Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

If a person with an STD marries a person without an STD and they have sex, won't they both end up having the STD? How would the girl get pregnant without contracting the STD? These are just a few questions that came out of nowhere and I really don't understand or know the answers to them. Can someone explain?

2007-08-12 23:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1......... makeup 2 men ...................3 money...........4 chocolate? what do you think?

2007-08-12 23:54:56 · 38 answers · asked by jackie n 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 23:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by mea 1 in Singles & Dating

how could a woman turn you right off?

2007-08-12 23:49:25 · 31 answers · asked by jackie n 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband keeps bullying me and controling me we have been together for 6 years i asked him for a baby he said he wants a baby more then me and he said he doesent trust me he said if i want a baby i have to be his slave i have to do everythink for him im not allowed to ask him to help me clean up E-C-T and he has hit me so meny time .PLEASE HELP

2007-08-12 23:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by sam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A jobless man is in love with a woman and wedding has been fixed for 1st of september this year, so far he has been unable to show that he can afford to buy all that the woman's culture and tradition demands before she can be given to him in marriage, should such a woman still go into the marriage?

2007-08-12 23:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by talktofarry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a site that would show me my dream wedding dress.
1- which should be simple with a unique design.
2- some diamonds scattered yet simple.
if you know this site plz tell me coz my tailor needs time to make it.
thanx

2007-08-12 23:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i can't get my birth certificate because my mother won't give me the original. She won't budge & to such she even went as far as going & telling my other family members not 2 tell me where she lives or what her number is. & i can't get a copy because on the forms 2 get my birth certificate i need 2 know what city i wuz born in, & my fathers 1st & last name, i dont know what city i was born in, & because i dont know wut my father's 1st name is. i dont know because my mother never told me anything about my father. she even told me that my father was dead. & i think my father is actually alive, but my mother won't let me communicate with him (another other story). & i dont want 2 use those websites where u have 2 pay 2 find ur family & that other crap. Please help, i need a copy of it 2 get my job. & i have a step dad so the last name i have now isn't really my last name at birth. My mother keeps on telling me these odd things, im just confused. All i want is my certificate & thats it

2007-08-12 23:35:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jose 1 in Family

Why do you smile?

2007-08-12 23:27:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 23:16:45 · 20 answers · asked by Writer 1 in Singles & Dating

Just would like to know if you would trust your husband or partner if they delibrately leave their emails to and fro other women for you to see. My husband chats with other women online which I dont mind too much however lately he has been recieving emails from women informing him where and when the hotels rooms are booked for. he delibtaely left this email on screen just before I sat down to check my emails. He never tells me that loves me however he has the morals to tell other women how he is going to make love to them. Sadly one of them was a canadian and she invited him over to canada he declined by telling her that his parents were disable and he unfortunately cannot leave them alone to go to her and he kindly sent him £6000 for him to get a minder for his parents so they were not alone. I feel betrayed, although I am the one who looks after our children, pay all the bills work from 9-9 on some days to make ends meet. He is a good father that is the only thing that helps.

2007-08-12 23:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by mummyyusuf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is what happened to my boyfriend and I last week:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al.UHcmu1etil8UkP40sszzty6IX?qid=20070810031151AA8KHhr

AT the time I was angry and now I am hurting all over...I just wish I was dead. I loved him so much. Can I ever change him? I want to move on but I am feeling so weak. What can I do? Please help..

2007-08-12 23:08:11 · 15 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've read that love is a need and a crush is a want. This is exactly how I feel about my situation. I have a crush on a man 20 years my senior who I work with, I would never want anything serious to happen with him and don't ever imagine that but do have a real crush on this person but its purely a lust thing.

On the other hand I need, desire, love and want my husband very much and I know its only the 'newness' of this other person giving me attention that I lust after.

I would never act on my feelings towards this person, although I find it hard not to (again purely a lust/sexual thing - I've always been like this!).

How do I get rid of this crush? I know I can't scratch the itch so how else do I encourage it to fade quicker than it will eventually anyway? I don't want to be in the situation where I do something I regret.

2007-08-12 23:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Men seem to be under the thumb a lot these days and seem scared of their women.

2007-08-12 22:57:50 · 7 answers · asked by jo d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been married for three years. We are both twenty six years old. I noticed her and a close friend of ours were starting to become closer last year. Long story short, she was seeing this guy behind my back. I became irate and she told me she loved him, but she said she alson loves me. I moved out to collect my thoughts for a couple of weeks and eventually went back home. We are the type to party pretty hard on weekends which to me seems to add to the problems. She has apologized and says she won't ever do it again. She also says that she never loved him and that she was just confused and mad at me. Im trying to regain trust because I do love her. We dont have kids....Thank God. I just get so pissed but I dont want to turn overbearing. What do I do?

2007-08-12 22:54:13 · 29 answers · asked by vicktimized2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my first question here so be nice ;) -

well basically im a little shy and i know i dont need to be so im sort of looking for a different way since i dont want to seem so demanding again :\. ive been married since 03 to a wonderful man who i love dearly and in that same year we had a child. well for a while now hes been playing this online game at night basically the whole night. i dont know if he flirting with other woman or not, he laughs it off and cant believe that i might be worried but he says that he does talk to some woman while playing the game but its not like that. he usually ends up going to bed around the time im getting up. i made him quit playing these games while he was in college because he wasnt studying and was just playing these stupid games and i think he holds that against me. i want him to sleep with me when i sleep, is that too much to ask? i have trouble sleeping if hes not there :\. if i get him into bed with sex he just gets up once its over and goes online

2007-08-12 22:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

though i dont wish to change my religion but im scared that it might disturb our marriage, pls i need the public view of this.

2007-08-12 22:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by uc 1 in Weddings

I like the idea of doing something from a romantic movie except not the dirty dancing one which has been done to death. Any suggestions?? or just a unique funky dance will be helpful

2007-08-12 22:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by beautyspot23 4 in Weddings

2007-08-12 22:20:06 · 25 answers · asked by Uncle G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help very much i am being libaled as well deframed by a married woman . i am married and my wife found out that i was having a sexual affair with her how can i keep my wife from divorcing me the woman was.43. and i was .17. at that time my wife found out about it from internet posting i didnt know my wife was even on this thing this married woman has.4. kids and married as well to she was nothing this married woman but a cheap whore to spend time with while i was on my missionary work . i hate her that.s why i had sex with that mountan tramp i would never thought my wife would find out but she did i need help the tramp. or whore was old enought to me my mom and i told her what she wanted to hear i told her i was going to be a lawer but i aint i shovel horse droppngs in.texas i have.3. children myself as well to need help my , wifes going to divorve me over this whore need help and advise please help me ..

2007-08-12 22:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I married to a girl a Year and Half ago. She started relation badly and refused me at the beginning. She did a lot of mistakes. I broke up mentally. We had no physical contact till now. can I get a divorce from her. She is not willing for divorce when I explained her. What should I do now

2007-08-12 22:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by Detective 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter would like to trace her father (she has not seen him since she was 3mths old). She is a mother herself and would like to meet her biological father. I don't have the money to hire anyone but don't know how to use the net to find him.
I have no problem with him I just need to be there for her whatever the outcome.
I know he moved down to London/South a few years ago

2007-08-12 21:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by angelrose0105 4 in Family

2007-08-12 21:37:34 · 27 answers · asked by SAOIRSE 6 in Friends

2007-08-12 21:19:51 · 35 answers · asked by shane C 1 in Singles & Dating

I always find things for lil boys and not girl!! any suggestions!!

2007-08-12 21:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My belief has always been that if a woman has enough balls to strike a man, she should expect reciprocation of a similar act.
Thats what I always said, but deep down, I dont really know if I honestly believe it.

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/bestfriend for over 2 years now...i'm not a saint, i've done things to him like hit him with a frying pan, throw an iron at him, bit him till he bled, close-fisted punched him in the face

And he's reciprocated by forcefully holding me down, "pushing" (aka palming) me, choking me....

Anyway, his defense is that he never "hit" me because his fist was never closed....what do you think???

My main point is that a man will almost always overpower the woman....i think that simply holding her down so she cant harm herself or others is enough

2007-08-12 21:03:04 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 21:01:05 · 24 answers · asked by mario k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 20:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by KATHLEEN H 1 in Family

2007-08-12 20:50:20 · 8 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my mother dearly, but she has some major problems that she needs to work through, one of which involves letting me live my own life. I am an adult, married and have my own children. My mother, however can't seem to realize that she can't control my decisions, and refuses to "cut the tie" so to speak. I feel like she's trying to involve in my life so that she won't have to be alone (she doesn't want to stay with dad). She cannot make her own decision and when things go badly, she always comes to me, (the eldest in the family) for rescue. I've tried talking to her, but she says it is my responsibility to help her. It's to the point where it's interfering with everything else in my life and I have tried to break out of that so that we can BOTH move on with our own lives. The problem is she is my mother and I can't cut contact forever but this is not the first time. Every time I show concern, the problem will come haunt me again. This has happened many many times. What should I do?

2007-08-12 20:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family