need more information but if this is someone that really loves you and you really love then you should probably stand by them until there is really no hope of significant recovery. If the are a vegtable then i wouldn't see a problem with it as long as you don't completely forget about them and take care of whatever needs they may have, medical expenses, checking with doctors and so forth.
2007-08-06 16:53:13
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answered by AH SHIIII... 2
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Why would you want to go out with someone else because your wife is in a nursing home? She is not dead, visit your wife in the home, communicate with her and allow her to feel good about the man she married. No one knows what better or worse is going to be until it happens. What if you were the one in the nursing home? Would you want her to be galivanting all over the place with other men? Get a grip of yourself.
2007-08-06 23:56:03
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answered by matureenough 1
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I honestly wouldn't just yet. I would wait until your wife has passed away, or is just ill enough to where she wouldnt really care. or your could ask her. but at the moment, if you went out w/someone else and didnt tell her and she found, she wouldnt be a happy camper. Also even if you DID tell her, it might look like she's okay with it, but deep inside she might not like it... but who knows. just go w/ur gut
2007-08-06 23:55:45
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answered by Clear eyes,Full Hearts,Cant Lose 2
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How would you feel if you were the one in the nursing home and your wife stepped out on you?
2007-08-07 00:09:51
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answered by Anonymous
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You forgot to give us some info like age and heath condition. Does that "without any hope of coming home" means she is dying?
2007-08-07 00:08:26
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answered by ? 7
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I work in a nursing home and two of my residents have spouses seeing other people. I have never heard a word against them.
2007-08-06 23:46:29
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answered by nursesr4evr 7
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How would you feel if it was you in the home and your wife out with a hot stud?
2007-08-06 23:53:31
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answered by lily 6
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Have you asked your wife what she thinks ? How would her family feel about the situation ?
2007-08-06 23:46:45
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answered by wesley_1971 4
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That is COLD! Your wife isnt gone yet......that is still considered cheating. What happened to IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH ....remember those words as you gazed in her eyes and said them.
2007-08-06 23:53:24
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answered by Katie 2
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Is she terminally ill ? If so, can't you just be supportive and comfort her during this time? Remember "in sickness and in health"????
2007-08-06 23:53:45
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answered by Anonymous
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