lately i have become more "attached" not sexually to my wife's sister. i don't even know if she realizes it but to me it feels like shes thinking of the same thing. i still love my wife very much, but i am starting to love her sister the same. i know it's not a good thing for me to be falling in love again but i cannot help it.
i always compliment her on her beauty or her being sweet, she blushes and then i'll smile and look deep into her eyes. i feel like she loves me too but its kind of a forbidden thing beings that im already betrothed. everytime we touch it is as if someone has shocked me with a stun gun and my heart starts racing. i still love my wife very very much and i don't believe in divorce, i mean i will not divorce her ever thats just the way i am. is this real or am i just wishing. and if so is it ok to be in love with more than one person.
2007-08-09 23:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by lonedesertfox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I don’t think it’s ok to be in love with you sister-in-law. Being in love is different that having a crush. Love is a choice. Marriage is a sacred bond between a man and a woman that lasts until death do you part. Review you wedding vows paying attention to the Forsaking All Others part. Then love and cherish your wife a anytime you feel like looking deep into those eyes of her sister.
It sounds like a crush to me, you just need to act normal and not dwell on it.
2007-08-10 00:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are very young, because you seem very immature. You can only be in love with one person. If you're in love with your wife, you should know that. You would not even think that you are in love with her sister! Do you even know what love is?
You don't love a woman the same way you love a car. When you fall in love, nothing and nobody will interfere with your relationship. The real truth will come out at some time and when it does, it will ruin your marriage.
2007-08-10 00:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lover boy,
From your write up I can gather, that you are keen rather than your sister- in- law.
Why have you developed such a feeling or thinking?
She as a person, I am sure, deserves a special person exclusively for herself. Why should she share a person with her sister?
You also sound like you want have cake and eat it too!!!!!!!!
Please see that you do not meet your sister in law now on. Plan to leave or move to a distant state.
Somewhere I read, that a particular culture does not allow a man to interact with his sister in law, that is, they treat each other as strangers. Well, probably to avoid possible linking of relationship, as you are corrently facing.
2007-08-10 00:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by chukke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The grass is not always greener on the other side. Falling for your sister in law is false infatuation. She reminds you of your wife and that may be the reason you fancy her. If you take it any further you may be digging a big hole for yourself. Leave well alone and do something nice for your wife it will make you feel better about yourself.
2007-08-10 00:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cnat help bein in love with more than one person if it happens howvere do not act on it if u really do love ur wife then dont cheat on her this thing with her sister is proably just a crush that will pass its not the real thing like u have with ur wife so try and avoid her sister for awhile
2007-08-10 00:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a music lover ain't ya. Follow dads instructions to the letter:
"Sometimes you really dig a girl the moment you kiss her
And then you get distracted by her older sister
When in walks her father and takes you a line
And says, "You better go home, son, and make up your mind"
And then you bet you'd better finally decide..."
2007-08-10 00:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even those crazy desert people who have four wives will tell you to stay away from sisters... you fool You made a vow to your wife! Keep it.
2007-08-09 23:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep away from the sisiter.if she loves you or not who cares.
think of your family and what you would cause if you respond or act on this crush.....
just avoid doing things with her without being obvious to your wife.....
and it is not just:KIND OF THE FORBIDDEN THING.it is just not ok
2007-08-09 23:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing good will come from that. if you pursue her sister, end it with your wife first. even if you do, you will tear two sisters relationship apart. I think you should keep how you feel to yourself, and continue a good marraige.
2007-08-10 00:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋