Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

im 15 turning 16 and ive had alot of missed oppuratunities with girls so far in my life and i always regret them and i think im to scared to kiss a girl are engage in sexual activity of any sort because i was with this chick and i was undoeing her pants and everything cause i didnt feel right and im not gay im just scared so what should i do?

2007-08-06 17:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by nathan o 1 in Singles & Dating

Mr A has a g/f Miss B who he doesn't love (but owes £20,000to), and also is seeing Mrs C, a married woman, who he does love, but who is not separated from her hubby.
Miss B inherits £200,000.

Question: Would you chose money or love?

2007-08-06 17:11:49 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's our 4th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY tomorrow. We're both in our mid-twenties. We're having a really simple outing together, and just spending quality time together. So, what can I buy my husband for $40 or under besides a card?

I'm tight on budget because I'm not working right now. Plus, it enhances creativity this way. Any ideas will be gratefully appreciated. Thank you. :)

2007-08-06 17:11:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why do we spend so much time on here asking and answering questions when we could be spending time with our hubbys and wives (if we have them)? That being asked, I'm going upstairs to cuddle with my hubby while watching wrestling....HEY...maybe that's why....cause he's watching wrestling....oh well....cuddling is cuddling!! Good night everyone! Thanks for your answers on my other questions....helping lots!

2007-08-06 17:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 17:09:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is this 25 year old guy I attend school with, who has a two year old daughter who is raising her alone (the mom is in a whole different state). I'm 19 no kids, but I really like him...ALOT. The problem is I have a 21 year old boyfriend who has recently been working my nerves, it's like everything he does seems so immature to me now, and I'm not sure how to tell him that he needs to do some changes or me and him can't be together anymore. Plus i'm already falling hard for mister 25 over here. What should I do? I should I play it out or move on?

2007-08-06 17:08:43 · 3 answers · asked by PrincessB 2 in Singles & Dating

It's our 4th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY tomorrow. We're both in our mid-twenties. We're having a really simple outing together, and just spending quality time together. So, what can I buy my husband for $40 or under besides a card?

I'm tight on budget because I'm not working right now. Plus, it enhances creativity this way. Any ideas will be gratefully appreciated. Thank you. :)

2007-08-06 17:07:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you break up with a girl that you really don't have feelings for anymore but you think she's IN LOVE with you? I want to break up with her because i don't think she's really my type and since she's my best friend's ex, i think she's just going out with me just to get him jealous. I want to break up with her but just not to hurt her, i'm not gonna say straight of the bat " Your cut!", i'm not that kind of guy. Answers plz and thanks.

2007-08-06 17:06:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm kind of new to Answers. But, I was just wondering if any of you could come up with a nickname for my sister. Her name's Kirsten, and she's 14. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-06 17:05:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When We First Met I Did'nt Have Much, I Was Down On Luck But She Stuck Around. We Went Into A Mall One Day And She Wanted To Go Into A Store. She Had Been Telling Me About All These Guys Who Had been Spending All This Money On Her And Buying Her All These Nice Things I Felt Embarrassed To Go In So I Told Her I Would Wait Outside. She Began Insulting Me Saying Your A Loser I Should Not Have Talked To You You're Stupid And All These Things. Over The Months This Continued. But Instead Of Leaving I Tried To Understand Her. Since Then We Got Married And We Have Come Far...But The Insults Continue...Now I Even Do It, And I Was Never This Type Of Person. I Know Some Might Say Why Did You Get Married In The First Place......Well I Love Her....She Is A Good Woman...She Just Says Things That Sink Deep Into Your Heart....I Still Have'nt Forgotten Things She Said Six Years Ago!. But Im Wondering What To Do Now..Because Im Getting Older And She Still Wants To Do These Things...I Need Help!!!!

2007-08-06 17:05:05 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Green Eyez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guy #1- 18, goes to my school, is shy, not sure if he likes me, known him for awhile now, kindof friends and really started talking off of myspace
guy#2- 15, goes to different school, very open, just met him sunday at church, he talked to me, is very insterested in me, invited me to come back... I like both of them a lot! I'm having a hard time deciding which one to go for. I'm not sure about 2 cause of his age but not sure about 1 cause I dunno if he really likes me. but I'd hate to break it off with 2 to go after 1, to realize that 1 don't like me, or vice versa. How do I let 2 down easy if I have to cause he is younger and actually interested in me. I don't know who to choose! I wanna get out of 2 guys before i get too serious with both of them and more emotions are involved. I'm 17 and was raised believing the man should be older than the woman. altho, i really like 1 been to the same school together forever and I've always liked him, but now there is a new guy too!! what do i do?

2007-08-06 17:00:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend have a baby that is by a married women( before we met) we are planning to get married so I want to know if she wanted to seek child support out of anger can she ? And if so well they combine his income and mine or just his income?

2007-08-06 17:00:23 · 23 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my friend on IM and having a great time when my mom called me downstairs and told me to take my brother to the pool for 30 minutes. I didn't want to because I was having a good time, I wanted to relax, and who goes swimming for only 30 minutes? Plus, she said that I could play computer after while she took my brother to a place I like (at first she said it was a secret but it slipped out later). Well, after that, I got mad and said, "No! N-O!"
They just left the house now to go there (didn't go swimming), and I called my mom's phone because i just felt the need to. My brother picked up and I said, "I wanna go!" while tears silently streamed down my face, and he told me, "But it's only for mom and me." (not in a mean way) And my mom took the phone and said, "Just play computer while we go, ok?" and she sounded so kind, and I felt guilty because I was so stubborn and all. I also cried because I was missing out on something fun.
Sorry this was so long. Thanks.

2007-08-06 16:59:28 · 24 answers · asked by CaliGurl♥ 6 in Family

My friend from over a decade recently married a man who is also a friend of mine. She changed drastically after she got married, she stopped having lunch/dinner with our guy friends (were platonic relationships). Her husband hasn't changed at all, I work at the same place as him and I saw him having dinner with this new girl at work 2 nights ago. When I mentioned it to her, she said her husband informed her about going to dinner with the girl from his workplace. I know she is confused about how much interaction is okay with the opposite gender after you are married. What interactions do you married people think are permissible?

2007-08-06 16:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs off and on. We now have a 14 month old. I feel like all we do is fight and when I talk to him about our relationship he sometimes says he wants to be w/me b/c of our daughter, and he's sick of me b/c all I do is gripe. Well I asked him to go to a counsler w/me and he hates the idea, but I think the only way for us to have a fighting chance is to talk to someone and hear what they have to say. I don't want my little girl to grow up in a house where all we do is fight. It's not healthy, but will this work even though he doesn't really want to do it??

2007-08-06 16:53:46 · 27 answers · asked by grlfrmtx04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I would like to renew our wedding vows for our 10-year anniversary. Our wedding had no planning involved. We got married at the courthouse with only a handful of people (7 or 8) I didn't even invite my dad :( , and we didn't have a reception to celebrate. I'm wondering if it would be completely tacky to plan a wedding like I would've wanted it. We are talking about having a ceremony in my husband's parent's backyard. Would a reception at a hall with the D.J. and catered food be too over the top? What about the wedding dress. Any advice about this would be very helpful. I don't want to look like a selfish spoiled brat because I didn't get my wedding the way I wanted it the first time.

2007-08-06 16:52:01 · 10 answers · asked by jess37_99 1 in Weddings

me and my b/f have been dating for 4 years. and he keeps talking about marriage but i'm not all that sure i like him and we've been together for a long time what should i choose?

2007-08-06 16:45:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you have questions regarding S**, where are you supposed to ask them. I came across a gay,lesbian category but couldn't find any heterosexual s** category?

2007-08-06 16:45:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 16:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by LOST 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My cousin was at a basketball camp for the summer. The coach Mr. Kohler is a little racist. Well just today she told us that the coach was getting a little upset because she missed the shots. She told us that the coach pulled her aside and said "what the hell was you thinking." Before she could say anything he told her to fix her weave it is a major distraction to the game. My cousin only had a long multi color weave so i dont know how that could be a distraction.We should of known he was racist because there were hardly any "sistas" in the game. This is suppose to be a christian enviornment but how can it be if theres racism going on.

2007-08-06 16:41:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah, I know some of you will give me "special" answers, but WTF?

2007-08-06 16:40:37 · 17 answers · asked by spartacus_nuc 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we've had lots of sex and she says most of the time she is very satisfied and yet i cant make her orgasm please help me it worries me that i cant make her orgasm ....thank you in advanced

2007-08-06 16:40:09 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 16:38:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 16:35:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this couple years ago and became friends with them. Whats even better is that they wound up getting married. Now they have a house and two children together. Three years ago while i was over their house her husband made a move on me. Of course nothing happened cause i wasn't having it. But things changed between her and i . Our friendship changed. After this incident occured i left to college without saying goodbye. She questioned my behavior but i made up an excuse for my behavior. When i moved back i sought her out because i missed her so much, she is important to me. the only thing is that she always does everything with her husband and invites me over for dinner. I cant stand him and now her and i dont even speak anymore. she seeks me out and wonders about my behavior. He was drinking that night, is that an excuse? Should i tell her the real deal with everything she has invested? Should i just say goodbye to the friendship and let her come up with her assumptions?

2007-08-06 16:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i live in pennsylvania with my aunt and my mom, 2 little sisters, step dad, and step brother live in virginia.....Well when ever they come up to visit my little sister (seneca) always bugs me 2 the point where i yell at her, no matter what its always me who gets in trouble because my mom always takes her side! Seneca doesn't just do it to me....she does it to Sammi (my other sis), Cody (my step brother), and our older cousins (caleb and alec) but she never gets in trouble....its always one of us....my mom is the only one who's in "denial" about the way my sister acts while everyone else already knows. the worst part is i was supposed 2 go to virginia this week to stay with my mom but seneca came up 4 the weekend and got me in trouble so i couldn't go! Is there anyway for me to make my mom realize that its Seneca who starts all the sh*t and not us!?

(oh and i'd just like to say....all the other adults believe me, my sis, my step bro, and our cousins and never her)

2007-08-06 16:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4 in Family

Why do people feel or say sex is wrong, its bad, or its nasty?

I have been with my Man for 3 years.. no other guys just him and only him.

Besides that.. i just don't understand why people get so a fended by it? My parents never talked about it NOT ONCE TO ME MY HOLE LIFE. and when i lost my V (witch it was 3 years ago) they treated me like i was the biggest slit in the world! Sex is something you do when you love some one.. yeah i understand when people get mad about slut'y girls and nast man whores but thats the GIRLS or GUYS flat they are the ones screw every one in the would and i would understand someone if they didn't like a people cause they slept with every guy they see... but why do people judge you when your with someone for o most 2 years and you and the guy wanna have and talk about sex...

Uhh i know you guys are like what the heck.. but i feel people think of sex as if, if you do it your going to Hell...

WHAT DO you think of sex?????

2007-08-06 16:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for a cute girl to lift up her skirt or strip it off, or do what with it?

2007-08-06 16:34:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Singles & Dating

I once called fives on a chair and my guy friend took it even though he knew i called fives. I then told him to move and he said no so i said if you dont move then i will sit on you and he said ok thats not going to bother me. If he let me sit on his lap does that mean he likes me?

2007-08-06 16:33:08 · 16 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband only sleeps in the bed with me when he wants sex. What is wrong? i am 5'9 156lbs. I measure 36-30-42. When we met I measured 34-26-40. And I just had a baby 8mths ago. I bust my *** everyday going to work, school, taking care of my son and working out. Am I out of shap, or doing something wrong?

2007-08-06 16:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by MrsMarshall 2 in Marriage & Divorce