Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

Or are you more inclined to pick up on physical attributes and then "switch off" when they start talking garbage?

2007-08-16 23:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 in Singles & Dating

out of nowhere everything changes - sex stops - she lies - starts to be secretive - doesn't help out with her part of our responsibilities - talks to me as if I was a child - more so a "room mate" now instead of my "mate" - I can never do right in her eyes - constantly complaining about anything and everything I do - and its ok for her to have "male" friends and I cannot have any "female" friends - she is a flight attendant, so constantly out and about and around the world......my question is.....is she cheating, how can I find out (need to prove my assumptions) and how do I end this relationship if she is, when my head says get out of it, but my heart says to stay and fix it? it's easier said than done.

2007-08-16 23:47:57 · 15 answers · asked by Lilkryptonite 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 23:35:41 · 30 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

I have just gotten married to my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years. My boyfriend never treated me very well, i have strong suspicions he cheated on me for the first 3 years of our relationship and his family treat me really badly. I dont know why i got married, everything went wrong, im not happy and not attracted to my husband.

The big problem, there is a man at work i cant speak to who i am really drawn to. I have a big really good feeling about this guy and cant stop thinking about him.

Im not attracted to my husband anymore and im not sure what to do...I dont know whether this is teething probs, a phase or a sign of things to come.

Anyone out there had anything similar? I could use some advice re get out or stay?

2007-08-16 23:34:28 · 10 answers · asked by Feeling Guilty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone with brains brawn and is mentally unstabel.And do women avoid these types of men?

2007-08-16 23:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 23:27:22 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do they actually sit there with a ruler and measure it??

2007-08-16 23:13:15 · 46 answers · asked by Daisy 3 in Singles & Dating

I told a guy I love him and I know he loves me too but why did he turn into a mute? He won't talk now but I know he cares! I love you doesn't always mean a commitment it just means I love you! He is from Taiwan so I can't understand him!

2007-08-16 23:12:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf

2007-08-16 23:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this may be a silly question but anyway,I wanna ask about it...
I always work in the night(from 6p.m till 6 a.m).Not every night,luckily.I always use make-up and stuff like that(mascara..) before I go to work...but by the time I finnish my job,I look like I haven't slept for few days and I barely look like a nice girl...Any tips?Does anyone have a same problem?Should I eat a lot of vegetable,drink a lot of water?

Sorry for my English!

2007-08-16 23:00:32 · 11 answers · asked by **Diana** 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we clicked quite quickly and met up. Got on great and have been emailing & texting constantly since. He told me he is separated and doesnt want a one on one relationship just now, but would like us casually see each other i.e. we both have the option to see others if we wish, and in time if we really click then our relationship would become more. I met him again 2 weeks ago and we spent the evening looking into each others eyes - he told me that he felt a deep connection between us. The thing that worries me is that on the 2 occasions we met up, we met somewhere over an hour away from where we both live (I live 20 mins from him)...We had planned to meet last nite but when I suggested we meet near where he lives he went quiet and suggested we meet up next week instead. We have never spoken on the phone, and I am worried that he is either A) Still married or B) has a girlfriend.
If he did really fancy me he would want us to meet up anywhere would he? Am I being taken for a fool? Help!!

2007-08-16 22:49:42 · 20 answers · asked by emeraldsue 2 in Singles & Dating

can you tell me sometning about your family?
what do you and your family do for a living?
what do you and your family like to do together?
do you prefer big families and small families?

2007-08-16 22:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl my brother dating 10 years ago emailed me on MySpace and is saying she believes one hundred percent that her daughter is my brothers. My brother has 3 1/2 children by his fiancee. He's protesting that the 9 year old his and why did the mother contact me-his sister and not find him on Myspace. I would believe him believe him but he won't even talk to the other girl when seems to be a case of protesting too much. What to do?

2007-08-16 22:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by Talon 2 in Family

i need honest answers on this please, my wife found out i was seeing this married woman .5. years ago from the womans husband i was doing missionary work . at that present time my i was.19. this married woman was.47. and married with children and a husband my wife caught me posting question.s on here throught her mother. one day my wife called this woman.s husband and he told her. my wife everything that had went on . i was married when i went on my mission it was.5. years ago am i still libaled for well having a sexual affair with this married woman it was.5. years ago . and she was always comming on to me and yes i did hate her husband and i really could not stand her. his wife . that.s why i did have sex with this cheap whore she was older than me. isnt she the one more at fault than me it would seem so after allshe was the one making all the moves on me and it.s a very long story isnt there a time limit on this where i cant get into no trouble over this married woman she a whore?

2007-08-16 22:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Now I am trying to find a job and I can not get one. what should I do? what should I say? I say this is my fate and the god has already prepared every thing for me. with these comfort words I feel so easy and I hope that God will do good to me.

but what I get is so misserable day after day. no money no honey. up to now I have lost nearly all my every thing is that I lost my love. this is because of me or because of God. do I still depend on God or not?
For me the feeling that I have and the thing that I got today are meant to be.
No it doesn't mean that I don't do any thing at all. but I do it just simple simple. should I change my idea or not?

2007-08-16 21:59:42 · 5 answers · asked by kt 1 in Singles & Dating

is it essential to show your birth certificate or are there any other documents you can show (to get married in a registry office) ?

2007-08-16 21:56:15 · 11 answers · asked by Samiya 2 in Weddings

She dumped me and she has our child. that is a lot-but hate is a horrible thing to say. I can't stand her family and friends. she is a horrible role model. The list goes on and on. I need to forget about it and accept some things. **I JUST HATE HER WITH ALL MY HEART!

2007-08-16 21:54:07 · 23 answers · asked by COLINDHANSON 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how does a 13 year old make out? okay well i just wanted to know.Like if a girl were to put her tounge in ma mouth what should i do . And what if i put mine in hers???I asked for girls only cause if u have made out i wanted to know ur expirence with it and what happend so i dont do anything wrong with her. Thank you
God Bless

2007-08-16 21:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My type in guys would have to be:

Covered in tattoos
Rough
Criminal record...thats hot aha
Funny
Sweet
Confident
Nice eyes
Lean
Tall
Tough

basicaly my bf.... http://i16.tinypic.com/6fpayrc.jpg

^^ not a good pic of him, but it's the only one on my comp at the the moment.

Now spill people!

2007-08-16 21:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 21:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by msbosslady27 2 in Singles & Dating

usually my mom is very supportive but she just cant stand my boyfriend.yes ,i know there r some problems with his family,that she does not like.but thats not his fault.even he dose not know about them..she just want me to stay away from him.but i really love him.i tried everything.but...it is effecting her health... i cant see my mom in this state..and i cant live without him...what should i do?what can i do?plz help me..

2007-08-16 21:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by windy 1 in Family

2007-08-16 21:25:06 · 3 answers · asked by msbosslady27 2 in Singles & Dating

She/he is so hot, they say they are in love with you and reveal the truth about their past life. They were a hardcore pornstar until last night, given up to startup a new life with you, they love you and they really mean it. As for you, you are a loser, no job, living on welfare, low education and CV of jobs u keep getting fired from for being such a berk. But this person is madly in love with you, they want to marry you next week and are almost in tears over how happy they are they found you. You then realise you watched your partner last night in an online film and know this person has been with over 100 people in a verity of sorded ways. But then, this person really cherishes you, is willing to be reborn as your spouse and you can look forward to millionaire life. It is the making of your life as well as theirs if you marry. Can you ignore the past vile and marry? Or would you pass it up knowing all ur mates have seen their porn films too?

2007-08-16 21:22:55 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know how a married woman hurt her husband and children over a .2. month fling with a .19. year old when she.s.48. her husband is a good man now after.25. years of marrage there going to get divorced over it he.s hurt very badley over what he thought was his life to him she was a very loving mother to as well a good woman he.s hurting very bad over it as to what she had did with this .19. year old .

2007-08-16 21:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by singlemale_2711 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for a while, years.. and I love him to death. Unfortunately we aren't "intimate" as often as we used to be and nothing I have tried has helped this. I'm not as attracted to him physically as I used to be. Is something wrong with me? Is this normal? What should I do?

2007-08-16 20:58:13 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were my girl and I said "Look God made women for what? firstly he did it at cost price for one rib. And you were made for us to unload our goo into and clean up so we can do the important things." Think about it, before Adam had perfectly good and meaningful conversations with God and he only didnt want to take a mate that had more hair than he did, like a monkey. So... Given that girls are made for goo. Why do you think it is so annoying to listen to a woman rabbit onward, simply because they weren't made to listen to. Women were an after thought, and look what does she go and do, buggers it all up by giving him the apple. Want a lesson in history about listening to woman guys, then take a look at the first man, Adam and see what happened to him when he listened to a woman. Saying that I think it was the first time he actually talked to her cos it doesnt say they ever had convo. So first convo and look what happens. Women stick to the housework, guys stick to beers n sport! ok?

2007-08-16 20:44:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a friend of mine is 15, she told me she was raped by her older brother from about 7-12 , hes since moved away but she saw him recently and says she felt a real strong hatred and anger for him, she doesnt know how to confront him or how to deal with the situation, i really wana help her but idk how!! someone help?

2007-08-16 20:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by Complex420 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when your only 14 but been together for a while.

2007-08-16 20:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by Hambone 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello. my friend has a problem with her boyfriend..
i just want to help her.
she really love him. and he is in different country
right now becoz his parents dont let him to go to
malaysia, where she's living.
long time ago, they were really sweet couple,
never forget, always visit each other n go out..
but since he is now in singapore, and
his love seems to be turned blue.. not red anymore..
and she is crying, everyday coz of him.
she said she is hurt and sad. but she said
she really love him..
how should i help and tell her?

2007-08-16 20:40:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, I'm happily married and we both still maintain friendships w/ ex bf/gf's. This is in no way a problem for either of us. Now here's the thing, my friend/ex bf called me up earlier tonight super drunk, not making much sense, so I couldn't hardly understand him. Then I pretty darn sure I heard him call be baby a few times...... I just ignored it, he's drunk and doesn't realize what he's saying. Well, then he quietly says "i love u" and not in a friendly type of way. So I start feeling uncomfortable. He says it again as we're gettin off the phone, I don't say anything, so he asks if I heard him. All I said was yeah and ttyl. What should I do? Should I just ignore it? Should I tell my hubby? Should I discuss it w/ my friend? Help!

2007-08-16 20:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends