I mean, if you notice you have no friends or people of the opposite sex to hang out with unless you're in school or work, doesn't that tell you that you need to get out and mingle???
2007-08-19 02:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've gotten this far........and I'm a lazy bastard. But I've had sex once or twice and all that, so I think I'm fine. It's the lack of interesting people, and everone I've met has either got their heads up their asses, or they're even lazier than I am.
2007-08-19 02:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just loners. They prefer being by themselves.
Also, some people just aren't confident enough to even try. They don't think anyone would want to be friends with them anyways so they don't try.
Other times people are just shy. They're confident and like the company of people but they just naturally don't talk a lot or speak very quietly. Since it's how they naturally are it can be hard to change.
2007-08-19 02:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by pretty little liar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably because they came from a family that didn't put any weight on socializing and group activities and as a result they haven't a clue where to start. Hobbies are the best way of meeting people, or if they are really nerdy, they can join one of those Civil War reenactment groups or th Trekkies. Come to think of it, I always did want to meet that little green girl...
2007-08-19 02:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People with poor social skills often have low self esteems and so they probably don't think that anything they say is even worth listening to. Therefore, they don't want to go out. It's as simple as that.
2007-08-19 02:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly a lot of people are not aware of the lack of social skills and graces. They instead blame everyone and everything else for their lot in life.
2007-08-19 02:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its coz they are too cool. Why do you care so much, seeing the party animal that you are? Ever strikes you that some people have real life situations/problems to deal with and socialising just for the sake of socialising is way down their list?
2007-08-19 02:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
yeah it does, like me i was shy and quiet in school but now i talk alot but depends tho, but the thing is that my lifes still the same =( lol
2007-08-19 02:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by David Tan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, some people aren't like that. As long as it works works for them, then great. Just be glad it's not you.
2007-08-19 02:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that ppl r shy.. i was like that.. then i came over that shyness and now i have very good social skills
2007-08-19 02:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not me. too much work for so much trouble lol
to be serious, they don't believe they can develop any skills so they leave it at that
2007-08-19 02:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋