Family & Relationships - 16 August 2007

I currently am dating a black girl who happens to be atheistic and everyone in my family is completly accepting except my parents. I'm pretty sure its the fact that she is black that bothers them. I love this girl with a passion. She is my everything, but I want my parents to accept her. How should I address this problem.

2007-08-16 20:26:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my mom have not had a good relationship in years. It doesn't matter what it is, the littlest things and we get so mad at each other. I always feel that my mom is trying to get me upset. I feel like she likes drama, could this be true? If so, what should I do? I want her in my life, but I'm tired of fighting. We've talked about our behavior and made agreements on how we would talk to one another, but it always feels like when I'm trying to have a civil conversation, she does something to make it a hostile argument.

Need real honest opinions/suggestions, please!

2007-08-16 20:04:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Before the marriage: (Top to bottom)

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.

She: Do you want me to leave?

He: NO! Don’t even think about it.

She: Do you love me?

He: Of course!

She: Have you ever cheated on me?

He: NO! Why you even asking?

She: Will you kiss me?

He: Yes!

She: Will you hit me?

He: No way! I’m not such kind of person!

She: Can I trust you?

He: Yes.

{Now after the marriage. You can read it bottom to top leaving last line.}

2007-08-16 19:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to be honest and say I really had a miserable time. It seems like all I did was take stupid pictures and I didn't even know most the people there.

2007-08-16 19:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. I'm 14 years old and in 2 weeks, I will be a freshmen in highschool. Today, I went to this festival and I met up with my friend and a couple of her friends from her school. There was about 5 of us and they didn't really know me that much, so I was ignored. Everytime I always get involved in a group of friends, I am always ignored and not even acknowledged that I'm there! They were all talking about other people that I didnt even know, so I was just standing there like a loser. What do I do? I want to get over my shyness and be more outgoing for highschool because in my middle school, most of the people HATED me because I was quiet. So please, I really need some help. I hate being so shy.

2007-08-16 19:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sole mate just dumped me for some skinny ***** just cuz he's rich and our wedding is planned for next month! There is no other person on earth i could ever love. Why would the most important person in the world just bail on me after all we've been threw together? It is over for good but i cannot live without her there is no other person for me. Can i get a hit man thats not too scared from on here?

2007-08-16 19:47:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said there're 2 things that I can't believe "man's promise and man's excuse", men are untrustworthy........

Is it true that your dad is the only man you can trust?

2007-08-16 19:47:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently looked on the site history on my mom's laptop. I found that she has visited dating websites for women who are married. My mom and dad are in a very good relationship, but he is gone a lot. Our family is so normal that nothing like this ever happens. What does this mean?
We are extremely religious so I doubt she would be thinking of actually having an affair...
Please dont say to talk to her about it, because it would hurt her if she knew I looked at her laptop and that I knew.

2007-08-16 19:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is in the Army and is deploying soon. I dont want him to leave and our kids not have anything to hang onto just in case. They are 5,3,and 1 and all daddies girls. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-08-16 19:45:43 · 5 answers · asked by osborn_tr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

child or a man who will be a great husband? You can only choose one side and not know how the other side will turn out. Which one would you choose and why?

2007-08-16 19:44:48 · 14 answers · asked by spiritius4 2 in Singles & Dating

I know most couple either they are dating or married like to advertise themself in public how they love each other and we have all seen them,. Men opening car doors for their women, but women don't do likewise. Men buying flower to suprise their loved ones but I wonder how many women do the same to their men. But do you believe that rumantic love would last longer than passionate love which most women assumes and neglects and I think beyond a reasonable doubt that they walk away from passionate love. Why do and what do you think is best for them in a relationship since you can't have both continuesly at the same time.

2007-08-16 19:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-16 19:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by wise girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that this might be interesting debate to those who are married or wish to be married. Why not come and stay together? From your point of view, how is marriage so important even though its one of the passage of life? What do you think of marriage?

2007-08-16 19:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are getting back together after a brief separation. We are going to work on our marriage instead of divorcing like most americans do. So why isn't my Dad happy about this? He stopped talking to me and it is infuriating me. What is his problem? I would think he would be happy to see us work it out instead of being a statistic. What do you guys think?

2007-08-16 19:30:52 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 5 months, & I still keep obsessing over, "What did I do to make him cheat on me or leave me?" "What did I do wrong?" I keep blaming myself.

2007-08-16 19:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-16 19:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by Nikaaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you have noone around to support you,your problems have mounted,and have actually increased!

2007-08-16 19:08:59 · 66 answers · asked by Wellll... hello then! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been living in turmoil ever since I found out my husband has been emailing and sms-ing this girl he met online. When confronted, he swore that nothing physical happened. He then promised that he will not have anything to do with her anymore but it seems that she is still calling him, sometimes in the wee hours of the morning and they might even be chatting with each other when I am sound asleep. I believe they might even be meeting up behind my back though he did say he's meeting the boys and I am not allowed to go with him. I also found out that he has security-coded his handphone. I did thought of calling the girl up and ask if she knows about his marital status but am afraid that it will only make things worse especially if the girl says she's only friends with him. I am not ready to let go of this marriage because it's still new and we just had a baby recently. Please help.

2007-08-16 19:08:43 · 36 answers · asked by liquified_metal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe people can really truly change their lifestyle in an instant?When you make constant mistakes and hurt the ones you love,then realize happiness was right in front of you all along.How do you make it right?How do you go from lies and cheating and deception to realizing you are head over heals with this man and he is the only person in the world you want to spend the rest of your life with.No more parties,alcohol,sex.Just focus on changing into a good person,a trustworthy person and a person that would move mountains for the one you love.I don't know what to do,i know i have changed and i know what i am willing to do to fix this relationship,but i don't know how to regain his trust.He is my everything and the thought of life without him terrifies me.We have so much more than just the two of us involved,i feel like i have completely let everyone down.I know the first thing would be to not have done it,but it happened and i can't change that, now what? i love him so much!!!

2007-08-16 19:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if someone is still married to someone and goes to marry another,then that means the later marriage is invalid, right?should i then get an annulment or declaration of nullity to be able prove that our marriage is indeed null and void?how do i get out of this marriage that is really null?

2007-08-16 19:02:46 · 2 answers · asked by garnet prophecy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my fiance decided to get married when he is going into his senior year of college which is in june of 2009. but i was wondering when is the right time to start planning the wedding and what do i plan first?

2007-08-16 19:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by MOMMA 3 in Weddings

I just turned 18 and me and my b/f who is 23 almost 24 are engaged. My parents already disapprove of the age difference. I do not want to have to choose between him and my parents. How should I tell them?

2007-08-16 18:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by lockheartpurple 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I came home from a long day of hard work and my 400plus size husband was watching a sex movie. He is a huge sack of pork and I can't stand him he looks over at me and instead of saying how was your day this big fat whale had the nerve to ask me what's for dinner He's been home all day and the big bi**h waits for me to cook I got so upset I slap the u no what out of him. He called his evil mother & told this witch what I did and she told him he should not take my abruse so I told him to go live with his mother and I called the police and told them he hit me now he's in jail and asked me to bail him out or to tell the police I made up the report but I say know way am I right for defending myself by calling the law I only weigh 125lbs and he's over 400lbs. I 'm going to let his huge *** suffer in jail I wouldn't dare bail him out he should call his mom or the naked women he was watching on tv. Don't you agree with me.

2007-08-16 18:55:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have a lot of sex with my lover, who wants it. I really don't care about sex. I would be happy on an island by myself, living in a hut as long as I had TV. I would like an internet connection and a phone, but would not have to have that. I could live alone for the rest of my life and not miss a relationship or contact with the other world. Now I did say I had to have a TV and that a phone and internet would be preferable, but not mandatory. Anyone think the same way?

2007-08-16 18:46:30 · 15 answers · asked by Boomer 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me on saturday aug 11th.
and I miss him a lot
I love him more then I have anyone else it just feels so real with him.
we where together for 4 months and I guess his love was different because he told me he just isn't happy anymore the wednesday before he said a lot of things that anoy him such as how i've been complaining and how he thinks he might be better off single. theres a lot of things going on in my life that are leading me to depression such as being unable to obtain enough money to go back to school this up coming semester which is why I think i've been like that but he also thinks I have an excuse for everything. . .
I want to write him an e-mail telling him how I feel and what's been going on but am unsure what to say and if I should do it a all.
he has been IM'ing me at night and we talk about nothing to do with us just like small talk like what did y do today oh that's cool stuff. . .

what should I do?

2007-08-16 18:44:32 · 14 answers · asked by saralove31888 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I can't believe I'm saying (or typing) this out loud, I am the other woman. I met an Indian man about a year ago on the internet, we went out, and eventually started to have sexual relations. He left to India for a month and when he came back he informed me he worked things out with his Indian girlfriend but he still wanted to see me because he really cared for me. The first times we just ate, had coffee but eventually the chemistry arouse again and we've been having sex for the last 5 months again. We talk everyday but text, cell, messenger and we see eachother at least once a week. I love him with all my heart and he says he loves me too but his family would not accept a Mexican. I tried beaking it off twice but eventually we miss eachother and go back. How do I stop being the "Other Woman" and let it go? Is it true that Hindi Indians are frowned upon that marry outside their race?

2007-08-16 18:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by Latinalways 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 10wk old baby that I stay home with while my husband works. I want to go back to work, but he doesn't want her in daycare. I have mentioned that we could switch roles, my job pays $10 more an hour than his and it would take alot of the financial strain off of us. He said he would feel like less of a man if he wasn't the one contributing financially.
I cook, clean, run errands while toting around an infant and trying to maintain a meager budget without much help. How do I get him to see how unnecissarily stressful this is on me?

He comes from a traditional family where his mom did everything for everyone while maintaining an impecable house and having a hot meal on the table every night. I am not like her and I personally can't do it and he just doesn't get why it is so difficult for me.
What do I do?

2007-08-16 18:41:47 · 16 answers · asked by somewhat_med 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if someone like 15 had sex with a 21 year old would it be illeagal?

2007-08-16 18:29:12 · 13 answers · asked by Lexy Nicole <33 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting overly depressed and I need some advice on how to deal with my abusive alcoholic father. Tonight I can't stop crying. So if you have had a similar experience, how did you get through it? PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-08-16 18:28:26 · 30 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family

I dont like this kid thats a jerk, i'm a 14 year old teen whos strong for my age. I don't want to have a whole battle with him. Is there a move I can do to leave a statement?

2007-08-16 18:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by the sexyiest man alive 1 in Friends