I mean women are having sex for sex nowdays,,will it be safe to say that sex should be sex allready ? i mean i can go thinking about what she will or will not think about,,, think about it,,, if they like it then its love,,if they dont then its sex,,if we like it then its still sex,,if we dont like it and move in then we are a player,,,,..... shouldnt sex be sex allready ? just a physical pleasure ? i know there is some women out there still think of sex of intimacy thing, but i cant go and figure out what she wants because their feelings changes in seconds, no point investing my feelings in something that she will either take as sex or love or just a pleasure, get what i mean ? well as for me got hurt thinking it was love, yup, i think in a way its women that makes a guy that way,,,I dont know but i know one thing that is i will only love the women 100% if im married to her before that its just testing the water,, you can argue but even women treat it this way nowdays
2007-08-06 02:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-06 02:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between having sex and making love. Having sex is just something you do when your just doing it to do it or just like the person. Making love is when your in love with the person your with. Well at least that is how i feel about it. Yeah your right. Some girls are just looking to have sex with someone and not wanting any strings attached but some guys are having sex and not wanting any strings attached to. But we also have to remember that some people do become emotional and do become attached after having sex. Yeah it feels good and we may think it is the right thing to do at that very moment but some times after a while we go back and think about it and feel bad and wish we could take it back. I have known people that have had sex and feel like **** afterwards, but that is something we need to think about before we hook with someone. Not only that how do we know if the other person has an STD, if it is a one night stand that other person wouldn't tell you not in less they are a good about telling the other person before they have sex. That is how I feel. I don't if I help you in any way by answering your question but at least I gave you my option.
2007-08-06 03:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by elmo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i saw a rerun of Sex and the City and this was actually the topic.
the girls on the show were considering just having "sex like a man" -- no emotions attached.... and they tried it... some of it was successful, but when it came to a certain guy, they couldn't disattach themselves and not feel emotional.
if we are in love then we are! if we aren't then... we can't force ourselves to feel love.
i think that the majority of women today still want an attachment with sex... that doesn't mean there always is.
if you don't love a girl, but want sex... PLEASE don't tell her you do, just to get her in bed... this can be emotionally devastating....and harmful, believe me.
casual sexual relationships do happen quite frequently, as well as loving sexual relationships.
i dont' have anything to argue about. i dont' think this is a debate. everyone gets hurt, men AND women... heartache isn't gender-specific.
hugs
2007-08-06 03:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've recently met a few people who only do it for the physical release, men and women both. These people usually seem to have had some emotional trauma/tragedy in the past that makes them swear off love and relationships. Someone like that seems to be able to keep it sex only. I think most people, though, hope to eventually find love and companionship, even while they say they are only interested in sex for sex's sake.
2007-08-06 03:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person decides on the emotional attachment in love, so there are no general rules, which means proceed with caution.
If we could have sex only after marriage, half the questions in here would just go away.
2007-08-06 02:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think sex is related to love...if i wanna have sex with some one with max pleasure i will HAVE to love her.
I wont sex up a slut that good as my gf.
Think bout it...its the truth.
Sad thing women dont take it this way (i guess). They take sex as an out side romance thing.
2007-08-06 03:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think nowadays sex CAN be just sex but sometimes it can mean more. It shouldn't come as a surprise to you that women are hard to figure out, that will never change
2007-08-06 02:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got met a pair of ladies that have been into casual, actual in simple terms, intercourse, and that they've been somewhat stressful circumstances. not possibly beneficial people. maximum women folk say they don't possibly separate the sentiments from intercourse. regardless of "casual" affairs, they are connecting emotionally at some point. i might choose to take heed to from distinctive women in this concern.
2016-10-09 08:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by cracchiolo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol... you can make yourself believe this rant, but in the end... lol...
2007-08-06 02:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-08-06 03:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by tori Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋