Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

how would like da girl of ur dreams to be like?? n start wid da personality first plz!!

2007-08-06 23:57:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

eg; Turning the lights out, shutters down, curtains drawn
blinds down, Closing the eyes.

2007-08-06 23:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by pvc462001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 10yr old step daughter and husband make me feel like an evil stepmom! I get no respect from either of them. My husband is wanting to be "Mr. Fun" because she doesn't have it as easy at her moms. But I need some ground rules at our house too. Help before I run away from home! Thanks...

2007-08-06 23:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by Chanel P 2 in Family

I just wrote this email to an ex who im still in contact with everyday. We went out for 2 months and he finished with me 2 months ago. Hes said for various reasons but he has also said how quiet i am. Hes just strated seeing someone else. I sent him the following email this morning and he hasnt responded. I know i said on it for him not to respond but i was hoping he would read between the line. I will paste the email below:-

2007-08-06 23:45:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 23:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by kim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife is my life & my best friend....BUt im her worst enemy and her worst friend we have been married for 4 years and i t has been bad lately talk about divorce all the time yelling everyday .... i dont want a divorce but i guess im waiting to see if it can get better ..my down fall are being on the computer alot and yes when i do talk to her i always say i love you i try to kiss her and she says no there is no more passion i feel as she hates me when i dont feel loved by her i look at porn at times but not all the time which is wrong i guess mabey i should look at her playboy magazines ....so she gets pissed i look at it as a live playboy mag ...anyway im wrong for that but she goes to bars and dances with men and her excuss is she likes to dance well at least my porn is not real rubbing up against me any way she went to vegas with her hoochie sister & cousins for 4 days and she said what happends in vegas stays in vegas.....wtf...what do i do?

2007-08-06 23:40:46 · 10 answers · asked by man not loved anymore 2 in Singles & Dating

above the shoulders position and it started making loud farting noises, i made him stop, why'd it do that? it was funny

2007-08-06 23:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in work and the day is dragging. I sit facing the boss and this week there are two bosses by her. I need a fiendishly clever and convincing way to escape this building and speak to my GF who broke up with me last night. I must win her back and I really cant be a***d with work today. Help!

2007-08-06 23:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by Buffhead 2 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if any houwewife here in this forum who have this kind of experinced? I am married to my husband 5 years ago and blessed with a kid 4 yo, My hubby is15 yo older than me. Our sex life is fantastic and most satisfying. We had done a lot of experiements to enhances or add spices to our sex life.

Lately, my husband had arranged a date for me and his male friend. I was surprised when my hubby told me to be prepared and meet his friend in a resort as he followed later because he had to fix his car and other thing. His friend has firm body in his late 20's and good looking I can not believed this guy I meet is my husband's buddy in the golf association. As we started to take our dinner, my cell rangs, it was my hubby he can not come as his car was not completed to fix.. He talk to his friend, the guy I was with, to take me home before the day break.
Then, things had happened to us both, What a big deal my husband made I can not regret but to thank him and loved him more

2007-08-06 23:34:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey i want 2 change groups @ school but i dont no how 2 make friends also i think sum of the ppl in the other group think im a freak and we have school uniform so maybe its HOW i wear it??? i dunno i dont think it has much 2 do wit looks. b4 u ask, no im not tryin 2 b popular but i wanna no how 2 make friends wit the other group.

2007-08-06 23:31:58 · 3 answers · asked by .:skylar:. 1 in Friends

It's been a major discussion among friends regarding sex before marriage. Some of them are of the view that with the current trend of sex being one of the major cause of marriage break ups, the two parties (male and female) show have sex as a way of knowing each other first before marriage. This will help them to deal with any reservations or work on problems that might crop up because of sex. The others are also saying no way there shouldn't be any sex before marriage, whatever the problem will be what you were destined to get so be satisfied with each other. What do you also think? Shouldn't him/her be tested before marriage?

2007-08-06 23:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Raymond D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question a little while ago, regarding my girlfriend. The situation is as follows:

Recently my girlfriend found out her mum is extrmely ill and may not make it, at first i was with her everyday supporting her picking her up from the hospital and generally trying to be there for her in anyway that i could.... Now the reality of it is sinking in with her...

I have not seen her for 3 weeks now, her last words to me were please dont have any expectations of me right now? which is fine i care for her and am happy to do whatever i can ...

I have been ringing her, she wont answer the phone to me i text her she doesnt reply for days...

I understand that she is in a really bad place but it is quite disturbing for me as she is out drinking with her mates ALL weekend ...

I geniunely care about her but its doing my head in what the hell am i to do ??? Just wait, call it a day

has anyone been through similar what did u do ??

i am at a loss, i dont want to lose her

2007-08-06 23:31:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-06 23:31:14 · 14 answers · asked by stranger 7 in Marriage & Divorce

If you know he cares...

2007-08-06 23:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by airforceflyer 1 in Singles & Dating

If some guy came up to you and complemented you on your cleavage and/or butt?

2007-08-06 23:29:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, for the past 2 nights I have woken up in the middle of the night soaked in sweat in my neck and shoulder area. I'm scared because it's not even hot and I stay up a little longer cuz I'm freaked out and I'm back to normal. My shirt looks like i put water on it and i have to change it. By the way, I'm a girl, 17, a got a few extra pounds, but not obses or have health problems or anything, at least i think so . Please help me, I'm really scared.

2007-08-06 23:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 23:25:09 · 23 answers · asked by akhim28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really love my boyfriend, we've been together for a while.. and I'm starting to become unhappy to the extream. Just sometimes I wish he was a sweetheart ,nice, and kind to me. I grew up with a sweet/nice/kind father & mother and I'm just use to it... I feel unhappy in the hands of someone not sweet and kind to me. I dont know how to explain it. Should I look for another person or can a guy really be nice for you.

2007-08-06 23:23:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 23:23:20 · 17 answers · asked by vimlesh s 1 in Friends

I have been dating this guy who is super rad! at least I thought he was. weve been together for about 5 months , we instantly felt a strong bond and we have really had soo much fun together , he makes me smile and I get the feeling that Im falling in love but recently about the 5 month mark he's been changing... he is not the same , he gets angry for no reason at all he just seems irritated all the time and we went to a party and got drunk together we had a little argument and he hit me!!, the next day he appologized, and now he is super jealous of my guy friends he even wants me to ask him for permission now when I go out. should i dump him ?

2007-08-06 23:19:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like on friends.

2007-08-06 23:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 23:13:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

where are all those guys that are cute but also nice that don't want just sex? or the ones that have the personality which matches the appearance?

2007-08-06 23:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by Bam-Chika-WahWah 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is this girl that I was really close with, best friends, for the past 3 years. This year we havn't had any classes together and we've both gone in different directions. I guess we've just grown apart, or at least that's what I feel. I think she's changed, and she probably thinks that I have too. The trouble is, she's bitter. She's being quite rude (talking to my other friends about how she's angry with me etc) We are both a part of a small group of close friends, so we see each other alot still. I can ignore it, but you know, sometimes your nerve gets tested! I'm getting to the point where I don't say much to her. It's not that I ignore her, I just don't ever initiate the conversation anymore. I'm just extremely annoyed... She says I'm stressed... she has no idea! I am far from stressed. She is the one with problems. It's not like we can stop seeing each other. Does anyone have any advice?

2007-08-06 23:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Curious Me 3 in Friends

seduction site says, women never sexually attracted to a nice guy (nondominant, predictable etc).
Sometimes they feel affection (not attraction) for wealthy man but when find chance they often cheat him & make relation with other man.
I think, frequent polygamy women have more sexual desire that they even can feel attracted to nice guys. If I marry a polygamy woman, will not the marriage be stable as most men can't accept them as a wife?

2007-08-06 22:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousins don't talk to me much because they both have bf's. I always joke around and talk about fun stuff but they don't respond online or anything. And when I go look at their log it always says they posted on their bf's profile. The bf's talk about stupid **** like "you are the coolest person ever I wish I can be just like you." "your the meany why don't you stop being mean." On aim all they say to me is "lol" and never try to start a conversation. I find this stupid because I'm family and I make sense but the bf's are so stupid saying meaningless things.

2007-08-06 22:44:34 · 8 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

My stepson is 13 & lives with us. When he was 11 his mother phoned us out of the blue after denying us contact for 7 years to tell us she no longer wanted him (She alsomade this clear to him) We jumped at the chance & have spent 2 very difficult years helping him to settle in. She hasn't seen him since Oct 2 years ago when she had him for 2 days & let him down that Christmas after promising him he could stay with her the week. She also promised him PS2 etc but it never materialised. She doesn't send him Birthday cards or Christmas Cards & her phone calls to him are sporadic. She won't call for months then we'll have a spate of her calling almost everyday during which she makes him feel guilty about everything. Afterwards he is withdrawn, quiet & distressed. We've told him if he doesn't want to talk to her he doesn't have to but she seems to have some hold over him & seems scared of upsetting her. We've told him we'll support & protect him whatever he chooses. But should we make the dec

2007-08-06 22:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by Muddyblackcat 1 in Family

i bullied this weaker person who looked up to me and some big fat kid got up on the bus and insulted me and tried to protect this other kid, why did he do that?

2007-08-06 22:24:07 · 14 answers · asked by glfd 1 in Friends

I apologize for the unorganized mess I'm about to type
Its a long story, People left, people came, people hated, people growed. After 5 years in the same group of friends, I moved and left. I occasionally hang out with them, since its not too far. This is my problem. After all these years, we enjoy the company, but thats it.
What I mean is that if any of us left the group, we would not miss them for more than a day. I really want a reason, and I can't really pinpoint the problem:We bust each others nuts, I've been made fun of, others have too.

I don't understand why. What sparks in others.
Our group is one giant guy-fest FYI.
Is it because were too immature, or is it because we just haven't done anything to gain trust. I wouldn't have guessed the 2nd, because I have tried to gain that.

I guess were just too young to actually have this wonderful thing called friendship, and to move on from this stupid thing called company? Or should I believe real friendship doesn't exist for a teen

2007-08-06 22:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend was in the Philippines last October. (Her mother is filipina and her father is a white American. )When she was talking to this boy- her aunt saw them talking. She said the boy kept looking down, he had his head bowed, & he couldn't look her in the eye while he was talking to my friend. The aunt said this meant he was attracted to her & he was too shy. The aunt said she saw him talk to Nika (another girl boarding in his house- she's a student at the campus of the school) & he wasn't shy when talking to Nika and he didn't bow his head. But someone else said he was only shy around my friend because she is American & the boy would have been shy around any American girl or even an American guy. Who is more right? My friend said while he was talking to her when they were sitting on the bench (there were flowers in the nearby bush) "You look really beautiful if you put flowers in your hair."

2007-08-06 22:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating