Me and my bf where out last week in our local pub that we have been going to for the last 3years, We are suppose to go out tomorrow night but last week something very scary happend
We where out in the smoking area and i was chating to a girl that i hadden spoken to in a long time and this bloke was hanging around, and he said to me " Can i hug you" I said " my boyfriend wouldnt like that" my bf was talking to his friends behind me and the bloke says to me " I cdont care im going to hug you anyway" and did and then this is when thinks got scary he then said " im going to bottle your bf now" My bf was looking the other way and had no idia what was going on and the guy lifted up the bottle I daont no what came over me but i grabed another bottle and put it to his face and told him id smash his face in if he touch him,
He then put the bottle downa nd i grabed my bf and got out of the pub, When I told my bf what had happen he was schoked.
I dont want to run out of my pub but shud i go
2007-08-09 22:49:24 · 22 answers · asked by K k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have never seen this guy before the chances are you may never again. I cannot believe he did that, that was some serious drunken behaviour. I think you have every right to go back, it is your local and some drunken idiot should not put you off. When you go next time and he is there again, make the barstaff aware that he tried to cause a fight last time with you and they will keep an eye on him, plus, they will appreciate a heads up on this idiot. The fact that he backed down when you threatened him shows he was just trying to act big. Don't let this idiot stop you, just be the calm ones and tell the barstaff and then try and relax and enjoy your night.
2007-08-09 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End of the day you wads standing by your man, i would have done the same thing. I sound to me that he was not going to do it any way as people that do things like that just do it (no thing just act think after). You should go back to your local pub and tell them that you was not going to do it, and that you did it to shock the bloke to putting the bottle down. it was silly i no but it worked. And as it is your local they will no if you are a trouble maker or not. Go back at the end of the day you have not done any thing wrong. Go back in
2007-08-09 23:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi firstly this is your local and why be driven out by the likes of him i would still go but you should of informed the police of this guy and you still can have it logged and get CCTV footage also ask the manager to look at this so he can beawere of his id you have been going for three years so you will know the bar personnel even the owner how would also need to be aware of this guy this guy may have mental problems but most of all showed a violent behaviour which he could of carried out if it was not for you but don't let him put you both off going back to your local but do have this looked into just to be safe the police may have other things on him and just need you to put them on his were abouts well take care and don't be put off and enjoy your next visit
2007-08-09 23:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to the pub and if the guy is still there then tell the bartender about what the guy did. I'm sure the owners or manager of the pub wouldn't want to have unstable and violent people in their place of business.
2007-08-09 22:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweeney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this drunk should push you out of your local. Go back tonight but be ready to inform bar staff that this guy maybe trouble if you see him. Chances are he wont be there, but go and try to enjoy the night. Drink makes some people complete idiots.
2007-08-09 23:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by milly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you were able to handle the situation, and I would guess the guy was loaded when he did that. Lots of people do strange stuff when they are drunk. Go, and if the guy shows up, stick close to your bf and face the guy. My guess is he will back off with both of you not afraid of him. He was looking to intimidate and he didn't get away with it. Good for you.
2007-08-09 22:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Linda K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. Don't let one bad instance spoil it for you. If you see the guy there tell the pub owner or security what happened last time and they will watch him closely.
2007-08-09 22:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change pubs and watch out for the mean drunk. if you spot him leave. these lead to legal problems which are expensive. they are avoidable for someone with you brains. who needs the trouble. shift reasonably far away. be alert in the future and watch for that sort of bloke and beat it. it is a pub and people get drunk. don't seperate from the herd. that is how predators chose their prey.
2007-08-09 22:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by JIM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont feel coomfortable going there again, then you probably shouldnt go. Talk to your bf , it'll really help a lot and if your scared and dont want to go then you really shouldnt, k?
2007-08-09 22:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Opal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the bouncer or someone in charge at the club what happened. They can keep this jerk from giving you and your bf any more problems.
2007-08-09 22:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋