Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

there is a girl i told her that i want to date her she is with me in the British council she is taking a course with me but not in the same class ,i told her that i saw her everyday and i want to talk to her but i couldn't ..i dunno why but i couldn't ..then she said :excuse me ..be right back...that's mean NO .. i am confused now i can't think more ..she is in my mind in my dreams .......please what i must to do after she said that..ignore her or what?????????

2007-08-09 23:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by messidona 2 in Singles & Dating

To make things short, I invited my cousin over for a little party at my place and when I got a bit drunk, my cousin went threw my room and stole about $100 something out of my room. The stupid that about it is that when he got the money while the party was going on, he ask one of my friend to take him out. So one of my friends took him out and what he ends up doing was using the money to buy some drugs. After the party was over and everyone left, I check my room and all the money from my wallet was missing. Anyways, I call up some friends to see if they saw anyone going inside my room or did they know anyone going that had about $100 something with them. One of my friends told me that my cousin and him went out to go buy some dop and he end up using about $100 something. Well that’s how I know but I wasn’t for sure.

A couple of weeks pass and he came over to visit and I had a bag full of quarters which should be wroth around $30 and I use that to like go dry my close when it rains. Anyways, that went missing and he was the only one in my room the most. I now know for sure that he robs me that last time I had that party.

I wanted to confront him about it but since we are as close as cousin I don’t know if I should. What should I do? In a way I want to kick his As$ and in a way I want to tell him straight out that why would he do this. What should I do??? We are both 19 years old

2007-08-09 23:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lately i have become more "attached" not sexually to my wife's sister. i don't even know if she realizes it but to me it feels like shes thinking of the same thing. i still love my wife very much, but i am starting to love her sister the same. i know it's not a good thing for me to be falling in love again but i cannot help it.
i always compliment her on her beauty or her being sweet, she blushes and then i'll smile and look deep into her eyes. i feel like she loves me too but its kind of a forbidden thing beings that im already betrothed. everytime we touch it is as if someone has shocked me with a stun gun and my heart starts racing. i still love my wife very very much and i don't believe in divorce, i mean i will not divorce her ever thats just the way i am. is this real or am i just wishing. and if so is it ok to be in love with more than one person.

2007-08-09 23:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by lonedesertfox 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short: In May, we reconnected with an old friend (a male) that I used to work eight years ago. Unbeknownst to him at the time, I had something of a crush on him and still do. Well, we got to talking every day with even some mild flirting going on, and I felt confident enough (in early July) to send him a rose pic with a message that said "Just because". Well, he was uncomfortable with that. We were still friends, though, and still talked almost every day. Well, there is a woman I put on my Friends list (I went to high school with her) and now he and her are in love, and now he only talks to me like once a week, and it's usually one- or two-word message. This female Friend says it's not me; it's because he's busy. I have trouble believing that, because he is online on MySpace all the time, and when I tried to e-mail him, he reads his e-mail but doesn't answer. Do I need to just not contact him at all and let him contact me?

2007-08-09 23:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by Diane 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a man was engaged for two years and then his finace dies. since then has been in several relationships since most at the same time. as many as four women at one time. tells all he is deeply in love with them but vague on commiments. Who's to know if he serious and which one. or is he so hurt that he feels he should play around with everyones feelings. i feel he knows its selfish but doesn't care and now testing the waters on the other side.

2007-08-09 23:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a girlfriend that i love, undoubtibly, and we get on gr8 we but i dumped her once for an ex but as it happens that faded for a second time so we started talking more and now where going out again but i had a strange incident last week with a one of my best m8s we made out and she has a b.f(he knows) but at the time i was single and we let it go as a teenage fling(which i have a rather bad rep for) but know we have discovered with our boy/girlfriends on holiday that we have feelings for each other but i dont want to hurt my girlfriend should i tell her?? is it just hormones?? or should it be a matter of wat they don't know cant hurt em(if anything does happen)??

2007-08-09 23:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by cobra360 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy and we have been out on a couple of dates. On the second one, he kept checking out this other girl (who was very pretty). Does that mean he's not really interested in me? I find it quite offensive and hurtful. I am not insecure, I do consider myself reasonably good-looking, I just prefer the guy's attention on me, as I don't oogle other guys when I am with someone.

I know a lot of guys do this, my ex used to do this as well and said it was just eye-candy. But I still find it hurtful and rude and I don't like it. And I also know some guys don't do this (at least not obviously). But why? Do they realise they are doing this? Can they help it??

Also, he is still asking me out for further dates and making arrangements to see me again in the next couple of days. I'm just a bit confused.

2007-08-09 23:42:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and i spent the night at my friend house and my friend fell asleep so i walked in the kichen to get a drink and his mom walks in so i say hi she says hi back then she gets closer to me and gives me i very deep french kiss and puts my hand on her Butt then after a while she stoped and pulled my pants down and said"Come next week when he's(My Friend)is at his dads house so we can play.In the morning she made us breakfest and when my friend went to the bath room she flashed her breast at me.It's almost next week and i have no idea what to do part of me wants to go over and another part wants to stay home.She wasn't drunk, she's 35.What should i do.

2007-08-09 23:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As in the film 9 1/2 weeks!

2007-08-09 23:35:19 · 36 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 23:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday I was with the girl that I like and some other friends at the beach. Things were going good, we held hands in the pool, she was looking at me alot and she was following me alot! At the end of th day, we were going home in the same car with some other friends, so she went in first and sat at the back and then my friends told me to sit at the back next to her but she said that I shouldn't because the ones that had the farthest houses and were going home at the end should sit at the back (it's just for organisation)... But I have a feeling that she didn't want me to sit next to her, I dunno why!

And two days ago she told me that she wanted to see me at night with our friends (and she told me that I was very cute in the same conversation), then when I went to dinner with my friends to meet her and her friends, she left with some friends(but not all). Like why didn't she stay if she wanted to see me?

Does she like me? Why is she acting this way? She's really confusing me!

2007-08-09 23:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have beened divorced a couple of months now and went on a friendly date with another girl...my ex found out and started making wild accusations about me - total lies - even filed a protection order against me! I am a police office and she knows this could end my career and she says "I dont care!" Anyone else ever experieanced a crazy ex? How did you handle it?

2007-08-09 23:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Never Regret 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A ex frined of mine is coming over to my house tonight so we can try to make up and be friends again. Neither one of us is mad anymore. (friend moved in my house, later I kicked her out for not even trying to look for job, and spending my money) Now I hear she is wanting to be friends again, as do I so I invited her over for dinner tonight. I know this is going to be akward since it's been 2 years since we have even talked to each other. What can I do to make everyone comfortable?

2007-08-09 23:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Friends

My husband has been having an affair for over 2 years. We filed for a divorce, but he said he didn't want it the day we went to court. I told him to break up with his mistress if he wanted to work on our marriage.

He said that he wishes that things could go back to the way the used to be with us. He regrets the affair and the pain it caused our daughter, me and our family. He also said that things are awkward between us.

He could not break up with his girlfriend then and still hasn't. If he really wishes we could go back to the way we were, why did he give up on us? Why does he still have the girlfriend instead of me?

2007-08-09 23:02:57 · 11 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when u finally get the issues/problems off yourself & let the other person know? Phewww! i did just that & it feels good!

2007-08-09 23:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. 10 2 in Singles & Dating

me and him have bin going out for 1 year alittle on and off but no1 in between. now he doesn't like me as much as he used to i used to lie alot now i don't he wants me to impress him/ do something to make him like me what should i do seriously??

2007-08-09 22:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 22:58:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is a machinist, he works very hard. He recently started a new job at a well known food company he works everyday seven days a week. anyway jobs are hard to find right now otherwise he would go to another one.
Last week they shorted him a days pay which is almost 200 dollars. And that is alot to a family of five. So it went on about a week him asking his boss i need that money. in the mean time my children needed school supplies and we needed food.
He boss would say oh ok be right back and never come back. nno im sorry or anything just be right back and then he would be gone for the day. so finally my husband went over his head and his answer was sorry we cannot help you thats his job you will have to talk to him. this morning my husband came home with another check once agin shorting him almost 200 dollars. the check hasnt been cashed yet . I am so upset. in the meantime our mortgage is waiting. i even thought of going to the media with this. but then agin we cannot afford

2007-08-09 22:53:36 · 4 answers · asked by jerry w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my Fiance where together for about 10 months before, in a fit of rage i Hurt him and broke up with him, he was so deeply hurt he didnt talk to me for 3 weeks after and didnt see eatch other for 2 months.

well we just saw eatchother on the 5th of this month where we both instantly connected and got back together. but he said that he didnt want to have sex for at least a year. needless to say i was crushed, not just becuase of the obvious need for pleasure, but i want to make love with him, thats very important for me.

Its hard to go from a intensly sexual and loving relationship to somthing so dry. We still have extremly heavy "petting" sessions, even to the point where we have been both nude, but before we go and further, He stops it

This hurts me Emotionaly. at times The hurt has been so intense that i have cried to him, and i can see the hurt in his eyes, but he still wont make love to me.

Is there any fix for this, what is the problem? he wont tell me?

2007-08-09 22:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Raven Ty Marx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Where do you get started as far as financially when your considering divorce? How do you afford your own place to live when you know your job doesn't pay enough?

2007-08-09 22:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by ldelgatta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf where out last week in our local pub that we have been going to for the last 3years, We are suppose to go out tomorrow night but last week something very scary happend
We where out in the smoking area and i was chating to a girl that i hadden spoken to in a long time and this bloke was hanging around, and he said to me " Can i hug you" I said " my boyfriend wouldnt like that" my bf was talking to his friends behind me and the bloke says to me " I cdont care im going to hug you anyway" and did and then this is when thinks got scary he then said " im going to bottle your bf now" My bf was looking the other way and had no idia what was going on and the guy lifted up the bottle I daont no what came over me but i grabed another bottle and put it to his face and told him id smash his face in if he touch him,
He then put the bottle downa nd i grabed my bf and got out of the pub, When I told my bf what had happen he was schoked.
I dont want to run out of my pub but shud i go

2007-08-09 22:49:24 · 22 answers · asked by K k 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much and we have great sex (although not as spontaneous as it was in the early stages of our relationship) but I still fantasise about other men.

I've never cheated on my husband and never would but since we have been together (7years) I think I've had about 4 crushes on various men from friends to work colleagues. I like the fact that these men found me desirable which makes me desire them. Never ever goes any further than I little harmless flirting though. I know my husband finds me attractive but its quite nice to have someone else look at you in that way.

Is this natural to fantasise about others even as a married woman? I hope so because I quite enjoy it!

2007-08-09 22:48:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We'll miss you.
Duane

2007-08-09 22:47:54 · 1 answers · asked by mikebnchprss 3 in Friends

My boyfriend of 2years doesnt let me go out with my friends. He gives me the silent treatment if i go home to see my family. He recently made me delete my bebo account because i had male friends from school on it. He checks my phone and email all the time. I know i shouldn be with him but i do love him and we have a 4 month old baby together. I grew up without my father and i always swore i wouldn do that to my child but im startin to think that maybe havin no father would be better for her than havin a father like that?

2007-08-09 22:45:03 · 22 answers · asked by ollieoops 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well.......
There's a guy I like, and we IM a lot.
But my friend, like my BEST friend wanted his e-mail.
I didn't give it to her because she can make ANY guy fall for her, I do not want that to happen.
So instead I said I forgot it and I gave her my sister's e-mail (because my sister knows it).
My best friend will ask for the e-mail AND she'll become great friends with my sister........They have a lot of things in common.

I couldn't have that happen.........Sooo.....


I told my sister not to talk to her, because she was a "hacker" (she's not)

Am I being mean??
I must be a terrible friend!!

2007-08-09 22:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my long time boyfriend recently asked me to marry him. The trouble is we don't know how to tell our families. We are young, I'm 18 and he's 19. We're not even planning on getting married until after I've graduated from college. Its not really my family that we are having problems telling. His side of the family is a little judgmental. So does anyone have any ideas on how to tell our family? Thanks!

2007-08-09 22:39:23 · 16 answers · asked by Kassie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just spent 2 weeks with my fiancee and his family. After seeing everyone in his family, I am seriously considering backing out. I love him more than anything, but my mother married into my father's crazy family and they have made her life miserable. These people, my fiancee's family are absolutely crazy, disrespectful, rude, illmannered. They actually thought I was weird or strange because I say "Mister" and "sir" or "ma'am". I cant even talk about all the crap I went through. His mother constantly was in our business, never gave us privacy, and tried to invite herself everywhere. It's really not something I want to deal with forever and they aren't people I want to see again nor would I want my kids around. However, I love him and he treats me like a queen.

2007-08-09 22:38:41 · 8 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Family

okay i feft my home city 2yrs. 9mons. ago now i'm back with my partner and my ex knew i was here 5 min after my parents did and has tryed to contact me my question is should i tell my partener we've had trust isues before on my part not cheating but accused we said we would never keep sercrets but this would also bring problems no i have not talked to him and would really be happy spending the rest of my life not talking to him so do i tell or not

2007-08-09 22:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suggest ways 2 get rid of my gal plz help me out.....................

2007-08-09 22:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by russel 1 in Friends

2007-08-09 22:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships