I have a friend(girl) ,i mean only friend not gf.After a week that we know each other i offered her to put our relationship in a new level,i mean gf & bf.Then she rejected me and asked me to be just friend. Now we are just friends but she doesn't treat me like before.Her body language says: "you want me,but i don't and you're a poor guy" and something like this,and it seems that she's happy for rejecting me and wanna play with me. What do i do?
2007-08-19 02:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by EH$AN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmmm.. ok, sometime it happens man. What i can say now, give yourself time. Don't assume that she hates you or something. You both were good friends right? after you proposed than she acting this way right? Since like that, i think she needs sometime to digest what you said. After sometime, i am sure you all will be back to normal (how you both used to be). Maybe, who knows, she might be thinking about what you said to her since you trigger her thoughts of being in relationship. Just wait and see whats gonna happen man.
Regards
FiC!!!
2007-08-19 02:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by thoufic r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just awkward for her because you feel one way and she feels another, so you're both dancing on eggshells around each other for awhile. (And because you were the one rejected you're feeling especially sensitive to changes in the ways you relate to each other, too....all perfectly normal human responses). Take a step back for a little while and give things a chance to settle, then see where you stand with each other. Things may never be 100 % the way they were before because no one can reliably pretend they don't know something that they obviously do, but your friendship may develop stronger dynamics than it ever had before, so give it a shot. Good luck to you.
2007-08-19 02:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't sound like a very nice person. If you think that she is looking down on you, it's time to find a new friend.
Next time, take a little longer before you decide to move on to gf/bf. A week isn't enough time to get to know someone very well.
2007-08-19 02:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give: Find yourself another girl, There are lots of fish in the sea! if she was a true friend she wouldn't treat you like that.
2007-08-19 03:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first confirm that if she likes anybody else......if it is, be just as a friend....hey....if u really like her to be a gf and if ur heart says it.. listen to it and nothing else.....try to .be just as a friend to her till she accepts ur proposal........b patient....if u dont commit to any mistake and b just as a friend till she accepts or she proposes...then one day u will feel happy...remember that ushould not hurt her feelings.......if in ur confirmation, u find that she already likes any one other, then its ur duty to check that he is good or not.....if he is not , dont feel happy and tell her loudly.......first confirm everything twice and thrice and then proceed slowly and b just a friend at present......FIRST TRY TO FIND ANY MISTAKE IN U ...that she may got hurted and try to rectify that.......remeber that if u r sincere no one can defeat u in any one........and in this context u will get her love...once again b patient and think twice and take a right step slowly and sincerely and thus u can.................ALL THE BEST for ur love.............i hope u follow this because if u follow this......it means u taking a very good step .................
2007-08-19 04:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by chikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay friends with her for a bit than if shes still acting like that, you should stop being friends with her.
2007-08-19 02:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Neno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her then if she isnt a good friend why do u want her in ur life?
2007-08-19 02:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋