Family & Relationships - 12 August 2007

What is a good age to have a boyfriend?

2007-08-12 15:00:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-12 15:00:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am totally in luv with this guy and i want 2 go out with him but isnt that the guy's job? i dont wanna ask him cuz he mite not even like me and id be embarrassed. :p

i H A T E bein shy!

2007-08-12 14:56:13 · 32 answers · asked by ☼CheerGirly☼ 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online. I have met other people online. He is 34 and lives with his parents. He also wants to have phone sex and wants to know about my sex life. I've only knowing him for about a week. Your thoughts . . .

2007-08-12 14:56:08 · 32 answers · asked by blissful 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be senior in high school. I treat my supervisor as a friend. Is it ok to ask my supervisor her birthday? Also, will she think that I like her?

2007-08-12 14:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by dragonboyz943 1 in Friends

Ok, I've known this guy for a couple of years (like 4 or 5). We have always flirted and stuff and hung out when we saw each other. Last friday we were at The Factory (an arcade kinda thing), and we flirted all night. Then when we played Lazer Tag he kissed me, (but right when we start to make out, 3 guys that were running around scaring people who weren't even playing showed up all at the same time.) So we kinda seperated. Well after we got out, I didn't have a chance to talk to him about it bc my mother showed up half an hour early. I asked him if he wanted to date and he said yea, but when i asked him later on if we were dating he said, "Nah, not yet." So how do i get him to ask me out b4 school starts? (which i start on the 17th... and we don't go to same school... oh and he is grade below me, but only 5months younger, and he is aries and i'm a virgo [which makes us opposites... and we really are] so help?

2007-08-12 14:46:19 · 40 answers · asked by Megan S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old, and I live in my own apartment. I go home about every other weekend to see my mom and step dad and have dinner with them. On more then one occasion (5 or6) when my mom steps out of the room my step dad will hand me $100. I never know what to say, I feel like a babbling idiot because I support myself and could really use the extra money but I feel awful for taking it. I usually say something along the lines of "no no, I cant but thank you." and then he says "you need it, take it." which then I usually do with a very grateful thank you.

Is this acceptable or should I keep trying to turn it down? Do you think it is a little odd that he will only do it when my mother is not in the room?

2007-08-12 14:45:47 · 43 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Family

well heres the story...
I have been going to my chruch since i was three! Im a christian! Now my mom and dad want to leave my chruch and they say i cant just go because you go to church as a family! and you guys dont know how MUCH i love my chruch (mostly cuz of the ppl)
I love thease ppl i mean their my family i grew up with them! I have a small church and thats how i like it! And today my parents wanted us (my fam) to try this new chruch! it is a HUGE church! its just SOOO diff then what im used too! i want my old church i want it bad! But... im affrid if my family stays at my old chruch my mom and dad will stop loving god and going to any chruch! im soo confused and sad?! what should i do?? PS. Y they dont want to stay @ my church long story! but plz help thx! xox

2007-08-12 14:44:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im about 5'6
and 123 - 124 pounds
would guys find this weight attractive


other then that i have dark brown hair / blue eyes
im a nice girl and i have a good heart.

i know you cant depict my actual appearance from this but do you think i shouold lose weight from my description.?

2007-08-12 14:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my childhood friend who i love very much has been going for about 3 months. They seem to get along.. but i dont see her very in love....etc. She tells me..that he buys her things she wants....and helps her economically. Doesnt seem like a love relationship..but sex for money....would u consider this prostituion? what should i tell my friend...?

2007-08-12 14:42:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a few days ago this girl gave my bf a note asking if they could hang out and gave him her number to call or text her. he asked me if i was ok with it and i told him i was (cuz i trust him and he wouldn't do anything) but if she tried saying anything about me or me and him or trying to do anything to him to stop talking to her and he said he would. is it ok to let him talk to her (just texting and at school just in the classes that they have together?) or should i not and tell him to stop talking to her? and if i need to tell him to stop then what are some ways how i can tell him?

♥ thanks ♥

2007-08-12 14:42:10 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

so i've got this one girl on the side, once i get out of the marriage im in now, hopefully with some cash , ill set us up for a wedding with this one

now when i do this ill ask her parents (rich ) to pay for as much as i can (half/all ) and ill ask them for the money in a real payment like a cheque or a transfer to my account so i can ;'take care' of the money shi-t

i'll pick the most expensive dress and all that so its a massive bill , then when the moneys in my hands ill skip the state line or something, get as far away as i can, dissapear you know

this is just shi-t im running through in my head, i've got my hands tied if you look at my other questions atm but once i can get this working how do you giys think it will go

2007-08-12 14:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well I told my friend that I liked him and he didn't reply cuz in the message I said that you didn't need to reply. But I want to know his reaction. And my friend has been talking to him on e-mail and he won't bring up the subject. How can I know his reaction. Or do you think I should wait. School starts in a week and I want to know if he likes me cuz at school it seems like he does. And in one e-mail he sounded like he liked me but I wasn't sure so I made the first move. And now i'm starting to regret it. I'm only 14 and i'm really confused. So can you please not write any stupid answers.

2007-08-12 14:40:36 · 31 answers · asked by ♥Kelsi♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I told the guy i was in love with i needed a break and i would get in touch with him when its over..but i regret saying that ,but its only been 1day since i said that lol.. i said it because hes not ready to be with me..and he has no clue about the future and if we ever will be but he says he'd like to think we will oneday..but he started talking to his ex and his ex-lovers and I thought to myself I don't want be on the side as a maybe oneday person..so i told him this : Right now in my life I am wanting more then you can give me..and with that being said..,,,I need time to think about my life, get my life in order, and find out what I really am wanting in my life..And its really hard to do when people are talking about me, and the past is always being brought up..im better then that, and I don't want to sit around dwelling on it or thinking about it..I am taking a break ..And I will get in contact with you when its over..
did I do the right thing? cuz i so wanna call him lol.

2007-08-12 14:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He had a 10 years affairs and just ended it recently. The mistress personally contacted the wife to tell her about their relationship, what would you do ? Can you forgive this kind of man ?

2007-08-12 14:36:31 · 27 answers · asked by Jy99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do to keep my girlfriend interested in me after once we're dating so she would stay with me and enjoy dating me?

2007-08-12 14:32:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He talks to me like he loves me but all he is worried about is sex

2007-08-12 14:28:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...which top would u like ur girl friend to wear? for a college aged girl?

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2007-08-12 14:28:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He never admited he was his son until he had a DNA, now after 12 years he started paying child support!

2007-08-12 14:28:17 · 21 answers · asked by claire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when shes around i feel so happy and i just want to hold her and never let go. shes the most beautiful girl ive ever laid eyes on. shes all i think about. weve been friends forever but she started pulling away after she had been my girlfriend and broken up with me a couple years ago when were like 14. but still im always there when she gets heartbroken. a few days ago i asked her to go to the movies with me and she accepted and we went and i put my arm around her and she laid her head on my shoulder and i kissed her she kissed me back but then she pulled away. we went back to her apartment and we had a few drinks and then she kissed me but i think she was a little drunk and she wanted to have sex but i told her no so she went to sleep and i watched her sleep. but i dont think she returns my feelings for her. shes just an amazing hot girl and i want to be with her but she always turns my down when i ask her to be mine. o and i posted this here bc in singles&dating didnt get answers.....

2007-08-12 14:24:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have talked to this guy on the net for about 2 years but never met him, and for like the last year i've really fallen for him :/ he says he loves me too, and i believe him, but there are so many problems, for a start we live in 2 different countries and there is a 9 year age gap. Is it going to work out or am I just kidding myself? I really love him..

2007-08-12 14:20:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so my last question was about two guys. it told how they treated me and whether they liked me or not. well my friend and i talked to the guy from the pool today. we played knock out with him and his friends. sometimes he ended up behind me and if i missed my shot and he got it in he would say "sorry, my bad". but with my friend, he would just stand there and wait for her to get it in (she isn't very good) but after a while he would get her out and he'd say "sorry, you took too long!". then we played a real basketball game and he "covered" me (basically all he did was stand a foot in front of me, wave his arms, and yell "RAAAAWR!"). and he never seemed to remember my friend's name but could remember mine. they kept calling her Jess (her name is Jen) and when she corrected them all he said was "close enough". i'm not sure if this means he likes me or not....advice?

2007-08-12 14:19:24 · 1 answers · asked by in la-la-land 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean he draws in his free time for fun...

2007-08-12 14:18:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my freind wants to know if boyfreind is married.how can we find out online for free.

2007-08-12 14:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by nareshmara 1 in Weddings

Ok so, well People keep asking me "what's wrong?" There's really nothing wrong. How do I show them theres really nothing wrong I mean I haven't talked much (like I usally do) and have been a little snappy, but I'm fine. I know why I'm snappy but I don't want to tell my mom or ganny or brother cuz then they'll think I'm either jelous or something.
See my brother (16) always gets his way unlike me (13) I wouldn't really care but sometimes I'd like a little regocnition I know that sounds selfess but it's true. He's on probation (unruly child) he gets bad grades (even though he's smart as anything), he's already wrecked 2 cars! I mean Im FAR from perfect but I do what I'm told, get A's and B's, at least TRY to study. I don't bother anyone really but I guess Im just a selfess b**** and needs to shut up. I usally don't complain I'm just SO irrated though!!!!

2007-08-12 14:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this woman for almost 2 and a half years. She is a 30 year old single mom with a 6 year old daughter. Lately, she has a lot going on. She has an issue with her ex-husband. He isn't taking care of the daughter the way he should be and she took him to court. A guardian ad litem was appointed in the case. She said that while this is court case is going on, we should take a break and just be friends. She said she wanted to take some time and needs some space because she feels that she doesn't have time to be in a relationship. She said that she doesn't want me to wait and that it's ok if I see other people. I care so much about this woman and her daughter and I don't want us to be apart. I don't know what to do. How long could this guardian ad litem take?

2007-08-12 14:08:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married over 20 yrs and I have been a closet crossdresser for about 15 yrs. I frequently joke with her that certain clothes or make-up would look good on me and she laughs, but I think she suspects that there is something more to my comments. How can I tell her that I really love women's clothes and make-up and that I would love her to dress me up and treat me like a sissy?

2007-08-12 14:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I hardly have sex anymore. We have sex maybe twice a month. This isn't healthy to me, and I'm afraid if we're like this now, what will marriage be like? I know it may have a lot to do with his parents moving in with us. It's supposed to be just temporary until they can get on their feet. But, we have a big place, our rooms are very far away from each other and it's impossible for them to hear us. But when I start to kiss him or grab his member he just laughs it off and stops me. He says he's still attracted to me, but just tired. For some reason, I don't believe him. Is he cheating, or has he lost interest in having sex with me?

2007-08-12 14:00:27 · 23 answers · asked by DRE 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell for this guy (who is now my ex-boyfriend), a long time ago, like two years ago. We're not together but we still talk as friends, I feel like I still love him though. How do I hint to him that I want to get back together with him?

2007-08-12 13:54:22 · 18 answers · asked by Love. 5 in Singles & Dating

A heterosexual man married for 30 years or a heterosexual man who has never married?

2007-08-12 13:53:37 · 22 answers · asked by mafiosu 5 in Singles & Dating