I met a guy online. I have met other people online. He is 34 and lives with his parents. He also wants to have phone sex and wants to know about my sex life. I've only knowing him for about a week. Your thoughts . . .
2007-08-12 14:56:08 · 32 answers · asked by blissful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered this one yourself. He lives at home at 34. Move on. He isn't leaving mommy.
There are way to many people out there to start a relationship with. Why date the dude from PHYSCO?
2007-08-12 15:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think wanting to know about your sexual life one week into your association with each other is a little forward of the usual "getting to know you" type of fare. I think living with one's parents at age 34 on anything other than a temporary basis is a red flag of epic proportions. I think you meet people where you meet them, and no place is any better or worse than any other, but taken in concert with the other obvious red flags associated with this person thus far, having met them online cannot be considered a confidence-inspiring arrangement. Some would interpret this as three strikes against him; I see it more as two strikes and a foul ball...either way the odds are not in his favor across the anonymity of the internet. Additional information is definitely required, but you may not want to know any more about him than you do now. For my tastes the sex talk at so early a juncture is especially bothersome (particularly for a man of his age). But if you decide that these are parameters you can handle, realize that caution is indicated. Good luck.
2007-08-12 15:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only looking for sex, not a serious relationship. If a guy really respects you, then he won't be talking about sex with you after only talking for a week. He shouldn't be asking about your sex life, and shouldnt be asking you anything about sex yet. A guy who wants a real relationship and not just sex, will care about getting to know YOU.
2007-08-12 15:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Spicy!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i would say, no thanks. you've only known him for a week and he wants to have "phone sex" EWE
c'mon and he's 34 and lives with his parents, it seems like he has some problems and is a loser wanting to meet girls and be perverted. all guys have there moments but you really can't trust a lot of ppl over the internet.
2007-08-12 15:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's extremely weird. He sounds like a pervert. I recommend cutting off contact with this guy, but you can do whatever. That's very highly unusual things for someone to want to know after only having "known" you a week though.
2007-08-12 15:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tammerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
34 and lives at home? LOOOOOOOOSER!!!!
of course he wants to have phone sex with you and learn about your sex life bc of the lack of his. i bet you $5 he is grossly over weight
2007-08-12 15:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If warning bells aren't going off in your head, you need a serious course in protecting yourself from weird people.
This kind of thing can be not just annoying but dangerous.
Change your screen name, don't go on that board and DON'T give him any personal information that would let him track you down.
2007-08-12 15:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is creepy and is probably a lot older than 34!
2007-08-12 15:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by C D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. You should stop talking to him.
He's sounding like one of those creepy perverted cyber predators that are only after one thing.
And he's a loser if he's still living with the parents.
2007-08-12 15:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by DanaV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? he's a molestor. he wants to find out where u live and kill you or maybe rape you. im serious. don't talk to him. don't trust any people you meet online especially since you've only known him for a week. he plans to brainwash u and make u feel comfortable and then he is gonna find out all ur info. dont trust him!
2007-08-12 15:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋