Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

My general Idea is a strong love is nothing but a disease!
I wish no one would be great on my mind!!! only a week guy fall in a deep love. I do believe in some thing else which is not as strong as love but more than a "like" I don't know the word!

2007-08-09 03:37:59 · 5 answers · asked by ahmad p 2 in Singles & Dating

They don't do blood tests or anything, so why do they make you wait?

2007-08-09 03:37:30 · 11 answers · asked by azrielle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 03:37:10 · 7 answers · asked by crip4life braa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Describe your perfect man!
What should he wear, how should he behave himself, fisical attributes, what can do it for you in a guy?

2007-08-09 03:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by zooz 2 in Singles & Dating

21 things that girls want guys to know------ 1. Sometimes things are hard to say... so be patient------ 2. Sometimes when we try to say what we mean, but its hard------ 3. Sometimes we want to be held tightly ------ 4. We would like you to answer your phone once in awhile------ 5. Size doesn't matter to most of us- its shallow------ 6. We care about you and the things you do- thats why we ask questions------ 7. we hate being left out of the loop------ 8. Sometimes learning something new thats kinda hard is fun... especially when your helping us learn it------ 9. We usually dont pretend your the strongest guy ever- we really think you are------ 10.Your our hero------ 11. We love to have your picture with us------ 12. The little things mean the most- like walking with us somewhere and talking on the phone for a little bit; it makes us feel special------ 13. We can't understand why your not interested in talking about the stuff we like------ 14. Some of us do not understand the significance of playing video games all the time------ 15. Why are your shows cool and ours dubbed as "stupid crap"? We cant understand that------ 16. We love it when your smiling------ 17. We hate it when you get upset------ 18. We know your going to look at other women... but why say, "she's hot" in front of us?------ 19.Sometimes we like to do things we hate with you because then those things are fun because your there- like cook or play a sport. ------ 20. Even we understand and watch the Superbowl- even if its the only game we acually pay attention to.------ 21. We don't really like it when you tease us or make fun of us just to get our attention, but if you do we get the point.

2007-08-09 03:36:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to try this online dating thing. I have posted a link to show you some pictures I am thinking about using http://photobucket.com/ put my user name in search my user name is Bill3192 you will see 5 pictures I am thinking posting please tell me what you think. Couple out side with a redsox shirt .

Also I have created a profile what do you think of this?
Well, about me I am 36 and live in Oakdale working Cromwell. I enjoy working around the house always seems like there is something to do inside or out. I just completed adding a bathroom downstairs in my house. When I am not working around the house, I am hanging out with friends at a cook out or just for a beer somewhere is great too, I also exercise 3 to 4 times a week and try running 5-7 miles per week as well. I am looking for a girl who is likes to have fun. It doesn’t matter whether we hang out around the house, go out to dinner with friends or swimming at the beach.

thanks

please be honest.

2007-08-09 03:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by Bill C 1 in Singles & Dating

Mom is upper 50s. I am oldest son 32,also son 29, daughter 22, son 10. Mom makes a little more than minimum wage and bascially lives check to check. Also receives child support. Youngest son has never had a bed to sleep on. Almost no rules in the household. Do to lack of sanitation I will no longer go to her home. No savings. Plays slot machines at least once per week, gets nails done, eats out alot, and drives a nice car than me. Maybe I am to practical and not emotional enough but this logically cannot continue. She lives in a emotional world and it seems does not think about the practical. Is always jealous of others yet has no energy to change her circumstances. No goals. No Hope. How can I talk to her? She is SO emotional that the slightest mention that she is making mistakes will trigger intense!! crying. I have tried to lead by example. I have tried to make little comments or suggestions. A this point I can either drop it or force her to a low point to understand???????????????

2007-08-09 03:32:54 · 5 answers · asked by newtomn01 1 in Family

well my GF who lived with her grandma since she was 2 now after her grandma died and she is now 17 she had to move down the street with her nieghbor. b4 all of this we were together for 6 months and we talked to eachother most of the days and after her grandma went into the hospital she didnt call me nearly as much and i let my emotions get the best of me because i wanted to always talk to her while she was there but she never wanted to so then i couldnt control my emotions and sed to her thet she didnt care all she wanted to do was hang out with the neighbor and not talk to me but ive appogized many times but she sed she doesnt think she can get over that and that upset her because i sed those things while her grandma was in the hospital and she broke up with me over the phone a couple days ago and now she wants to talk about things in person 2morro and it doesnt seem like she wants to fix this but we were sooo in love and idk whats going on what do u think will happen or nething

2007-08-09 03:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by Joe518 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 03:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-08-09 03:32:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 03:30:29 · 10 answers · asked by Bia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 03:29:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I assume that i would choose a date first. What is the average time that couples are engaged- 6, 9, 12 months?
Then whats next?

2007-08-09 03:29:05 · 21 answers · asked by bellesnail 4 in Weddings

Where i work, 3-4 days ago very accidently i and a girl from another department started smiling and saying Hi-Hi and exchanging emails and sending email to each other about Weather,Music,Movies and all that jazz. Nothing more.

She told me she lives with her boyfriend and her 8 years daughter which was completely fine by me. She is 26 and i am 28.
Here comes the happening. Yesterday in the 20th email (she from home, i from work) she asked me something that when i answered i never got any other email from her . Yes, once i answered that question, she did not send me Any other email. And today at work, everything between us was totally stopped, as like we would never even know each other. 100% Cut off. And all these got stopped after i answered her question. Now i tell you her question and what i answered and you please, tell me what you think, why everything stopped from her side after that.
Her question : Who do you live with ?
My answer : I am married and i live with my wife

2007-08-09 03:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by uighi s 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl that I have been talking to and texting for over 5 months she told me 2 days ago that she lost intrest in me b/c i never asked her on a date :( I still really like her and want to go on a date with her. she still texts me and came and saw me and work yesterday. but today I did not hear from her today. do you think she still likes me? what should I do? Do you think I should ask her on a date? I am think I am going to tell her something like this


That yI were scared and didn't want to have things awkwarder. But really wanted to go on a date. Then ask if you two could start out fresh with a date. If she says yes then give her a hug and thank her and if she says no Just give her a hug and I will not worry so much then. sound good?

I need help starting the convo I really dont know how to bring it up. How would you?

2007-08-09 03:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 03:25:51 · 21 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to love someone after 2 months? I was seeing this other guy for 4 yrs, and after we broke up about a month later, I started dating this other guy which is my new boyfriend. I knew that I loved my ex, but it almost seems like I have the same feelings for this new guy that I had for him. I never went through the stupid, butterflys in the tummy phase, with the new one.. the feelings were just there, and I was comfortable. Could I just be carrying over these feelings from one relationship to the next, or are they real? I am so confused..

2007-08-09 03:25:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, do you like it when women wear makeup or just look natural, with no makeup...including lipstick...Im a very natural girl, I've got good personal hygiene and I only wear mascara..that's it...Sometimes I don't wear mascara at all...I don't really wear perfume though..I wear like..victoria's secret PURE SEDUCTION lotion on certain areas, like behind my ears, and on my neck...I don't wear jewelry..well most of the time...If "i had to" I would just wear a necklace, but I don't wear earrings....Well, really, my question is that..I know that Im beautiful and i get lots of compliments from guys...But sometimes, I feel like If I wear makeup, I'll get more attention from guys...DO THEY miND IF a girl can't wear earrings and chooses not to wear makeup and strong perfume..I've got a beatiful smile..nice legs, nice mahogany skin (Im black) and nice dark medium length straight hair...Guys..just tell me the truth.. also want to know if there's something wrong with me..Im more attracted to guys

2007-08-09 03:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

?Why do you women get soo angry over the smallest things? Example: You say you want to go out to eat, and you show up and we are still sitting in our underwear. Now you know we can get together in less than a minute, but you storm out anyways. It gets kind of annoying and is alil childish.. Who agrees ?

2007-08-09 03:21:29 · 22 answers · asked by James C 1 in Singles & Dating

Love Touchstone Career


Love: The Tower

Touchstone: The Sun

Career: The Emperor

You're in the mood to lay it on the line your loved one today, and you don't care if it hurts, dear LESLEY. The Sun and the Tower are bringing out the darkest part of your character - your tendency to harbor grudges. An intransigent attitude on your part is threatening to leave indelible traces, which could end in an outright sulk. At work, you radiate confidence and capability all day long. Under the protection of the Sun and the Emperor, business discussions and agreements lead to definite success. Take advantage of the day’s positive influence to cement your position or expand your sphere of influence in this area of your life…

im having som problems with my hubby ...... he said things that hurt me to the bone i feel like i hate right now, i cant explain, it dosent bring me to tears but it makes me SOOOOOOO angry! i feel like leaving at least for a night!

2007-08-09 03:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get her to stop coming between me and my boyfriend, taking her out. she keeps talking about he is her man and to leave him alone and she wants to fight me.

2007-08-09 03:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by mc 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this terrible cold i got from my little brother and my sister is buisy (?) all day. My parents are at a bike rally and my brothers being babysat any ideas to keep me buisy? (?)

2007-08-09 03:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by livley_lived_919 1 in Friends

Basically, last year i was the most hated girl in school, and im really worried about this year. i have like 2 friends who really understand me and thats it. My 2 best friends betrayed me and so now they joined the popular side to go against me

2007-08-09 03:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by :-)_4_me!!!! 3 in Friends

ok this guy that i went out with a few time asked me out again but my feeling for him have sort of changed but he says his feelings for me will always be the same what do i do he wants an answer soon and its hard for me to tell him no cause i already broke his heart a few too many times please help me thanks

2007-08-09 03:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you felt guilty because you want to go out and had fun but he can't

2007-08-09 03:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by meister 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad used to beat my mum unconcious almost every night, sexually abuse my half sisters (they had a different dad) and kidnapped me. We managed to run away from him when I was 4 years old and haven't had any direct contact since. He now has 8 other children who are my brothers and sisters, and now that I am 22 I would really like to meet them. However I am so angry about what he has done to my family (my mum developed social phobia because of it all) I don't know if I could see him without smashing his face in with a baseball bat or something. I know the Christian thing to do would be to forgive, and I don't want to miss out on meeting my brothers and sisters.....but it's so hard! What would you do?

2007-08-09 03:15:55 · 7 answers · asked by josietheninja 2 in Family

I'm going through a major crisis in my head right now. What's the best way to ask my parents for a therapist without them knowing why I really need to go? I can't tell them the real reason, as I don't really know how I feel yet...

2007-08-09 03:15:16 · 19 answers · asked by D2oG 2 in Family

I'm leaving for basic training at Lackland, AFB, Texas in November.
I've been dating a girl for almost a year and a half. We've had some trust issues before, but who doesn't?
We have our ups and downs, but overall, we're happy.

I need advice on whether I should stay with her or not.
Oh yeah, she's a college student getting ready to start her 2nd year here in about a week. We're the same age, and I was at Marshall with her all last year. She's in a sorority (she likes the frat guys), and that's what has caused the majority of our trust issues.

Anyone have firsthand experience with this?
I've always heard that it's impossible to keep a girlfriend at home while you're in basic/tech school.


I NEED HELP!!!

Thanks.

2007-08-09 03:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by jdotson200 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought my fiance and I got along great. We have been together for over 6 years. Last night for no reason he went off on me and (he was drinking) told me I was a fat ***** (I am 5'8 and this is heaviest I have ever been at about 155 lbs) and that he didn't like me and on and on he went. To the point I was in tears. I am absolutly depressed this morning and shocked that he would have ever done this. What should I do? This has never happened before in 6 years and I am baffled. He said he didn't want to marry a fat ***** and other things.

Then this morning he acts as if nothing is wrong and he doesn't remember.

I am beyond myself right now and can not think straight at work.

2007-08-09 03:11:15 · 30 answers · asked by aintlifegrand 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how about other body areas, like hairy legs or hairy Armpit

2007-08-09 03:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating