Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

2007-08-06 15:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm a man, with normal manly weeknesses.Normal as they come, love my daughter more then life. I am NOT a pervert, I have only had sex with 2 women in my entire life, married to my daughter's mom for 22 years. I had some old porn DVDs in my dresser from when my wife was gone on business for 6 months. I got desperate, ordered some porn of the web and took care of certain things myself. Much more noble then cheating I would think. Well, the wife returned home and the porn was forgotten.

Fast forwarding, I ntoiced my daughter being very short and easily angry with me off an on, then we had a minor fall our of sorts and she blew up at me. Called me a pig and a dirty man. Then she finally told me she found my porn and "could never think the same of me again."

I'm totally devastated by this.I don't want my daughter to think of me this way. What can, or should I do? I was thinking to have my wife talk to her, since she knows about the porn. She is not thrilled with it, but was ok

2007-08-06 15:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband was recently arrested and had to agree to rehab for his dependency issues and he wanted it kept from his family but it was out of control and financially i needed help. First he begged me not to say anything but as the charges started to pile up as well as the bills i was left with little choies. Now he is so mad at me he is contemplating divorce. My family as well as his said that i did the right thing but i dont know should i have kept my mouth shut like he wanted? i helped more than he knows i was the one who got him into rehab and out of jail and he has no idea but he does not even want to hear waht i have to say. he has little remorse for how he has hurt me and his family and is blaming the whole thing on me. Was i wrong? i never meant to betray him i needed help adn had no idea what to do.

2007-08-06 15:27:03 · 20 answers · asked by kayshlee72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for over 16yrs and been married for 1yr and paln on having HUGE church wedding!

2007-08-06 15:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Weddings

This is crazy. My husband had (what I think was a very minor affair) with a mutual married friend. Needless to say, we're no longer friends with this couple. This was over a year ago. I just found out recently that she and her husband are pregnant. I am a career girl and want to be sure this marriage can survive before bringing a child into this world, so we are waiting for those reasons...but, I'm feeling older and older. Then, I found out my ex from YEARS ago (who I had some serious history--an abortion--with) got a girl pregnant and married her. We are all now in our 30s, so not babies ourselves.

Why do I care about what happens in the lives of these other people who have hurt me in the past? I want to live a good and happy life and this feels so bad.

Why do I feel like I have to one-up people who have wronged me? I think it's too much at one time coming back to haunt me. Why can't I just deal with my own life and not care about these losers?!?!?

Sorry so long..

2007-08-06 15:23:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because I am, and i'm serious I LOVE HER!!

2007-08-06 15:18:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me it isn't because of the Hay and the Animals. I can't stand that band.

2007-08-06 15:18:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,
i started daiting one of my guy friends about a year ago and since then we made up and now were best friends again and a couple days ago, he came over and he said that he's never kissed a girl before and he and he's gf are getting serious and he was wondering if i could help him because my boyfriend said i was a great kisser and we started kissing and it got beyound "teaching" and know i have know idea what to do about he's gf and my bf
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-06 15:16:43 · 4 answers · asked by lacy 1 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl, and I'm not gonna lie. I have better arms than most guys, and I'm really built. I wrestle and play guys hockey.
I'm not like really tomboy-ish or anything, i just do a lot of physical stuff.
Would that turn you off?

2007-08-06 15:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by J.D.D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 15:13:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-06 15:12:40 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to find info on this doc. Anything would be helpful. thanks.

2007-08-06 15:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 23 and never been on a date or had a girlfriend since i was 18. and bit of loner . i really get nervous when i about to ask a girl out cause i scared i will
stutter and they will laugh at me and say no. how i overcome this?

2007-08-06 15:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by truedragon1984 1 in Singles & Dating

To indroduce my daughter to my new boyfriend? She's 3.

2007-08-06 15:08:44 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

alright so my good friend [allie] has a boyfriend [mitch] and ever since she cheated on him and they broke up and then hhe went back out with her they havnt been so good and they fight alot. i was over at his house today with some people and he called her and broke up with her. and im pretty sure shes mad about it. [but she did cheat on him] when i went home i talked to her about it and he texted me "would you have done stuff with me if allie didnt exsist" i dont know what to reply cause if i say yes allie might find out and get mad but i dont want to reject him because i dont know what to say

2007-08-06 15:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy i think likes me. my friend says he flirts with me all the time. and he does. he is a junior and im a freshman. ive known him for 5 years. near the beginning of the month we started to become closer. i never talked to him those 5 years. but then to this swimeet i had (im on the swimteam and so is he he is also a lifeguard and that is how i know him) and we invited a friend and then my crushes cousin asked her out. so this gave me and my crush something to talk about. we always went to different schools and we still do. he is starting school tomorrow and i start friday. he has a myspace and i just got one. within the next few days im gonna update it and stuff. then im goin to invite him to be my friend, because i want us to stay in touch. do u think he'll like this ? i cant wait till next summer to talk to him. i cant stop thinkin about him. what should i do ?

2007-08-06 15:05:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 15:03:14 · 37 answers · asked by FFP 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 15:02:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf just broke up wit me last week. now he asked me "since were like broken up, do you like someone else?"...he knows i still like him..but why does he care if i like sumone else??..

2007-08-06 15:02:36 · 22 answers · asked by eiurjbsdhbjdk 2 in Singles & Dating

its not that he wants to but stuff always comes up and im sure of it he doesnt make things up......my bday is coming up should i make plans without him or should i involve him in my plans???

2007-08-06 15:00:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ho0Ch 1 in Singles & Dating

Physically change their own brakes on their car and do other maintenance istead of doing it for them or letting them take it to the local shop?
I did it to my drama queen princess when she got her own car 4 yrs ago and realized it isn't all that hard after all...and she saves tons of money and if she does take it to amechanic she doesn't feel stupid or get taken advantage of...like this one place that told her she needed a whole front end done when all she wanted was a hub for her 4 wheel drive.
Also how many "girls" do their own stuff?

2007-08-06 14:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

any suggestions for finding help and resources for this addiction

2007-08-06 14:51:37 · 6 answers · asked by shelischubry 1 in Family

it has been months now and i still feel withdrawn from my boyfriend. he tells me to be patient and that he will eventually heal. he claims that he responds this way to me b/c i wanted to do a temporary job move 3 hrs away. says he couldn't imagine being away from me and felt hurt so to prevent himself from being hurt he began to shut down. problem is...i am no longer leaving and it has been months and he is still the same...getting worse actually. i cry now when i lay next to him b/c of how withdrawn he is...is this apart of the normal ups and downs of a relationship or is it really over

2007-08-06 14:50:29 · 15 answers · asked by Divine_10 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 14:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by bahaiking 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of many years left me for a guy at her work last year. I divorced her very fast as she didn't want to go to marriage counceling or anything she just wanted her new lover. I talked to her last week as we share our children together. I told her how I'm putting my life back together and she said "Your putting your life back together what about my life?" I almost fell off my chair! She bankrupted us from gambling 3 years ago and I had excellent credit and now she is blaming me!!! I somewhat feel blessed that she is out of my life now so I can find a wonderfulk women who will love me and I will love her. Was my thinking right about her statement?Is she in some kind of denial? I also found out that she has written tons of bad checks.

2007-08-06 14:43:09 · 15 answers · asked by David r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 14:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by Wrong number 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate this kid..he always acts like hes the best at racing, videogames, airsoft, everything he even put me in a headlock and lays his hands on everyone! Im 15 but only 5 foot hes like 5 foot 6 and buff as heck and hes the same age but size dont matter but he says "Size is what makes you a man". Hes a compulsive (if thats how you spell it) liar. He says he mixes chemicals together and blows up cars at his brothers house and he has all these connections with celebs. He says that he is a blackbelt, streetfighter and kickboxer. He says his uncle has 20 lambos...now celebs dont even have that many...thats a giant lie. He always picks on other kids and someone has to teach him a lesson. Im not talking physically but if it comes to the point where me laying my hands on him to protect someone else then im gunna end up beating the crap out of that kid...He even beat up a 9 year old when he was 14 i asked him why he did it and he said its because he wanted to gain respect.

2007-08-06 14:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by Ace 2 in Friends

2007-08-06 14:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by tomasjustiniano 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am always embarassed to call people on their cell, scared that they might be really busy or something. I like calling someone at home better.. Does anyone else feel that way?

2007-08-06 14:38:57 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ B ♥ 4 in Friends

I have wished him dead so many times. Until I was 3 years old I was the baby. Noone ever knew and they still don't that I wish he had never been born. I already have two older brothers. I like them and we get along. My BF and I were talking today and she was talking about her brother who is 15 years older than her! He buys her things and takes her on trips. I was telling her I how much I hated my little brother and how I wish I could trade my brother for hers. Then she changed the subject and started talking about her cousin that had to SEE her brother on a slab in the morgue. One thing led to another before she told me I was a horrible person. She left mad and went home. Then she called me this evening and told me I was evil for saying those things. I got mad and hung up on her.
I really felt that I just needed to vent to my best friend without her judging me. Why can't I just express my feelings without someone judging me? What I feel is how I feel and I can't really help it. .

2007-08-06 14:38:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family