teacher, aunt, uncle, parent, grandparent, or ask to see you school councilor or school nurse, talking about it will help you over come the thoughts that haunt you.
2007-08-19 03:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you didn't state that you have told your mother about this matter -----if you didn't talk to her now it might have been a long time sense this happen but your the only one who is carrying this load on your back---if you did tell your mom and she didn't do any thing about it --then you should talk to the closes member of your family like a aunt grandmother some one get it out in the open
2007-08-19 03:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by darlene l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother, their mistreatment of her in the past is probably the cause of her behavioral problems....she may need professional help and it's better for her to try and resolve these issues now than when she gets older.
2007-08-19 03:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by neet 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be a friend to your sister and let the past be the past they were just messin around prolly.
2007-08-19 04:06:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋