2007-08-09 03:30:29 · 10 answers · asked by Bia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cant. Just let time heal its wound. Its nothing you can say or do. Just relax and let time take away the pain and hurt
2007-08-09 03:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Change things around you- get some new surroundings.
If you move to a different area, get a new job, or just start doing different things at new places, you'll begin creating new memories that don't include this event.
It's a 'clean slate' kind of thing. Give your emotions a fresh start in a new arena, and the past will begin to move further away from your new future.
2007-08-09 03:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are going to experience the usual grief (and perhaps guilt) feelings that you would if he were not your 'ex'.
The fact that he committed suicide makes it that much harder for everyone who knew him.
And being his 'ex' puts you in a sort of limbo land in regard to how others see you I would imagine.
All these issues suggest to me that you should consider getting some grief counseling.
2007-08-09 03:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From experience you will never get over it....You just have to learn to deal with it. A good Support group and not sheltering yourself from the thoughts of the past or things that represented the bond you and your ex had! Also a good place is in your religion or somewhere you can talk and get things off your chest! I spent alot of time sitting in my backyard talking to myself and crying! Hope all goes well for you just remember it wasnt your fault that is one area i struggled!
2007-08-09 03:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by curious4 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss. Time will help, but you might try grief counseling. Being with others who've lost loved ones can assist you in processing this tragedy. Do not find blame in yourself, this was person who needed professional help and sadly, didn't receive it. Please seek out a group for your own well-being.
2007-08-09 03:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Forgot How 2 Show Him 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You go through the pain of loseing someone like you do if it is a family member and then you move on with your life. That sounds hard but that is what we all do.
2007-08-09 03:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by rani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, time, time.
If you are feeling very emotional, I HIGHLY suggest seeing a psychological counselor (these are not people who prescribe drugs; they just talk). They are great at helping people sort out complex thoughts and feelings, and this will probably speed your healing process.
2007-08-09 03:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking one day at a time and asking God to give you strength to see you through this grieving process. Try not to blame yourself with all of the "if onlys", such as...if only I would have been there, etc.
Time heals all wounds and it will take time. I'm so sorry for your loss, but please trust in the Lord to help you and he will. God bless.
2007-08-09 03:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this really, I'm going through a divorce and it sucks after 30 years yea it sucks, but if he did this, I would hurt inside, but this would be this persons decision to take their life, and it was wrong to do, but they are no longer in pain. R.I.P.
2007-08-09 03:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've just suffered the same thing, although she wasn't my ex....she was still living with me.
Time, time, and more time...........it's an empty, hollow feeling that they're not here anymore..........I don't know if it ever goes away.
2007-08-09 03:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋