I think I'm pregnant. I know my man will be happy, we were planing to have kids once we got married, but my parents are going to FREAK!! They think I'm still a virgin! Do ya'll have any tips on how to break it easy to them? My dad has a heart problem so I'm really on egg shells about that. I'm affraid that he's going to have a heart attack. When I took the pregnancy test I wasn't all that surprised that it came out as positive.
2007-08-06 18:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its never easy but maybe talk to your mom first and tell her and let her know why you are scared to tell your father as he has a heart problems. maybe that way your mom will be able to tell him in her own way. but just remember you have not done anything wrong its all part of life your not the first and you want be the last.
2007-08-06 18:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
congrats if you are. The easiest way is just to tell them. My parents were divorced at the time so I told them seperately. If your parents are still together, I'm sure that after all these years of being together, your mother should be able to tell your father so that he won't go into shock. Just tell them your pregnant, your plans of marriage and even if they are disappointed at the timing, once they realize they have a grandchild coming... most human beings with a heart will be excited and happy. good luck
2007-08-06 19:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by purplelites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom first then ask her to help you break the news to your dad...she would know better how to tell him about it...make sure that your guy is at hand...so that when your dad asks you about your plans, you can show that you are responsible enough to handle the situation and that your guy will stand by you and the baby...that will lessen the pain for your dad...parents love their children and they just don't want them ruining their lives...reassure him that you and your bf love each other and will bring up the baby together...
2007-08-06 19:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. Talk to your mom and she'll know the best way to tell your dad.
2007-08-06 18:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by LindaInNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him eventually better now than later because if you wait ill make it that much worse.
try some hints at first to start the topic then go with it just try not to think it too much at the moment
2007-08-06 19:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Osc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom and let her figure out the best way to tell your dad.
2007-08-06 18:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your mother to tell your dad, she will know how to break itr to him easier, and the matter of telling them, easy, all you can really do is just come out and say it
2007-08-06 18:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can either come out and tell them or you can wait until they notice your growing belly.
2007-08-06 19:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋