Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

I really like this guy. I've been crazy about him since I met him (a few weeks ago). I know he likes me too, but he does not makes any moves or takes the first step. I dont want to just sit around waiting for him to make a move. I want to let him know I like him but I dont want him to think I'm desperate or something like that. Guys usually take the first step with me so I have no idea how to do this. I dont want him to think that I;m easy or something like that. I just want him to know I like him, and I;m really interested in him, and then if he decides to do something about it then great. But if he doesnt at least I'll know it wasnt because he thoughht I wasnt into him or something like that...
I seeing him again this weekend and it would be probably the last time I see him b/c we met at work but I wont be working there anymore. Thats why I'm kinda in a hurry. Because I really, really like him... (I'm 18. He's 21)

Please I really need your advise on this. Thanks beforehand...! =)

2007-08-16 17:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by SB2217 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends are talking on the phone and we need a subject to talk about, something happy please.

2007-08-16 17:56:12 · 7 answers · asked by asymmetricroom 3 in Friends

i havent talked to my dad in about 3 years and he has never helped us since my mother divoced him 7years ago and well now i am 17 and i want to ask him for money but how do i ask

2007-08-16 17:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-16 17:55:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So . . . he is always talking to me, I mean, we're really good friends. We sit by each other in class and he is always flirting, but he is known to flirt with anything, but he barely dates. I'm soooooooooooo confused!!! When I say that I'm ugly, or that I look like crap, he always says that I look great or that I'm not ugly in anyway. But that doesn't help because thats what best friends do.

He has a girl friend and he confessed to me that he doesn't really like her.

He is always asking me if I like him as more then a friend. I never know what to say so I say no, but if he actually likes me, he will think that I'm out of his league. It's so weird.

Please, please help me!! I am in a major crisis! Some guy that I don't like just asked me out, and I don't know if I should say no and show my friend that I'm still avalible or say yes and make him jealous. Answer a.s.a.p!!

2007-08-16 17:54:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

upset or losing interest? A month agoe, he unloaded his hidden feelings (thought I would be hurt). He "basically" said I'm too clingy, dependent, and controlling. After this, I read the book, "Why Men LOVE B!tche$: From Doormat to Dreamgirl." I agreed I was a "Doormat" and revamped myself--I'm a bee-otch. He loves the new me (me too)! I acted like I could care less if I talked to or saw him. I didn't pouted if he chose to see his friends on the weekend; I encouraged it. I really cut down the time we talked and saw each other, saying "I don't care. What's the big deal?" This made him miss me tons; he fought for my attention! I went too far; I became unreliable. I told him I would see him if my friends weren't doing anything. I wasn't online two nights in a row and never messaged him to tell him. I missed his calls purposely. When I talked to him again, he wasn't the same; he didn't care. Is he upset and denying it or losing interest?

We're 20 yrs. old--dating for 9 mos.

2007-08-16 17:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by SuperFox 1 in Singles & Dating

we are good friends and i dont want to ruin that. please help me this is my first time asking a girl out. thanks

2007-08-16 17:50:49 · 9 answers · asked by kurt 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been trying to get me to sleep with her for about a year now and brings up the fact that my wife has cheated on me as an excuse. She is beautiful and I'm really tempted...What should I do?

2007-08-16 17:49:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. And he was with his ex gf for about 2-3 months. He says that that was his first real love and that he still cares/loves her. They never talk anymore..but I am just a little scared. I am scared of losing him. Is it normal for him to feel that way??? What do I do??

2007-08-16 17:48:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a female that is one year older than him. I'm born on March 14 1990. He's born on Feb 28 1991.

2007-08-16 17:48:14 · 21 answers · asked by sugar n' spice 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 17:45:11 · 4 answers · asked by troyboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I snooped a little and well I found beer and condoms in his room...what do I do? What should I think? Help please. By the way he is 17 turning 18 this month.

2007-08-16 17:44:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

here's where im gonna start ....

my brother(20) has a girlfriend(18) and they are VERY VERY happy together. they always have fun and include me in most stuff .... so she is like my older sister already. they have been together for 2 years, almost 3 now. before they started going out, my brother used to stay at home most of the time, in his room. he was never really social, but he was never really a turtle, eether. he wasn't depressed or anything, but when they started going out, he has been more outgoing, fun, and the happiest he has ever been . they rarely ever fight, but sometimes my brother takes things a bit too serious .

*problem*

about 15 minutes ago i overheard (I WAS NOT EAVESDROPPING) them talking on the phone (well my brothers side, atleast). they were argueing about how my brother doesnt show that she is hjis everything and how she doesnt say the right things at certain points. it got into a big arguement and i was crying when i was listening

2007-08-16 17:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by drama_x0x_queen 1 in Family

This secret desire might be unconscious or conscious.

Moreover, the secret desire of females is to be worshipped by a male that they love.

I suggest that ladies should be more open during sex to be worshipped. I also think, ladies should make their man feel like a king at other times.

2007-08-16 17:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Muscle Man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the longest time I thought that My family was crazy and that I was the only one. but the older I get the more I realize that there a ton of crazy weirdo's out there and my family's not the only one. and another thing, the more time I spend with certain persons the more sane I feel (LoL) I just think that there are so many people in the world who's lives are ''out of balace''.
What do you think? Do you even care? I was just trying to make a point!

2007-08-16 17:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by JillardG 5 in Friends

This guy I like ( ya i know you've all heard this b4) acted like he liked me. he did it all, staring, everything. He denied it though, then we didnt see each other for awhile. We came back to camp and he was there, flirting with me, but i felt a vulnerableness about him...... like he was holding back. He has changed so much, he still watches me, but he is with all these girls, but doesnt seem to really care about anything or anyof them, yet when it comes to me, he seems too, but he pushes himself away.....Why is this? Why wont he let me in?

2007-08-16 17:37:14 · 22 answers · asked by funstuff7 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 17:34:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm getting overly depressed and I need some advice on how to deal with my abusive alcoholic father. Tonight I can't stop crying. So if you have had a similar experience, how did you get through it? PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-08-16 17:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family

Im thinking of having my rehersal dinner at a bowling alley. Do you think this would be a good idea??

2007-08-16 17:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by amanda j 3 in Weddings

My friend since elementary school does this all the time.

The day before ill ask him if he is busy or not the next day and he replies that he probably is but he has to do work or something. I usually reply that we can contact each other if you are free.

So I try to contact him with no luck, thinking that he probably had to do work.

Well online I see he posted pics of him with a few other people today.

WTF

Im going to college on Monday and I may never see him in awhile. What kind of crap is that.

2007-08-16 17:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you think they do all day?

2007-08-16 17:24:18 · 14 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Family

Im 18 and 33 weeks pregnant. Im happily married and Ive been with my husband for 4 years (but recently married). Im can assure that Im mature for my age. We live on our own and he is in the military. We also have an interracial relationship (Im white and he is black) Alot of people think this is way to much and Im stupid for doing all of these things just because of my age. Please be truthful but not rude.

2007-08-16 17:22:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was married to a guy for 2 years and we were together for 6. We have a two year old together. We seperated the next day he told me he wanted a divorce, 2 weeks later I find out I am preg and the next day I go to the house that we shared and caught him with a guy. (kissing) He then admitted that he is gay. He lied to me that whole time. He now has a steady boyfriend that is going to move in with him soon. We are still in the process of a divorce. My question is Do I let him in the delivery room? I am due in 2 and a half months.

2007-08-16 17:17:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I never have had to buy any....if u know what i mean... whats something i can get that will still leave friction? not to slimy?

2007-08-16 17:14:41 · 4 answers · asked by lysendon20 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi!
So my question is: what are your opinions on being engaged at 20, whilst both partners are still studying?
My boyfriend & I have been together for a little over four years & as cliche as it may sound, know that we're 'the one' for each other. We want to get engaged soon & have a really long engagement because we want to be financially stable before we get married (finished uni, working full time, paying off a mortage & so on). Our belief is that getting engaged requires being emotionally committed & that financial stability isn't essential to get engaged - whereas it's definately essential for marriage.
We have a great relationship & our engagement will be a promise of commitment to each other, which is something we both want to do; do you think it is important to wait until we're financially set-up to do so?
What are your thoughts?
I'd really appreciate your input & opinions, but please - no snide remarks/unhelpful comments.
Thank you! :-)

2007-08-16 17:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex-boyfriend whom i dated a year....recently cheated on me..and he still calls and asks wat i did that day. well yesterday i talked to a guy and i told him about it. He said that if even check out another guy he would beat the guy and kill himself.....i don't know wat i'm supposed to do. can someone please help me..

2007-08-16 17:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by ArkansasMommy 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i was with my ex gf for a year and a half and we broke up last summer and it was one of the most devistating times of my life. im a guy and ill admit i cried. Well her reason for breaking up with me was because she wanted to see other ppl. it was more of a mutual decision she didnt say i wanna dump u. but neways she ended up dating another guy and cheating on him and it seems she is back to me. its not official and she hasnt said she wants to get back together but she keeps on sending me signs so to say. i mean shes buying stuff for me taking me to games and all these other things... well if it comes back to her wanting us to be back together what should i do. i mean yes i loved her but idk if i do anymore because she hurt me so bad and she also cheated on the guy she dated after me which is a huge concern for me but i still care about her. i just dont want to get hurt and i dont know what to do.... so i ask you guys what should i do? give her another chance or move on? thanks

2007-08-16 17:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by King Ry 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not go out of my way to find them, but I have met some when i went to school in Rhode Island, and when i worked in Boston i found attractive.
I am attracted to their feminity, and not especially the idea of extra "parts". I mean, if i met one that look like Scarlett Johanson..I would definitely date her.
Am I normal?

2007-08-16 17:04:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so i like this guy and he liked me a couple fo times but everytime we try to get together something always goes wrong .He hurt be acouple of times and it killed but i cant stop loving him. We've tried this like 5 time this year .But his relationships only last for like a week . What should I do ?

2007-08-16 17:02:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, we are both 18. I know we both find each other attractive. He always tells me he likes how i look. But all he ever wants to do is cuddle and kiss. I always have to initiate anything more than that. Once i get it going he loves it and gets into it and whatever, but why doesn't he ever come onto me?

Guys, is there a reason he might be doing this?? Trust me, he isn't cheating or gay.

2007-08-16 16:57:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating