Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

My girlfriend smoked marijuana for the first time a few months ago. She really liked it and has done it about 4 times. I found out and got really mad. She has done it maybe once or twice since and i made her promise she wasnt going to do it again. I found a light in her purse a few days ago and she admitted that she was planning on smoking again. I got mad again. I dont know what to do, should i breakup with her over it? I tried to make her stop but she says it helps her get away from things. Shes the type of girl that wants it non-stop aswell. She sees nothing wrong with it and doesnt think its a big deal.

2007-08-12 17:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by d b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to college soon and my BF Danny recently told me that he's worried - it's very easy to get me drunk, and he said he's afraid that some guy will hit on me when I'm drunk (because he thinks if I'm drunk, I might lower my inhibitions and make out with the guy or something)

Should I be offended or is it normal for him to feel that way? How can I erase that fear?!

2007-08-12 17:34:29 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something you should'nt miss my friends ,here on Yahoo Q&A?

2007-08-12 17:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm an intelligent, slightly above average looking, sixteen year old girl. I fix my hair and wear make up everyday. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. When I have on my favorite jeans and a nice, plain, fitted t-shirt is when I feel the most confident. Then I see all these guys going after the "trendy girls". So I wear the "trendy clothes". The only problem is that when I wear these clothes I feel like I'm not being myself and lose my confidence.

My question is, would a guy rather go out with a confident girl that dresses kind of plain or an unconfident girl who takes the time to dress up everyday?

I'm clearly a bit confused. Any help is welcome.

2007-08-12 17:25:26 · 35 answers · asked by pretty little liar 6 in Singles & Dating

How many guys out there like butts more than boobs? My boyfriend definitely does. He'll take any opportunity to grab my butt, even when we're at the movie theater, sitting down and watching the movie. It's kinda amusing. No rude comments please.

2007-08-12 17:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't go to my boyfriend's house because I'm at my grandparents' house, (may they burn in hell). I really need to because I miss him, and well I mean come on I think you know why would I want to go to my bf's house a 12:00 at night.
And, that is really breaking the camel's back after this terrible day.
I mean I went on my grandparents' boat, and it was so hot, and I had to sit in the little department space in the front of the bow. Not to mention the fact that I'm 19 and they won't leave me at home because they're afraid someone will come and molest me.
I'm going to die here, and I need my boyfriend!!!
I mean seriously, as I said I'm 19. Don't you think I have to be pretty pissed in order to be sounding like an angry 12 year old?

2007-08-12 17:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sali 3 in Family

The U.S. embassy in our country is strict. For a person to be able to immigrate to the U.S., he has to have someone who would petition him there. He cannot apply for immigration as an independent applicant, unlike for Canada. That someone could either be fiance or close relative.

I don't have fiance or close relative to petition me to become a U.S. immigrant. I'm an accountant. I've tried applying at U.S. auditing firms but all my applications have been unsuccessful.

It has been my dream since I was a kid to live in the U.S.

Can anyone make some suggestions?

I live in the Philippines, btw.

2007-08-12 17:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a white male and I find it offensive to hear the "N word" blasted all over the place. What is it about rap music that it always has to be offensive and aggressive. And why does it exploit women, drugs, money, power..etc. Rock, alternative, blues..etc do not typically have this brash attitude. I really believe the message it transmits in todays youth is quite detrimental.

2007-08-12 17:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

she also walks by and looks at me after school but we never talk what is going on and what do i do.

2007-08-12 17:05:30 · 20 answers · asked by Gabinol 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 17:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by maria m 1 in Family

i look after my dad he passed away of cancers in 97 and i looked after him as a good son my mom ask for my help and iam 1 of 7 kids my dad ask me to look after my mom ,and i have till now all my family tried to keep me out of her home and had police arest me, and now they just trying all this just to get the house my mom and dad is leaveing me .i have no retirement i used when i looked after my and no one help me,now its me and my mom for the last ten years ,what can i do to stop them from pushing me around and saying stuff,

2007-08-12 17:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by rocketman 3 in Family

Thats my name and I absolutely love it. I find nothing sexier than when it comes out of a girl's mouth. What do you think? Is it unique? When you think of the name Brandon what type of guy pops into your head?

2007-08-12 16:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by *** 2 in Singles & Dating

I start school tomorrow at a new school, and I don't Know anyone. I dont want to start off the school year eating alone, because I dont want to give the image that im an outcast. I dont want to just go sit in a table w/ people i dont know. What should I do?

2007-08-12 16:57:39 · 1 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-12 16:56:12 · 42 answers · asked by Heartbreak kid 5 in Singles & Dating

yea my grandparents are thinking of bringing me 2 florida and we dont know when school starts. we didnt even go shopping yet! please help

2007-08-12 16:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what should i gif 4 she b'day....

2007-08-12 16:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, how?

2007-08-12 16:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by black_nemesis03 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 16:41:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

please only answer if you are a woman

2007-08-12 16:39:15 · 2 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

wen we were little my older bro get all da attention but now he gets little cuzz im begining 2 out do him in everthing like sport,skool,n other activity.. i only want us 2 become good brothers but he nvr listen 2 me n always hav 2 argue bak cuzz im younger n my parent like it that way now he keep getting competitiv with me n i dont want 2 fight with him all da time. wat should i do 2 let him know i only want wats good 4 him????

2007-08-12 16:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sum azn guy 1 in Family

My friend is dating this guy, and has been for almost a year. He has been locked up for drug trafficing, he has horrible anger issues to where he loses all sense of what's going on, she's come home from his house so completely terrified, she is in hysterical tears, he was kicked out of his moms house, and he lives with his father in a campground. He dropped out of school and got fired from his job and is now working as a dishwasher. If she can't come over to his house, he gets very angry, (see above) but, now she got a job and he got angry and he wants her to quit because it cuts down on the time they can spend together. But, he had a job that took up most of his time, and when she cannot hang out with him, he MAKES her change her plans..... This is the part that pisses me off the most, she will get so angry with him that she is debatng breaking up with him, and then he calls and he wil be nice on the phone and she'll forget. about her anger. Plus, he smokes and is a drunk.

2007-08-12 16:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 13 and am flat... people say I am pretty and I have a nice butt ... BUT :P I am flat... whatcha think :S

2007-08-12 16:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a woman was fired once on my job and before she left to say goodbye she called all the manager together mooned them gave them the finger then walked out of the door. what is the worse thing you have seen??

2007-08-12 16:33:11 · 25 answers · asked by angelswife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would you think I'm running away or starting a new life?

2007-08-12 16:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here's the thing see my "boyfriend" is moving to detriot , michigan and i live somewher else in michigan thats faraway from detriot and i cant stop thinking about him i luv him so much and im really depressed and i think its gonna come to the point where i actually kill my self!!! :( what should i do???????

2007-08-12 16:30:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got a textmate.he is very good and kind, hes cute. we had been chatmates for about two years. then we became textmates. im just confused if there really exist such a feeling in text eventhough both of u havent met each other yet. just saw each others pictures. my textmate often tells me he likes me. he calls often. i dont know if hes sincere or what. im just confused. and my problem is, i dont feel the same way for him.

2007-08-12 16:22:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-12 16:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time I like I guy, I flirt. But I always become a buddy of theirs' and they "wouldn't want to mess up the friendship.. I need Guys/Girls POV thnxx..

2007-08-12 16:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by Emily H 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so heres the deal...i have this friend. we havent exactly met [long story--friends sister], but we are trying to hang out and i think she keeps making excuses not to. she says she really wants to cuz i asked her but like i told her what are you doing sunday? and she says idk so i was like maybe we can chill then she was like idk what i am doing. then i was like ok thats fine. are you hanging out with anyone then and she was like no and then she sent a message well yes i am. and it was the kind of like a studar. its like why can't she save a day for me. i asked before those other people asked. then i asked her which rink she was skating at cuz i told her i was going to this other one and she told me it was the one i wasn't going to. and she was for sure the times we were going. then i told her my friends wanted to go to the one shes at and she asked the time. then i told her, then she was like then maybe i won't be there....what does this meann?? should i just ignore her?

2007-08-12 16:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by JESSSSICAAA. 3 in Friends

Who here heard about 3 yr old Nia glassie in New Zealkand? She was hung up on the clothes line and spun around till she off then she got chucked in the dryer and it got turned on . FAm ily members did this to this little angel. Our kids are our future what is the government doing about child abuse here? What are your Veiws? What kind of people do this to our kids?

2007-08-12 16:15:42 · 1 answers · asked by ashanti g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships