Just want some opinions...I've been talking to a guy online for a while and recently he sent me his number. I don't have my picture up cos a bit dubious about stangers knowing all my personal details etc. Anyway, i texted him my picture and then he got all flirty and saucy with me. I played along with it (was a bit drunk) and now he keeps asking for pics of me in my underwear!!!! He sent me one of him in his pants (dont ask).
Was fun at first now he won't let it lie. Dunno if it's flirtatiousness or something more sinister??? Do you think he's a perv?
I'm a bit creeped out now...
2007-08-19 02:46:30 · 28 answers · asked by nursey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even go there hun. Most of the men on online dating are only out for one thing. And most of the women are just desperate. By putting yourself on there you are putting yourself in the same categorie. Are you really that desperate sweetie?
2007-08-19 08:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he's 30 and your 17 he's a sick pervert. Second why would you want to be with someone so old? I bet your a pretty girl with low self-esteem. He acts the way he does because in reality you are a child to him. Don't ever let a guy treat you like this. Women, and you will be one soon enough, deserve a high level of respect. I was raped at 16 by a 26 year old and had a kid. My life was over before it really began. I had such low self-esteem I was in 2 abusive relationships that almost killed me. I wish I had someone back then to talk to. Hold yourself in a higher reguard than you do. Be picky about who you deal with. Your young and i'm sure you deserve better.
2016-05-17 07:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how longs that been going on for?
how long have you two been chatting for?
how clear have things been between you about each others horneyness/sex drives?
what sort of dating site (some kinds of those things - well you asked for it, others probably not)?
have you tried being up fornt with him? ie "that was fun that nite, but it was just when I was drunk thats not normal - leave it go." if you dont tell him then he wont know where enough is enough if his drive is higher than yours.
how clear are things on whats wanted? you looking for a relationship, the ever vague friends maybe more (which covers I looking to get know people and if I find the right one I will settle down ot I want to shag lots of blokes that can get my attention - not clear)
failing that - women arent interested in men that dont push things in sexual direction (well lets put it this way when they are - along comes a guy who does and guess what happens?)
buit end of the day if hes creeping you out and you told him to drop it (try not responding him - usually gives them the right impression given time) or change stuff like no# screen name.
2007-08-19 03:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with this, just say no....and tell him if he keeps asking you'll stop chatting to him. I was once chatting to an apparently nice and interesting guy for several weeks...then he sent me a video clip, said it was of him playing with his dog....WELL...first time I've ever heard it called that! Needless to say didn't talk to him again. A lot of the people online are just exhibitionists and liars...how do you even know it's him in the pic, for instance? Take care
2007-08-19 02:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by drjaycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nursey that is the danger of talking with people we don't actually know. They could be anyone or anything and pretend to be something completely different. Look if it is making you feel uncomfortable then block him from your list and just don't respond to any more of his messages. You are wise to not give out too much info as Christ only knows how dangerous a situation you could find yourself in.
2007-08-19 02:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a whole lot creeped out. Break this thing off and be ready to change phone numbers and a lot of other things in case this perv gets to be a stalker.
2007-08-19 02:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 35 men for every 1 woman registered with a dating website.
2007-08-20 22:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An utter perv. Sexual deviant and possibly a danger to society and dare I say it, womankind. If it weren't for the fact that online dating is a regrettable thing to do, I'd recommend you let his friends and family know what's he's like, so that this animal can get help.
2007-08-19 03:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by second only to trollalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a photo of a dot cotton look alike with nora batty knickers a grey saggey bra an ena sharpels hair net complete with rolled down stockings. say you bought some new gear to pose in! he might loose interest!
2007-08-19 15:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mick W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like hundreds of others started something you can't control.
Get out of chat rooms and stay out !!
You said you acted drunk.
That is really stupid and would lead him on.
You do not know who you are talking to on the internet. THINK !!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are thousands of perverts just waiting for an opportunity to strike.
What seems like fun is NOT.
2007-08-19 03:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋