Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

we were together 7 yrs. it was a very unhealthy relationship. he is certain i stepped out (but didnt). he throws temper tantums like my 3 yr old if he doesnt get what he wants when he wants it and how he wants it. we are only 15 apart. he is the physical gaurdian, no legal custody was ever awarded. he wants to put our family back together so badly that he threatens very cruel things such as taking our kids and just going somewhere new. threatening my livelihood at work, and to top it off, he gave his mother a power of attorney over my children should anything happen to him. he is further implying suicide could be an option for him if he cant fix our family. he lives with his mom and her family of 4. there are too many ppl by law in that home. even if i could get him somewhere that he can get help, im afraid the state will take our kids due to the compounded situation. do i suffer and do him to keep from such wreckless alternatives? pray for us even if you dont have an answer.

2007-08-06 19:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by $Karma$ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont really know....but i want to know.......

2007-08-06 19:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do woman get over an ex having a child with someone else when they also have a child to them? We have never had closure and still find it easy to tell each other we still are in love with each other! I look around everyday and see families like this and am amazed and intrigued how strong women can be when put in situations like this! I need help with coping and also how do I ensure my child doesn't miss out?

2007-08-06 19:36:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 19:34:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are the guys plan if he gets a woman pregnant?? It is very very hard not to call a man stupid or immature if he splits. If a man doesn't want children why do some refuse to get fixed??????

2007-08-06 19:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Miranda 1 in Singles & Dating

posts slanderous comments and calls this girl who dosent want him names on all these sites on the internet? he has websites up about me?

2007-08-06 19:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being loyal and faithful , but sometimes it becomes unbearable.

How to control my emotions and be normal and avoid the orders and superiority.

2007-08-06 19:27:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a women years ago and I took a carnal liking to her that I thought might go somewhere. I took her around, nothing intimate, (not to say I didn't try).
Her family owns a cram school. One year, they needed a Santa Claus. I couldn't do it, so I asked a friend, who did it, and then he comes back telling me she has a sister who was even hotter.
Uh oh, I thought.
Eventually, I met both of them, and at different times hitting on both, and vice versa, but nothing has come of either.
Now, I work for them, but can't be intimate with either of them.
But, they are equally nice in different ways, yet how on Earth could I ever make up my mind without offending the other or, making the worst choice, played for a fool?
I'm sure other guys have a similar dilemma with them in particular, otherwise they'd be hooked up by now. They are otherwise superior in sex appeal and character.
The first one probably knew this when I met her, so to avoid a scene just acted cold from the onset

2007-08-06 19:26:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and food assistance in Florida. I would really appreciate some advice on where to go to apply. Thank you very much.

2007-08-06 19:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never had a girlfriend, and frankly it is getting both depressing and fustrating. Every girl I talk to that I seem to getting close to being 'more then friends' with says 'I'm nice' and that I can make them laugh very easily, and everywhere I go that is what girls say they want in a guy, so I think, hey maybe this time it will work. Then I ask them out, and they say they aren't ready for a boyfriend, and we should just stay friends, then a week after that they end up going out with one of my best friends. NO I AM NOT LYING, EVERY SINGLE TIME THEY END UP GOING OUT WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS AFTER SAYING THEY DON'T WANT A BOYFRIEND. Girls what do you really want? I think I am a nice guy, I could never be mean or anything, I know I am not 10 out of 10 hottie, but I never get a chance. I am not looking to get laid, I am just tired of being alone, to be with someone. I have never had a date, and I am shy as hell, but I try and be nice and outgoing but nothing ever works, so what is it?

2007-08-06 19:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to tie up my wife for her birthday. I am not sure on how to do this to her though. How do I seduce her to the bedroom? Do I lay her on the bed tied up? Do I let her see or do I put a blindfold on her? And do I make her put on sexy lingerie and then take it off, and start with her completely naked? Also any ideas on what exactly I do to her? And when should I untie her?

Thank you, and what are some other kinky things we could do? (I am 26 she is going to be 25)

2007-08-06 19:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by The Perfect Man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they just want s*x or is there more to it. Cause i broke up with my ex and the ex before that cause all they wanted was s*x. I am 16 and wondering if its true since i am kinda new to dating.

2007-08-06 18:59:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or are they open to a relationship if hes what she wants?

2007-08-06 18:58:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been together with my bf(well,i should call him ex-bf now really)for 3 months,i sensed that something wasnt quite right in the last weeks but he never said anything nor answer my questions when i asked if everything was ok...
We spent the weekend together,after that one last normal call from him and then nothin.silence.he completely disappeared.He abandoned me!i called him and he said some excuse that he was ill and busy(no time for a text?)and that he would call me back after work.i never heard of him again.
After 3 months shared together!!What happened?nothing.
Can someone explain what could ahve happened in his head to give this lame treatment?
Why didnt he leave me face to face instead of doing this?silence is killing me.Give answers please!!thanx

2007-08-06 18:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she burned me pretty bad back then, under the instrusction of her mom, of course. but i still love her so much it hurts even after 10 years. she called me about a year ago to tell me how sorry she was to have done the things she'd done to me and all i could do was try to win her back by bragging about some lamo stuff right off the top. blew it. god, i can't seem to move on! there will never be another her. reality sucks though and i know we have a snowballs chance, but the whole thing has blown my game off like artillary, how do recover from this tailspin that seems to go on forever? i know she still loves me but she feels that she burned me so hard that the damage is permenant, and she might be right, but what am i to do with that!? i've been like a schoolboy with the girls ever since. i just put up this wall as soon as i've made contact. i can't seem to beat it. what can i do?

2007-08-06 18:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm pregnant. I know my man will be happy, we were planing to have kids once we got married, but my parents are going to FREAK!! They think I'm still a virgin! Do ya'll have any tips on how to break it easy to them? My dad has a heart problem so I'm really on egg shells about that. I'm affraid that he's going to have a heart attack. When I took the pregnancy test I wasn't all that surprised that it came out as positive.

2007-08-06 18:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't think I want my parents on the invitation. They are divorced, and aren't helping with the wedding, plus I can't stand my step-dad. My dilemma is that I am getting married in Hawaii on June 7, obviously its not like my entire family can go so I want to go back to my hometown and have the reception there on June 14 or 15th but how exactly should i word it? Also for the wedding favors we should put the date that we got married right?

2007-08-06 18:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husbands brother informed us that he just married his 19 year old girl friend at the court house on aug 1st and is going to have a wedding in two years. I think this is the most idiotic idea i have ever hear of.( both the courthouse so soon and the wedding later) and it bothers me that we are going to have to sit through and join in on this mockery. What is the point......once you are married you can not have a wedding day at a later time that is just tacky. My husband and i were married in june of this year, may be im just being immature in beging bothered by the fact the his brother got married so close to when we did.
Please only serious answers and no insults.

2007-08-06 18:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs ACO 3 in Weddings

I am able to check my boyfriends cell phone bill and found out recently that he has been talking to a girl constantly for the past 3 weeks. I confronted him and he denied it so I called to number and found out that this is the girl that his so called friends were hooking him up with. They had told him that this girl would not sleep with them just him. I didn't think anything of it before because they were not talking but now that he admitted to talking to her I was infuriated. I do not know what to think of it. He told me that she was having problems with her husband and wanted a guys opinion. I asked why she needed to talk to him when they're not even friends and he said he was just trying to help. I feel betrayed even when he said nothing is going on and that he apologized saying he doesn't want to lose me over something that is nothing. I feel betrayed and really hurt by his actions. He said he's willing to do everything if I give him another chance. Help!!!

2007-08-06 18:36:54 · 15 answers · asked by sxyr@in 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres pros and cons for a dude bringing up dating exclusively. She could appreciate the communication about whats going on, or she could freak out and give me the friends speech. Ive known her for a couple months, weve been alone and done the whole cuddling, making out thing. Thanks.

2007-08-06 18:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by methodistmaniak 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been trying to have a baby for about 5 years now and she has had 4 miscarriages. It has made us become distant and our relationship has become very strained. We don't have the fun we used to...and since the last time she miscarried we have hardly had one decent conversation. I almost don't want her to get pregnant now so she doesn't get hurt again and we are pushed to the brink of divorce. Is this normal...to want to give up? Is there any way we can get back to normal? I know a baby would do the trick but I have a gut feeling that that will never happen. We are both 35 btw. Thanks for anyone who helps.

2007-08-06 18:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by jake_s44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is like so big at my school:see my question is,what do u do wen u start to feel like the need to hav sexual intercourse with sumone but ur too young.do u do it becuase if u hav protection or what?how do u calm that need?

2007-08-06 18:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by baby j 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a breast feedeing advocate, and really a good mom, so my question is, how long is too long?

2007-08-06 18:23:19 · 19 answers · asked by pjay 2 in Weddings

My mom got married and thats when i meet my new stepbrother. Well he had to share a bed with me until he moved in completely and well after a while he started grabbing my balls and we went from there. Eventually i had sex with him without a condom but he said he was virgin so i guess its ok. But i dont know is it wrong to sleep with your step brother i mean your not related by blood. hell your strangers.

2007-08-06 18:18:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a goodlooking guy asked you to coffee or lunch would you get upset? today I asked a nice looking women in her early 30's if she would like to have coffee some time and she said "thanks but no thanks' and walked off I was very nice and I'm told I'm a great catch so what gives? I looked for a ring first and she had no ring on any finger.

2007-08-06 18:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a goodlooking guy asked you to coffee or lunch would you get upset? today I asked a nice looking women in her early 30's if she would like to have coffee some time and she said "thanks but no thanks' and walked off I was very nice and I'm told I'm a great catch so what gives? I looked for a ring first and she had no ring on any finger.

2007-08-06 18:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Accident? On purpose?
http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/national/1120AP_ODD_Ashes_Sold.html?source=mypi
Your thoughts.

2007-08-06 18:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are doing the long-distance thing and we were once (when we lived a few miles apart) very close...as in we spoke about marriage and everything. Well, now that we live 2 states apart, we have nothing to talk about. I feel that we're not as connected. We both talk about superficial things that happen to us during the day--the kind of stuff you talk to with a grandparent you haven't spoken to for a while and have nothing much to talk about. We never had a communication problem, and I worry that the problem is just that we don't have much to say. But there has to be a few good things we can talk about to flirt with each other, learn more about each other, and grow closer--even if it is mostly over the telephone. Does anyone have any good ideas of topics I can bring up to him or any advice on how to flesh out the conversations we do have? I'm sick of us boring each other! He's an amazing man and this is a wonderful relationship that I DEFINITELY don't want to lose!

2007-08-06 18:17:02 · 7 answers · asked by the_ivy_vine 5 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend and i were having a conversation about our relationship and stuff and it got pretty intense and we somehow ended up on the subject of cheating and i said something. I said that i dont think he cheats on me but i sometimes wonder ''What if he is'' and he got soo mad at me that he said he needed time alone and that he'd talk to me when he felt better cause he didnt know wat to say to me. After he said that i have felt soo terrible now and i've been crying for the past hour but he doesnt know why i think what i told him i do, but i dont know how to tell him why i think what i do. So i think im going to write him a letter(and drop it off at his house). So tell me, was i wrong?

2007-08-06 18:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf Tyler (Ty) plays football. One day, I went to one of his games and not as a cheerleader which I am. He got knocked over hard and was torn up at his ancle. He wanted to play but I held him down. He was 2 hurt... I told the coach to make him sit. After a LONG fight he sat. I sat beside him. Being told what to do when he doesn't want to do it makes him mad. He got so mad that on the way home he crashed. I was sitting in the passenger seat and screamed when he crashed into a wall. I had put my hands up and was OK but the car was crushed. I looked over at Ty and saw him slumped in the seat out cold. I screaned his name over & over. He didn't wake up even when I shook him. I was hugged andmobed by friends and family as I was taken out of the car and checked out OK. Ty was in a coma. The paremedics wouldn't let me ride with him but I insisted. He's still in a coma and it's a week later. It's all my fault isn't it? I haven't ate slept or anything in a week and I've been by his side.

2007-08-06 18:12:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating