Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

If you have a wedding at the beach and it causes for your guest to rent a hotel room who eats that cost? The bride and groom or the guest?

2007-08-06 02:52:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean women are having sex for sex nowdays,,will it be safe to say that sex should be sex allready ? i mean i can go thinking about what she will or will not think about,,, think about it,,, if they like it then its love,,if they dont then its sex,,if we like it then its still sex,,if we dont like it and move in then we are a player,,,,..... shouldnt sex be sex allready ? just a physical pleasure ? i know there is some women out there still think of sex of intimacy thing, but i cant go and figure out what she wants because their feelings changes in seconds, no point investing my feelings in something that she will either take as sex or love or just a pleasure, get what i mean ? well as for me got hurt thinking it was love, yup, i think in a way its women that makes a guy that way,,,I dont know but i know one thing that is i will only love the women 100% if im married to her before that its just testing the water,, you can argue but even women treat it this way nowdays

2007-08-06 02:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I tell a guy that I love him, in a joking way, so he doesn't get scared because i've known him for only a month, but still get the message?

2007-08-06 02:51:28 · 27 answers · asked by The Universal Brain System 1 in Singles & Dating

Be a bit upset when i see my parents killing flies with fly killer.
I know their dirty and they throw up on your food,then stamp it in but i'd rather let the out the window thats actually the easier way. That spray burns them
I just dont think its right
Am i wrong?

2007-08-06 02:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Family

2007-08-06 02:49:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 02:47:51 · 1 answers · asked by instructror2006 1 in Singles & Dating

And now she wants to take my daughter to live in turkey. my daughter was born after march 1st 2003, and i am named on the birth cirtificate. I know i have parental responsibility, but would she still be able to take my daughter there to live. I normally have my daughter every weekend, and also see her on a wednesday. any answers would be very greatful. Thanks

2007-08-06 02:46:44 · 5 answers · asked by edward b 1 in Family

well, my friend started dating a girl, a week ago he asked me if i could hang out with him, well i agreed.
everything was fine, untill his girlfriend came, and of course he abandond me and started talking to her, i was left alone in the juice shop, and oh brother he forgot to pay for his things, too.
i felt like a rag, i got old, and he bought a new one, and put me in the trash can! and 3 days a go the same happend, and today too.
and when she is not around he keeps laughting with her on the cell phone, i mean why invite me to come if he is going to talk to his gf.
i know it is important to him, but she is taking all his time, she is his gf for only 5 or 6 weeks and i knew him since kindegardan!

2007-08-06 02:44:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-06 02:43:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 20 been with partner for two years and just not fussed bout sx!! thing is he doesnt even try any more because he knows im not interested. he is well endowed but i jus dont enjoy it and dont care if we dont for months!is this weird, any other girls feel like this?

2007-08-06 02:41:59 · 30 answers · asked by georgina d 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married four years, we moved to the USA after losing everything in a Hurricane. I am from the USA and he is from a caribbean island. He is not well educated and has not made any attempts ( i have tried) to educate himself further. This leave me with 95% of the the daily responsibilites. I am tired of doing everything and having to make all major decision without assistance. When I ask him for help with something he says that i am too bossy and to much like his mother... I am afraid he has lost his sence of manhood. I have become extreemly stressed and it is causing health problems things are getting worse. We bought a home a couple of years ago, and I too have turned into a plumber, carpenter, etc while he takes the time to washing his vechile./... My god can you help me fix this plugged pipe... Stop telling me what to do ( his typical replay. I am seaking legal help and I want out of this endless torment...... do anyone have any advice

2007-08-06 02:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My finance & I had a an arguement the other day when his family came over for a cookout. Everything is fine until his uncle starts talking about the bible.. and jesus.. yayda yayda. **I do not believe in god, the church, heaven, hell.. none of it.. I think it's all a big lie** So after 1/2 hr of bible study I was sick of hearing about his religous experiences and went in the house. My fiance comes in 10 minutes later and says i'm being closed minded, and rude- said that it looks bad. Well I didn't care. I wasn't in the mood to hear it. Well after everyone left and we were lying in bed he basically said that there are some things we need to work out before we can get married. He's afraid when we die we won't go to the same place, and that me not believing will eventually pull us apart. Im never going to believe what he does. But he says I won't even give it a chance and he's right. It's like flying purple elephants. it's silly. How can we be happy if Jesus keeps pulling us apart?

2007-08-06 02:39:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Should the wedding invitation card have a return address ?...I Know the response card does but not the outer card...HELP!!

2007-08-06 02:37:28 · 7 answers · asked by suzy 1 in Weddings

My sister is getting married & I can't even find a boyfriend.
My brother has a beautiful little girl & she gets all of my parents attention. I am so jealous. I am going to college next week & I think they are going to forget all about me. Should I just forget them & get my own life like they have. I am 16 by the way!

2007-08-06 02:35:58 · 12 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Family

Been with a girl a few weeks, Ive always been nothing but honest with her because she talks about how much she hates being lied to, yet, I found out a week ago that she has dated a girl before. She talks about this girl everytime her name is mentioned saying how much she hates her, but she lied to me about the reasons why she hates her.

2007-08-06 02:34:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a group opinion...My boyfriend of 3 years has never known his father. He apparently died when he was 5 years old and at that point his mother put away all the picture and memorabilia of his father.

He is now 31 and has never known what happen, or who his father really was. I feel He has some attachment issues, and think if he found out what happen to his dad some of those problems would go away...

What do you think? Should I encourage him to finally ask his mom to see the photo albums that are in her closet?

I am just concerned for him, and can't imagine not knowing what happened.

Thanks

2007-08-06 02:34:25 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

Well my husband has been offered a job in Mexico City I was Inquiring about the relocation if its worth it or not. They offered him 100,00-125,000 a yr. He'll be employed by an American company but just over there.Do u think its worth it??I need opinions My husband says I have the final answer

2007-08-06 02:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by A G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

About 7 years ago there was a huge family argument.I no longer speak to my mother, or her sister (my aunt, obviously) I moved house and my aunt would drive up outside and sit and stare at the house.Two years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer.It's only now after treatment and operations that I can get back to driving.This aunt stalked me all around Tesco today, and she even sat outside and waited to see what car I drove.She stared at me and my kids, then pointed us out to my niece who was sat alongside her.I don't really want to go to the police at this stage.Her behaviour is menacing and it upsets my youngest son.I've looked through the net to see what advice I can get, but nothing stands out.Have you suffered something similar? Please tell me how you dealt with it.Thank you.I have clinical depression, and this woman is getting to me.I don't want to end up being housebound and afraid to go outside.

2007-08-06 02:30:08 · 29 answers · asked by CMH 6 in Family

I love my best friend and my best friend gave me signals nd flirts with me alot ...nd everyone thinks i should tell him i like him and try to take that risk when he comes back from vacation. The thing is before i say anything i want to be that perfetc girl and perfect best friend... so can u guys plz tell me what do guys look at for a girl and wat do guys look at for the perfect friend..i dunt just wanna be his girl i wanna be his best friend before that (whihc i allready practically am)..but yea..plzz help me noee??is it all about looks or personality?? if personlaity plz describe everything!!...plus me nd him went out last year for a couple ov monthss..

2007-08-06 02:23:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They say you can relate to a song. May it be in the past, now or for hopes in the future, What song can represent it? Kindly cite examples and details. Does music elevate your soul? for me, it does.


Me? As of now, I listen to My Chemical Romance's I DON'T LOVE YOU.

It portrays my feelings for my x. He is my first true love. Well I thought it was until I found out nothing will be right until two people wants to work it out. I gave him my all and attended to his needs but the heart tends to give in to exhaustion. It loves without boundaries but it can reach a point where it's stop beating for someone. Falling out of love.

What is your song and story?

2007-08-06 02:21:24 · 5 answers · asked by RuSSian Empress 2 in Singles & Dating

Knowing that he left you without any explanation, months later he calls you asking to see you once again, would you go? Lets say that you do. But then he calls you telling you how he misses you n **** how he “matured“, take you more “seriously” - yet, he doesn’t show up? And when you guys finally meet, he’s cold and tells you that he’s no longer into public affection but he has the guts to kiss you passionately during the movie anyways? A week later he calls you asking about the “future” then next thing you know he calls you once again, telling you that he’s “sorry” but it’s better for us to be friends???? HUH???? What?!?!? The only explanation he gave me was: I don’t feel the same way, it’s all because of you, I only missed you as a frd, plus it was your mistake that things ended the way they did… I’m never going to get over it! Why do I have to take all the blame? Just for hanging out with my frds at some public place when he told me not 2? It’s not like if I cheated on him! Or maybe I should have. Now that we’re “frds” he can’t accept the fact that I took it serious?

Therefore, my question is: Why would he still want to be my frd? What’s so good about it? What is he trying to get out of this? What game is he playing?

2007-08-06 02:18:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Further more she makes a lot of noise when she eats...

2007-08-06 02:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so for the last year or so there's been a group of us 12 friends (ages between 21 - 36) who get together at our local bar and hang out and have a blast together. About 3 months ago, this girl got herself included into our group because one of the guys felt sorry for her sitting all by herself all the time.

Since then our group hasn't been the same. Slowly over time our group has separated to the point where even when we're all at the same place we don't sit together.

But it was when all the girls in our group of 12 (8 girls and 4 guys) started comparing notes that we realized that this Drama Queen had been saying nasty stuff and making up stuff about each and every girl in our group. Now we have 8 angry frustrated chicks and a girl who sits with 2 of the four boys from our group by themselves. What should we do about it?

None of us want to lose the two guys to her darkside. I need serious suggestions! Thanks

2007-08-06 02:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by Lee Ann 4 in Friends

My boyfriend and I work at the same job. We have a baby together. We even have the same baby picutres on our desks! (very cute!) Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't.

Pros: I get to see him around the clock, we take breaks and lunches together, we take our vacations together, I never have to worry about if he's cheating on the job, because I physically see him... he sits across the aisle from me. Birthdays and Valentine's Day is really special, especially on the job.

Cons: When we are not getting along, everybody knows about it, other women talking to him about non-work related things to make me mad, females lying and telling him things that I susposedly said that's not even true (he has trust issues), men scared to speak to me because of what he might say or do, I get too many phone calls (in his opinion). (It's calls from school and daycare and other affairs of the home.)

Is anybody going through the same thing? What is it like for you?

2007-08-06 02:06:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife is having some self-image problems because of some weight gains and not feeling of value because she decided to be a stay at home mom. Her two siblings were recently promoted (she had been a small bank vice president). She tells me she really cannot enjoy sex that much when she is depressed and when she's not feeling much connection between us because we don't have a lot of quality time. We are on a tight budget, so we do not get out much as a couple. Questions: Is it my job to help with her self-esteem? What can I do to connect with her more?

Our kids are 7 and 10 and she could go back in the work force now, at least part-time if she chose. So is that part of the picture? She's not feeling real motivated to do that either.

2007-08-06 02:02:30 · 12 answers · asked by Wolfithius 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 02:01:19 · 45 answers · asked by suzie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have done nothing but show her respect from day one yet all she does is bully me, have digs at me, it is getting to the point where i became suicidal. A few of the things that she does:
*thinks i am her slave and berates me for not cleaning 24/7 even though i work and she doesn't *tells me that i am ugly in comparison to her son (i am not) *thinks i don't know anything (i have a degree) *tells me how to dress
*tells me she looks better than me because she wears make up when going to town and i choose not to *has tried splitting up my marriage*talks about me behind my back*tries to play my husband off against me *wants money from us for everything*is always making digs at me because i am a different religion and I don't do as she says
these are just some of the things, bear in mind that they might not sound like a lot but this has been continuous for 3 years (we live with her as we cannot afford to move out yet) and I have done nothing but show her respect, she doesn't deserve it.

2007-08-06 01:58:35 · 19 answers · asked by Scampi 3 in Family

Girls which guy would you choose and why??

1 --Muscualr ,bulit guy with angular facial featueres ,defined jaw line,high cheek bones,chissled face ,great personallity

2--Muscular bulit guy,soft facial features, rounded not very defined jaw line,high cheek bones,Fuller face.great persoannality.

which guy would you choose and why please only choose one?

2007-08-06 01:55:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just really depressed right now. i left home about 5 years ago because of my dad. he wouldnt let me date, read magazines, or watch hardly any tv. i was 19. now my little sister is leaving for the same reasons. but she brought me into their argument and told him that i said he was too controlling. so he calls me up at about 7:30 this morning asking me if it was true. i didnt know what to say. we hadnt fought since i had my baby, and he gave me money when my husband got laid off. now he's throwing that in my face. i dont know what to do now and i feel really depressed. how would you guys handle being put on the spot when someone asks you "do you think im controlling?". i need some advice on how to get myself out of this mess

2007-08-06 01:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by happyrayz 1 in Family

need some interseting ragging ideas, some really creative ones that everyone can enjoy....

Pls, the ideas should be such that no one is physically, mentally or emotoinally harmed....

Plz help me make this session with our juniors memorable...

2007-08-06 01:52:33 · 2 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Friends