Or are they open to a relationship if hes what she wants?
2007-08-06 18:58:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I doubt it........give it a go!
2007-08-06 19:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting question. I myself was in that situation and at that time determined that I was probably never going to marry again. I was settled on being mom and figured that was that.
The funny thing is I had some great male friends and they too were content with their lives. So I kind of gravitated towards the ones that were just looking for friendship and companionship. It seemed at the time to be the right answer.
After about four years of a friendship I became attached to a very wonderful man and discovered it was love. So to make a long story short I did marry again and I was truly amazed.
It's been over 20 years and things are just great. I now believe in Happy Endings. I think this can happen to anyone. Especially if you're not looking for love. I guess it just happens and you are pleasantly surprised!
Hope this answers your question.
2007-08-06 19:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Grenadine Pala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness gracie lady! How do you fall in love with 3 adult men? Edward, your husband, he cheated on you! two times! the 1st suspicion of untrue-ness is while that guy could have long previous. once you provide him 2nd possibilities, he looses admire for you reason he's familiar with he can love yet another woman and you not care. He needs to nicely known that not your unlikely to tolorate this cheating he doing and as long as your around it wont be taking place. And did you're saying you the two produce people you're seeing?! it extremely is the main messed-up, weird and wonderful, undesirable relationship difficulty I honestly have EVER herd. Im sorry yet come on lady, Make up your recommendations! This isnt severe-college, those arent little boys and you cant play with their hearts like this! it is the genuine international and those are GROWN adult men and it shocks me that somebody might manage it the way you're. My suggestion, forget approximately all of them. as quickly as thats over, you're able to bypass into your heart and you will discover which guy you elect to spend the the remainder of your existence with. despite if its one among them or not the time to make a determination replaced right into a longggg time in the past. i'm hoping i helped hun (: -Chelsea
2016-10-09 09:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by earles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women in there 30's with children there are many more factors of a relationship..many more questions that go through there heads when finding someone to date...sometimes we think it is just better to forget about it, but at the same time we still enjoy love and companionship...i guess best answer i can give is it is different for each individual...
2007-08-06 19:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never give up looking but maybe she is not ready for a relationship just yet. having children takes a lot of moms time maybe the father of the children has treated her bad and at this time in her life she is happy to be just single nothing wrong with that. when the time is right and she is ready she will meet someone.
2007-08-06 19:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when starting a relationship with a single mom, the best way to know if its the best thing is if you can honestly say that you can be friends as well. i can understand her reluctancy. because single moms dont want to have different men coming in their childrens lives. tell her that if you can be friends first, really get to know one another that maybe you could start a relationship. either your compatable or your not. if not dont be too hard on yuorself.
2007-08-06 19:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the woman...some might feel burned because of all the hurt she went through with the father of her children...but then some women might want to find a father for her kids and so are open to dating again...
but whatever type she is, it is important to treat her with love and respect...also women with kids like it if the new men in their lives accept her kids without question...
2007-08-06 19:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope Its Just harder to support in a way they don't give up they just havent found someone to love em with the kids
but keep in mind Kids come 1st in that relationship
2007-08-06 19:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by tainted1wolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give up. I was in those same shoes and met a wonderful man. Funny when we first started going out he wasnt sure he wanted to have kids around again. His kids were all grown and mine were in grade school. But we have been together for 8 yrs and he treats my kids better than their own dad treats them. DONT GIVE UP!
2007-08-06 19:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are open to a relationship and not with their arms only. : ) And not in their 30's, 40's, 50's and up only.
2007-08-06 19:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that one gives up on love no matter what the age? Is 30 really all that old to you? If it is, maybe the age gap is too great between the two of you.
2007-08-06 19:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋