Ok so, well People keep asking me "what's wrong?" There's really nothing wrong. How do I show them theres really nothing wrong I mean I haven't talked much (like I usally do) and have been a little snappy, but I'm fine. I know why I'm snappy but I don't want to tell my mom or ganny or brother cuz then they'll think I'm either jelous or something.
See my brother (16) always gets his way unlike me (13) I wouldn't really care but sometimes I'd like a little regocnition I know that sounds selfess but it's true. He's on probation (unruly child) he gets bad grades (even though he's smart as anything), he's already wrecked 2 cars! I mean Im FAR from perfect but I do what I'm told, get A's and B's, at least TRY to study. I don't bother anyone really but I guess Im just a selfess b**** and needs to shut up. I usally don't complain I'm just SO irrated though!!!!
2007-08-12 14:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like at the present time your older brother may be in need of some additional guidance from your ma and grandma. If it becomes too upsetting then please do tell them what is upsetting you and hopefully they will try to accomodate your feelings also. But realize that at this moment in time although they may not be showing it they do love you as much as he but just think that he needs their help and guidance a little more then you. Sounds like your a pretty good kid and pretty self aware and mature for your age so continue to be like this. Trust me when I tell you how much your behaviour makes it easier on them to try and overcompensate with your brother. But soon enough things will return to normal and then hopefully everything and everyone will be on equal footing once again.
2007-08-12 14:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just stop focusing on him and be myself and don't worry with how much attention he's getting because nothing will change you can try and talk to them but i just wouldn't worry with there's better things you should spend your time doing like working on
2007-08-12 14:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by alex-mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha sounds like me with my sister but she wrecked 2 cars... they only give that sibling more attention because they are afraid that they are gonna mess up and they dont have to worry about you :) it sucks but its true dont worry.. keeping getting good grades and life will get better
2007-08-12 14:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your folks and let them know how you feel. you sound like a great person who derserves recognition for what you do and how hard you try .
2007-08-12 14:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋