this girl that I have been talking to and texting for over 5 months she told me 2 days ago that she lost intrest in me b/c i never asked her on a date :( I still really like her and want to go on a date with her. she still texts me and came and saw me and work yesterday. but today I did not hear from her today. do you think she still likes me? what should I do? Do you think I should ask her on a date? I am think I am going to tell her something like this
That yI were scared and didn't want to have things awkwarder. But really wanted to go on a date. Then ask if you two could start out fresh with a date. If she says yes then give her a hug and thank her and if she says no Just give her a hug and I will not worry so much then. sound good?
I need help starting the convo I really dont know how to bring it up. How would you?
2007-08-09 03:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I do it thur text b/c I dont really know how to see her face to face without asking her on a date
2007-08-09 04:08:27 · update #1
What you typed sounds perfect =)
And if you need to start just start with something like 'Hey I need to talk to you about something' and then use what you typed. I hope everthing turns out great. Good luck! =D
2007-08-09 03:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Charlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's a bit tricky. what i think is that start by being open to her. tell her how you really feel about her. us girls always like it when guys are honest. the fact that she came to see u at work after telling you that she had lost interest shows that she is still a bit interested. she didn't call or text today because she is fed up with only being the one to start a conversation with you. it seems as if you always wait for her to go for the first move. women don't like to be the ones running after men it makes us look cheap and she doesn't want to look that way. be in the driver's seat from now on. ask her out for a date and make sure it doesn't give the impression that you are doing this just because she had said about it. show her that you mean every thing you say and do.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
go get her
2007-08-09 10:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by zanele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO really like her! I would want to hear something like this.(Do this face to face, NOT TEXTING HER) (Hold her hands in yours and say) " __________, I really enjoy talking to you and would love to continue at a more personal level. Can I have the pleasure of taking you out to dinner? "
(By this time hopefully you know at least one of her favorite restaurants, if not, take her to at LEAST a 4 star restaurant, put preferably a 5 Star one). When you pick her up, go to the door with a bouquet of her favorite flowers, if you don't know what her favorite flowers are then ROSES are great. Get a dozen of mixed yellow and red roses, then tell her that yellow means friendship and you appreciate her friendship over the past 5 months, and that the red roses signify love and that you are looking forward to your relationship progressing! GOOD LUCK!!! I THINK THIS WILL WORK OUT FOR YOU!!!
2007-08-09 10:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by atira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Ask Her Out. She's Just Playing Hard To Get. If She Didnt Like You She Wouldnt Text/See You.
Just Act Casual, Let It Happen..
2007-08-09 10:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by andy.harrison831@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Hey _____. I have been thinking about what you said the other day-- that you lost interest because I hadn't asked you out. That made me sad because I really like you. I wanted to ask you out, but I was afraid that you would say no... I hope it's not too late to ask you now." Then go about with the hugging and whatnot.
2007-08-09 10:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As her whats she doin on a specific day, then tell her to be ready at a specific time, becausse y'all are going out. ex. What are you doin this Saturday? she says no plans yet. Good, well be ready at 7pm so we can go out to eat and see a movie
2007-08-09 10:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you want to ask her on a date try to be romantic.ladies love romantic men.text message her telling her to go to this nice resturant and look for you.Then before you get there stop by and buy her some flowers.When she gets in the resturant give her the flowers with a note saying i love you!!!!!!good luck!
2007-08-09 10:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the first order of business is a sincere apology. You blew it and the first step to recovering is to admit it.
Then ask her on a nice date. You pay. Something nice.
2007-08-09 10:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋