Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

Personaly i tend not to get fixated on one girl i like many kind of like being freinds with women but still have sex with them sort of like i meet a girl and i want to with her and share time with her you know kinda like hey i like you and i just want to hang around with you . I also am 100 % honest and upfront so no one gets hurt i always tell the girl who i am and how things work she can choose to come into my reality or not . Anyways whats your take ?

2007-08-09 02:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok here we go.... 2 weeks ago i filed for custody (I'm 21) of my younger cousing, she's 17. She was living with my grandmother (is 60yrs old). My cousin has been coming to my house 4 or 5 days a week including just about every weekend because my grandmother refuses to spend money on shampoo/conditioner/soap/toothbrush/feminine products (etc) and refuses to give my cousin money to wash her laundry or even go with her to the laundry place. before i stepped in and starting helping my cousin, she was only able to wash her clothes once every 2-3months, i bought her a toothbrush since the last one she had was 2years ago, and i also bought her shampoo and all that stuff. my grandmother is on welfare for taking care of my cousin, she has been on welfare her whole life for her children, i think she's only worked 1 job years ago. anyway the point is she takes the welfare check and doesnt buy anything my cousine NEEDS (forget wants... its necessities!) so of course i started pickin up the slack

2007-08-09 02:14:36 · 5 answers · asked by >>Ascher<< 3 in Family

what kind of clothes,hairsyles and such do you like on a girl. i'm trying to get a good look together for my party.

Thanks!

2007-08-09 02:10:16 · 14 answers · asked by Destiny 1 in Singles & Dating

anytime I want to go out to eat we never go where I want. We never go to a movie when I want to. we only go and do what he wants

2007-08-09 02:06:38 · 25 answers · asked by FUSSBALL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married. we blended families. her daughter called me daddy. my 2 kids got attached to her. some bad stuff went down last spring. we were fighting all the time and she was depressed which added a lot of problems. now we are going through a divorce. i can't say that i miss all the fighting but at one point our marriage was beautiful. i haven't heard from her in 3 months. I was repeatedly told by her she'd be devastated if anything happened to us. She's the one that left though. Anger played a big part in the last 3 months between the two of us and only contact has been through attornies. I was told i was the love of her life. How can i tell if she wants to come back and try to get some help without any contact? it seems a waste to throw a marriage away when we worked so hard at blending the family. Yeah some nasty stuff has been done since we split but can't we turn that around? How can i tell if she misses me? she's got a really big ego and won't show it if she does.

2007-08-09 02:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 02:05:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you give him a extreme female makeover with every thing plus tie him up blindflod gag him too

2007-08-09 02:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by kevin t 1 in Family

im asking this Question because that's my problem!!!!huhuhu

2007-08-09 02:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 01:57:43 · 27 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Whatever your answer is... explain why.

2007-08-09 01:49:21 · 11 answers · asked by Joe 6 in Singles & Dating

shower party...under wear or laungary.for wedding...how about kitchen wear, home appliances?(if it's big,try delivery)for new home,new family,new life,new relationships.i think it must be useful for both of them.and less stress for yourself.

2007-08-09 01:36:36 · 7 answers · asked by arllan k 1 in Weddings

Will you feel soooooo annoyed when a person in Yahoo Answer ask the same question (which is soooooooo long) over and over again?

That person ask the same question like 30times since last week! It's like she wants more and more answers, which people in here kindly gave her. But it's NEVER enough for her.

2007-08-09 01:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by farizah_t 2 in Singles & Dating

blondes, brunettes, latinas, skinny, curvy, etc.

2007-08-09 01:32:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever i see a hot guy or an old crush of mine, or any guy of that matter, i get this sinking inside of me. its like my heart has dropped, its a really weird sensation and i really duno what it is. although i have gotten over my crush sometimes that deep sinking feeling comes back again. its like a big heavy object collapsing inside of me, although its in the inside i can still feel the impact of that sensation, i just still havent figure out what it is.
then there are times when i start to shake when im really nervous about pretty much anything or my teeth start to chatter, it annoys me but i still do it, its always something i duno of.

the other thing that i get is the pounding of my heart when i see or talk to crushes or guys, it will beat like a speeding bullet, really really fast. just like a train i guess lol, what is this feeling?

the last thing that i do often is swear alot, i dont mean to do it but the words just come out. besides this i also tend to talk alot.

2007-08-09 01:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by cutie* 2 in Singles & Dating

His sisters are not throwing me a shower or even calling to see if there is anything they can do. One of his sisters hasn't even asked how much she owes us for his daughter's jr. bridesmaid dress. Also, his maternal grandmother won't come to my bridal shower, just because she is having issues with one of his sisters. She says she will try to come to the wedding. She lives very close to the wedding venue. She also sent HIM a wedding card and check saying "wedding gift". It wasn't for much, not for a wedding gift. Also, my name was not included any where. She put his name on it multiple places. She also wrote a note that was strange. Our wedding is over 2 months away from the time she sent this. Why would she send it now. I am getting frustrated, but more for my fiance. And now one of his cousins claims he can't get off of work to be in the wedding. It is at 6pm and we asked months and months prior to the wedding. He lives nearby. Am I being silly?

2007-08-09 01:30:39 · 18 answers · asked by reaganeileen 1 in Weddings

I find it really weird that so many people here advocate removing the ex out of your life, ignoring them, cutting them out entirely and forgetting their existence.

Maybe it is just me, and maybe I choose carefully, but I like to acknowledge who and what they were in that stage of my life, accept my past and the feelings I have or had, and count my blessings that I was able to share that with another.

I try to maintain ties/friendships with all my exes. They were great people and are still. In fact I think it more healthy to accept that things didn't work, regardless of your feelings, and try to compromise and build something new.

these people helped make you what you are.....why would you want to through them out in the trash and pretend they didn't exist? I think that simply hiding/masking/forgetting something that important is actually robbinig you of real acceptance and healing

doesn't apply to cheating/abusive relationships...what does the rest of the world think?

2007-08-09 01:29:07 · 14 answers · asked by someguy_in_halifax 3 in Singles & Dating

I love a guy who is hindu but I am muslim. It is against my religion to love him. He too doesnt love me. I dint propose him neither did he say that he doesnt love me but when someone teases us he doesnt like it by which i understood that he doesnt love me. But I cant live without him and love him very deeply. So what di I do?

2007-08-09 01:26:13 · 18 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

im in another country for 2 weeks with my family. i dont know anyone here. i'm also trying not to spend too much money. i'm really bored....whats there to do?

2007-08-09 01:18:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom seems to think that i always should be busy because she tells me to clean my room then take out the garbage while im cleaning my room then empty the dishwasher when i get back from the garbage. then she asks me why im not cleaning my room while im emptying the dish washer and when i try to tell her i get yelled at for talking back. help!

2007-08-09 01:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and his mate have fallen out and they've both asked me to come out this afternoon. I said i'd go out with both as long as there okay with one and other. his mate said that was fine but i never got to asking my boyfriend. I don't want them to go off in a mardy or fall out even more but i do want to go out with them both, i'm not sure on what to do?

2007-08-09 01:09:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it just the alcohol talking. Just wondering if people are more honest & have more guts to say what they mean when they are drunk or don't have a clue what they are saying? My husband always tells me how great I am & how glad he is we're together when he's drunk!!! It's actually kind of annoying because I just think he's saying it because he's drunk!!

2007-08-09 01:07:07 · 18 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 01:01:55 · 5 answers · asked by glenda w 4 in Friends

2007-08-09 00:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by nncywlndr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 00:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by your name here 3 in Friends

2007-08-09 00:46:10 · 6 answers · asked by FARAZ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We live in NJ, he is from CA. He hates it here. Says he's leaving with or without me ASAP. I can't just up and leave my job, family, etc. I can't afford to live in CA and he can't afford to provide for me. He won't spend any money, says he wants to keep cash for the move. He is just here squatting until he has enough money, and equity in the house (100% my downpymt), to afford to leave. He thinks I'm an elitist, materialistic, nasty jersey girl, and he says so (screams so) to my face. Do I have any legal rights here? This would be my 2nd divorce ..

2007-08-09 00:42:46 · 19 answers · asked by jrsygrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please answer i need to know b/c all the guys that are in my class like girls with big chests and skirts that show there asses.
thx xx

2007-08-09 00:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think sex is important.I have seen many doing it for lust or passion or for desire.But i didnt date a girl till now.Bcoz im having some opinions n thoughts about my dream girl.I care love her so much,she is my heart.If i love a girl she is my first n last i definetely marry her.So doing sex for lust n without love a waste n foolish thing.What do you say, girls wats your opinion.

2007-08-09 00:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 00:31:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, if you went over to a guy's place to have sex with him, didn't tell him this was your intent, you came on to him, but he did not sleep with you, he didn't turn you down, it just didn't lead to it. would you leave mad? if so how mad would you be?

2007-08-09 00:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating