Personaly i tend not to get fixated on one girl i like many kind of like being freinds with women but still have sex with them sort of like i meet a girl and i want to with her and share time with her you know kinda like hey i like you and i just want to hang around with you . I also am 100 % honest and upfront so no one gets hurt i always tell the girl who i am and how things work she can choose to come into my reality or not . Anyways whats your take ?
2007-08-09 02:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr taco - whats with being so pessimistic ? And i never said i just want sex i enjoy it as a bit of fun but i love just being with women in all ways , seyou mate .
2007-08-09 02:36:31 · update #1
Bagpuss - Thanks for your concern but no im not on drugs .
2007-08-09 02:39:11 · update #2
It sounds like a good system. Honest, open and upfront. So no one gets hurt. But do you think you migth ever want to settle down? It's not something that you HAVE to do, but maybe if you find that one that you just wanna stay with?
The best part of your system is the honesty tho. So girls know exactly what they're getting themselves into. That's definately a plus.
Personally, i've always justwanted to find someone who's right for me, so i'm not constantly shifting and changing to meet the standards of ten different people. It's confusing, to me but i understand that you have your system and as long as you're open. You have nothing to hide, so I guess it works.
Just keep your eyes open for that special someone. Maybe she's out there.
Good luck to you!
2007-08-09 04:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that girls are wasting their time with you. So long as you think this way, you'll never have a meaningful relationship. By the time you decide you want to be serious, all the best girls will be taken. No one with half a brain would waste their time with someone who does not take relationships seriously. Alas, if you are just looking for sex, you'll be all set... until your looks start to fail you. Then I guess you can always settle for a divorcee with three kids or something. In any case, you'll have a rough time because your past will essentially mean that you never learned how to maintain a serious relationship. Good luck with that!
2007-08-09 02:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, & you shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, & the Spirit against the flesh: & these are contrary the one to the other; so that you cannot do the things that you would. But if you be led of the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultry, fornication, uncleanness, (&) lasciviousness.... Those who do such things will die, since the wages of sin is death; & shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance; against such there is no law. & they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the afflictions & lusts. Also remember, HIV & Aids are still rampant in this world.
2007-08-09 02:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by A. victim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I think sex and friendship is a bad idea.
I tend to be a sceptical of any kind of relationship, I'm a bit of a cynic.
Still you have the right approach, upfront and honest about everything from the very beginning so good on ya mate.
2007-08-09 02:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tamzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are being honest and telling the ladies up front then I see no problem with it. When I dated I let the gentlemen know that I am dating others can you deal with that. Most agreed and appreciated my honesty.
2007-08-09 02:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is like a drug. It is all great for a while and then it is agony when it all comes crashing down.
I like the sound of your philosophy.
2007-08-09 02:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too often people base relationships on the wrong thing, so it doesn't work out for them. If your relationship is one dimensional then it'll fall apart if that one thing goes.
2007-08-09 02:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by B Mils 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to each his own. do what makes you happy. i personally like being in a committed relationship, it's very comforting and rewarding when two people are compatible. but i have many friends who are promiscuous and i have absolutely no issues with it as long as they aren't misleading people.
2007-08-09 02:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by go_on_and_smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i prefer to stick to a same gal at a time and sex is something after marriage. take care pal. :)
2007-08-09 02:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never been in one. hopefully the guy i meet will be as honest as you. XD
2007-08-09 02:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋