I wonder if any houwewife here in this forum who have this kind of experinced? I am married to my husband 5 years ago and blessed with a kid 4 yo, My hubby is15 yo older than me. Our sex life is fantastic and most satisfying. We had done a lot of experiements to enhances or add spices to our sex life.
Lately, my husband had arranged a date for me and his male friend. I was surprised when my hubby told me to be prepared and meet his friend in a resort as he followed later because he had to fix his car and other thing. His friend has firm body in his late 20's and good looking I can not believed this guy I meet is my husband's buddy in the golf association. As we started to take our dinner, my cell rangs, it was my hubby he can not come as his car was not completed to fix.. He talk to his friend, the guy I was with, to take me home before the day break.
Then, things had happened to us both, What a big deal my husband made I can not regret but to thank him and loved him more
2007-08-06 23:34:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a lot of couples do that and enjoy it some swing some are in a cuckold relationship where the wife can have sex with anyone she wants but the husband cant
2007-08-07 02:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong in the questions you ask as a matter of fact, those who does it right had done it wrong before otherwise they would not know the consequences.
Basically this depends on how you & your hubby look at matters or shall i say open to swingers or whatever you define it. Everyone has their own fantasies, however, it should be consented prior to any misinterpretations as it may lead to many problems in future.
i do not deny that as a guy like me, i do have such fantasy where my wife with another known woman & it was a 3some.. however, of course with due respect, i personally brought up the subject to her as i wanted to share my thoughts but obviously the answer is no.
Even if she would have said yes, i do not think it is a wise idea to be in such situation & therefore, it remains just a fantasy of mine & i am happy with my decision & hers as well.
in your case, perhaps if your husband is OK with it & it is alright for you, you shouldn't be questioning & answering yourself again?
I believe you should be able to evaluate yourself taking into consideration if there are any unforeseeable family issues relating to this subject.
Hope you didn't get me wrong, the answer lies on you, your hubby, family & the other party.
2007-08-07 00:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by TSj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, its not normal! I will have to agree with many that is the most strangest and weirdest thing I have ever heard of.
Then I read your letter again. He's 15yrs older than you? Your marriage is great? Then he sets you up with another man to possibly have sexual relationship with??????????????????
Is your husband sick? I mean, Is he expecting to die from cancer or something? Terminal illness?
I have the feeling that he is trying to make sure that you are going to be taken care of.
EDIT: on the other hand..... he could be a closet swinger. Or it could be like that movie where the guy paid $1 million to a man to sleep with his wife.... Maybe this younger guy has a thing for you and your husband has some hidden camera to see what happens......... how much $$ did he get?
2007-08-07 00:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Onomatopoeia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From reading your prior questions it appears that your husband wants you both to be in the swinging lifestyle. If this is not something you are up for, you best let him know it now and save a lot of time later.
The only other conclusion that I can come up with is that with your large age difference, your hubby is afraid that his declining sexual abilities will result in him losing you totally eventually, and he is willing to sacrifice his dignity to make you happy.
2007-08-07 02:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very funny. you have raised the problem and now you are hunting for a solution. Firstly you should have not aroused her in that manner to such an extent on the phone, you could have controlled your feelings and discussed something else. Now that she is got into the habbit to discuss the same manner it will be wrong if you tell her to stop talking on the subject. Yes It can happen that you arouse her tosuch and extent and she may divert herself somewhere else for satisfaction. The most important thing in such a relation which will be transformed into marriage is trust, if trust is not there the relation is not a healthy one. try to build up more trust. Sex can be enjoyed after the marriage also. It is wrong if you doubt on her before marriage. Anyway whatever it is you have to study her well before marriage
2016-05-20 04:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your sex life is so great he thought he would share you with his friend. He was bragging and wanted to prove it. It means he is not afraid of you leaving him for anyone else. He must be confident in what he does sexually because otherwise he would not have set you up with a friend. A stranger would be risky because then if the stranger was better than him you might want to see that stranger again. He would know if you saw his friend again.
He might want that threesome but he is giving you something first. Be prepared for another woman entering your bedroom soon.
It's only fair...
2007-08-07 00:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband let me see another man, the other man fed me lies of love. I fell in love, but he had agenda. He went nuts, beat me, betrayed, defamed, ruined my life, suicide attempt and the husband of 20 yrs did not care.....slams me with a divorce as ex b/f threatens to kill me...all i did was love and trust...i am highly educated, an intelligent stupid woman, did web cam 7 years, successful b/c i was genuine. I tired hard my whole life and i have failed all at once and I am at the end of my rope. This is a fact. We all saw the writng on the wall. You won
2007-08-07 00:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by missu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a real question about todays society. It's strange the things that some people think are normal and what others are shocked by. Oh well if you don't mind and he don't mind then go forth little one (but always have your wits about you and be sure that every one understands when you say NO, you mean it!)
2007-08-07 01:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nati 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband wants him too! It's not normal for a husband to set you up with a mate and then be happy about the outcome.
2007-08-06 23:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by mezzle1963 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so you all were going to have a 3some and he didnt make it, so basicly you cheated on him... .nice! you should have at least loved him and respected your husband enough to not do it and save it for later... you should have just helped that dude find some young hotty and then held the camera for him... that would have been ok,.... but now your just a cheater!
2007-08-06 23:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by mcheshster27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋