How do I tell my boyfriend, without hurting him, that he is way... you know, too small?

Answer 1

If it's an issue with you already then you just have to let him go and tell him that it just won't work. Let's admit it...a girl shouldn't care about the size of her man's manhood but I'm a guy and I know what I look for in a girl and I understand from the other gender that they have needs too. If he's just too small then you already know he's not going to get bigger. If he's average and you just like "big ones" then I think you need to try and like him for who he is like you already do.

Answer 2

Being hurt or going thru the pain will always be part of our lives. You're asking whether HOW you can tell your bf about.. (you know). This is not a one-fit-all solution for everyone. Meaning there would be enough methods/techniques to be used or probably the right words on how you'll tell the guy? I don't think so. Ok, enough! For me, the only way you can tell him about (again, whatever we say or do especially in a certain situation, still it's going to be painful) is to be honest with him. Tell him the real thing. Open your heart and pray! I hope I gave answer/insight for the right question. Thanks! Am I correct?

Answer 3

If you were to tell him, how would that change anything? Is the problem his size or your satisfaction. If it really is size, then you should just end it and move on, and let him move on to someone who would appreciate him. If this is about satisfaction, then there are other, and better, ways to achieve that. Show him where your buttons are and how to push them. For that matter, I've seen guys do things with their hands that no man could ever do with their...you know. A little imagination will go a very long way.

Answer 4

You don't.

That is so hurtful and really not necessary. Size isn't half as important as technique. Plus, it's not like there's anything he could DO about it.

Instead of injuring his ego, you could look up some positions that might enhance the experience for you and then present it to him like it's a fun adventure that you're interested in trying out with him. You could really enhance the experiences that you have together instead of give him a complex that he might carry for the rest of his life.

Answer 5

Well.. The first thing you need to look at is how many people have you been with? If alot of people it may be you being loose.If you havent been with alot of people and he really is small see if he can do other things besides that, maybe god gave him the talent of eating pussy i dunno lol! I think the average man is 5 inches just for future reference, or you can even get a dildo and have him and the dildo cram into you at the same time.He will get of from shoving something foreign in you and you will as well lol!!

Answer 6

There's no nice way to do that. And if he's really that small, then he's probably self conscious about it already. Just don't tell him, find other ways to improve your sex life. Maybe teach him to do other things, or maybe stop having sex for a while, so you will not be stretched out.

Answer 7

well i think no matter what you will hurt him, and i feel i hope your not leaving him over this, there are other ways and so on,, im trying not to offend or go over board, but they say 3 1/2 say, should reach your area, so i hope it less then that, hey im just trying help here... if he's nice, why would it matter if you have other ways and maybe train him,without hurting him? would make sense..

Answer 8

Guys are very interested in being manly and one way is being able to satisfy a woman. If you tell him that he is not up to tee, that would make him feel less of a man and he would probably dump you. If you really want to be with him and can be subtle and ask him to do other things sexually that you help you both reach orgasm.

Answer 9

I am pretty sure he will understand if you told him, because he has got to know himself, so tell him that the sex is not all that good and give him the reason way, and make a suggestion that he could do other thing to satisfies you, and that you can even try sex toys.

Answer 10

If you honestly loved him, you wouldn't tell him it's too small. When you love someone, you love everything about them, even their body. You would absolutely love the size and not give a damn in the world how big he is and just treasure the relationship and the love-making in general.