child or a man who will be a great husband? You can only choose one side and not know how the other side will turn out. Which one would you choose and why?
2007-08-16 19:44:48 · 14 answers · asked by spiritius4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's easy, a great dad. any guy who is a great dad, is going to care about his wife too. and no, I'm not choosing sides. while he might focus too much on the child, and I as a wife might feel left out, I'd rather have someone good with our children, who helps the future of my family, than someone who is horrible with our children but good with me. I personally would feel like a horrible mom if my children weren't always before myself. (though I personally would put my husband first)
2007-08-16 19:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose great husband because children grow up and leave the nest but husbands and wives are hopefully together for life. So I would always want him to be a great husband which would autimatically make him a great dad .
2007-08-16 19:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by sleepygrandmother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a single mother, I would have to choose the guy that was a great father. I would always put my child's needs in front of my own...and I believe children need a strong father figure in their lives...and nothing is a better father figure than a dad.
2007-08-16 19:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose a man that would be a great husband. Then if he did not treat the children right when we had them, I would leave him!!!
2007-08-16 19:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a great dad then it follows he got to be a great husband bc no child is gonna luv a father that is bad to his mother
2007-08-16 19:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by sophia100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better father by far. Speaking from my own experience, not having a father there for you impacts the rest of your life. I would hate to see my future children affected by that. The time a father spends with his children is more important than the relationship between mother and father.
2007-08-16 19:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by anon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great husband, chances are IF he's a good hubby he's gonna be a great daddy. And what a great way to set an example.... =)
2007-08-16 19:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by marcie1997 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who will be a great husband just because i don't want children
2007-08-16 19:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Princess1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather him be a great dad, but has respect for me as well, having a great husband can be being a great dad too
2007-08-16 19:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely a great husband..because in my eyes a great husband would make a terrific father
2007-08-16 19:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋